Date men from United States / California / Malibu, 49 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. “Security and adventure”….that’s what a wise old man once told me when I was too young to understand but sensed he was onto something. “The key to keeping a woman happy is to provide her with security and adventure. One without the other and you will lose her”.
Prefer to meet someone who realizes that although romantic love is a delicious fairytale to be savored of course, real love is what one is and what one gives, and not something you find on a website or a reality TV show. So , if you agree that love is what we give each other and desire is what we want to get, a great match would be someone who understands how giving maintains desire and passion in a long term relationship. Not interested in serial daters or romance addicts who want the fantasy without the dedication co-creative romance requires.
Me: all American world traveler. Work and previous residences in New York, Paris, London, South Africa, Japan, Australia with visits to over a hundred international cities in-between. After living in Paris and London for 7 years I learned that Americans live to work and Europeans work to live. I prefer the European approach to life. Educated at Juilliard in New York then a long career in photography and luxury brand sales before deciding to � dig deeper’ by attending USM school of Spiritual Psychology Masters Program in Los Angeles . This, for my inner growth, not a career change. I learned a lot about the wisdom of the heart (heart prajna) , healing childhood wounds and the authentic -vs- egoic self. Refreshing and life changing after multiple world tours in a �glamorous’, superficial industry and a lifetime of seeking outside what was always awaiting within. �Landed’ my ego at USM. thank god, and would love to meet someone who has theirs under control too. Raised two step-sons from diapers, both in college for international business and Medicine, so landed ego aside, I’m really proud and grateful for them.
So romantic walks, talks, chants, swims, meals, hugs and kisses I can show you in many countries and several languages. Many people can. The mystery and adventure is do our souls match and what do they have to lovingly learn from each other when we both chose to connect. Attraction �chemistry’ is predictably programmed and automatic so just a few pictures or words can start the process. It’s how the energies blend after that of course which determine who become mates or just friends. Who wants just another lover when the bliss of sharing, blending and co-creating conscious love and desire await a lucky few…I hope you find that person here or elsewhere .

Meet a man from United States. I am someone who loves to stay active. I believe in working hard and playing hard.I am a water man surfing, boating, and just being close to the ocean makes me happy. Friends and family are very important to me. In what I am looking for is some I can share my life with. Its all about chemistry without that its not going to last . I have your back you have my back and so on. I like traveling and checking out new places and things.
Laughing is important we all need a little of that in are life.

Date single man from United States. Funny, handsome, and I might sing you a song.
Lets take the dirtbikes out to the desert and cook over an open fire. We'll uncork a bottle of wine and toast the sunset and then sing around the fire with friends or by ourselves. We can laugh ourselves to sleep and wake up and do it again.
O.K. now, so I can't begin to describe myself really so I just posted a bunch of photos with captions. This should give you an idea of who I am. There is so much more to me and hopefully we can meet and talk about it. I build custom Homes for a living and love my work. A creative outlet that I use constantly. I play a little guitar and write songs and who knows, maybe I'll get the old band back together for a party or two. Ultimately we need to meet and feel the chemistry and how bad could that be. Worse case scenario is, we have some laughs and go home. But what if we feel that spark? That's what I'm looking for, spark me baby!
I want it all! I may be a strong, big, rough and tumble kinda man's man, (as clearly evidenced in photos) but I am also sensual, sensitive, and know that " The best and most meaningful things in life can not be seen or touched, they must be felt with the heart."
I'm looking to fill my heart and my life even more than they are now.
I've done many things in life that some only dream of. I've surfed, skied, fished, dove, island hopped in my own boat, all over the world, traveled all over Asia on buying trips when I was in the art business and so much more. I've transformed customers homes from the ground up and became friends with them all. I've been a contractor with my own business for a long and exciting time.
Still to this day my biggest accomplishment and joy are my kids. I've got the coolest, most outgoing and funny kids and they never fail to make me laugh and smile.
So here I am looking for the one thing in life that I miss, crave, and look forward to. Love with a true partner and best friend.
I'm as independent as they come and have no problem being alone but there is nothing better than that feeling of being in love and just crazy about your partner. That confidence in a relationship where you're never worried or jealous because you know I'm with you and you're with me. We're just a team and so much stronger together. When we laugh, we laugh hard, when we love, we love even harder.
I'm looking for that special person that makes all of this easy and wants to share their life with mine.
We'll have fun and romance all the time, and we'll have each other and the world to share.

Meet someone special from United States. My friends would describe me as an artistic and creative thinker, but also an engineer with a scientific approach, a different sense of humor and definitely a NON-LA person. In a relationship I'm looking for honesty, a BEST friend, the old saying: love is friendship set on fire - that says it all. I'd love to find someone to share it all with, go skiing, travel, fine dining as well as casual, fine art, sculptures, anything creative. I love movies, used to have my own small movie theater, not into TV that much, please don't be a reality TV junkie.
I have traveled and lived in different places in the world and appreciate other cultures, sensitivites and view points and it's important to find some one that is aware of that as well. For over 20 years I worked in the entertainment industry, many are not attracted to that, because they think we are all flakes and ego maniacs, well, this might actually be true for the most part, but there are indeed a few sane people left and I consider myself one of those.
What makes me smile every day: my horse.