Date men from United States / California / Orangevale, 49 year old

Date someone special from Orangevale, United States. Looks like they will not let me fill in the extra space with LALALALA. :)
So....... I'm looking for a woman who knows what she wants. Who knows who she is. Is not a victim of her past. And is done with all the BS most guys try to feed them. I'm not here to be one of them. I would like to find someone who is capable of loving another as they themselves want to be loved. Where there's trust and loyalty both ways. Integrity is a must.
I am an established business owner. I love the outdoors. I love to fish, camp, play, ski, drive, ride. I have horses and live in the city now. Moved down the hill and do not really care for the city, but right now it's where I need to be. Purchased a home where I can be centrally located and more efficient.
I think that when you find the one you've been searching for? You can feel it. But it has to be mutual and an honest feeling. It can't be, "wow this guy is hot and has his shit together I think he will be good" feeling. I've been used before. I don't need that ever again, and I'm not a fool. Like me, Love me, just don't bs me.
I think I'm capable of making any woman very happy. But I'm not looking for just any woman. I'm looking for you. I've been searching my whole life. Why are you still reading this? When you know you need to be writing. I'm here. Waiting.

Meet single man from Orangevale, United States. I come from a great family and all really good people. I have a good amount of really cool interests which fluctuate throughout the year.
Fairly athletic in many sports/activities/interests but golf is a passion. Getting out with friends or even a walk-on at various links come natural. Be great to meet a woman who appreciates the sport and looks forward to vacation around it along the way.
Outside of golfing, staying semi-fit and eating well comes with the package. When not gravitated to the office, I can be found on the trails (hike/bike), coffee at a local place on a Sunday reading the business rag. I do not have much flexibility and time with my professional career but very fortunate for what I have. While joy on children’s faces, laughter, arts, history, animals, a strong sense of core values, sound character and being a pillar to my family are central, my life is full and complete in many ways with one exception and have a little more time to explore a great relationship.
Friendship is central to the core of a relationship so I am fairly direct with an affectionate delivery, well traveled, protective of those close, carry little baggage, have a slight edge, chivalrous and own-up to my mistakes.
Decisive/confident but not arrogant, quick witted with a wonderful spirit; yet not easily defeated, respective of others but far from a push over (so nobody kicks sand in my face at the beach!) Plus I’m a blast and comfortable to be around.
You: Comfortable in your own skin and would be great if you like to play golf (not a total show stopper but happy to give a few pointers).. But wait.. said that in the intro.
I am partial to a self-motivating woman with a witty sarcastic sense of humor which is balanced with a mature sense of responsibility, appreciates a variety of music, travel, likes to dress up and go out for the evening or stay in with a cool flick or cook and spend a quiet evening playing back-gammon with a great bottle of Red with the tunes of Sinatra/Van Morrison: (you name it- it's all about the company right?). Plus, I’ll make you laugh till you say uncle.
Add in an incredible connection/chemistry and play off each others humor - Toss in a little respectful banter; we have a great match!
But this is why you are really great: You’re an independent woman of substance, respectable and admirable; communication and being trustful and trustworthy revolve around who you are as a woman.
I like to meet an amazing woman who enjoys her life and has remained optimistic about the chances of meeting a really cool man. Different interests are fantastic but both bringing something unique to the table is huge!