Date men from United States / California / Aptos, 57 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Words to describe me : fun-loving, adventurous, active, youthful, genuine, affectionate, intelligent, friendly, hard-working/goal oriented. I am physically fit, enjoy a good work out (without being obsessed), and mostly the bonus which comes afterward (chocolate ice cream or a cold beer!). I can be spontaneous and am always ready for an adventure. I am also down-to-earth enough to appreciate the simple things as well. A quiet, cozy night reading or watching movies in front of the fireplace is one of my favorite ways to relax.
I'm originally from the east coast (NY and Boston) but I have lived in Santa Cruz County for over 30 years. I feel blessed to be able to live in this fabulous area. I love the beaches, the redwoods, the clean air, the mountains, and the great climate.
I have many passions in life. Among them are backpacking in the wilderness of the High Sierras, skiing until my legs burn, exploring new places of this fascinating world, enjoying a big Zin with a great meal, and most importantly, seeing my 2 grown children achieve success and happiness in their academic/career goals and personal relationships.
I recently lost my sweet Golden Retriever - very sad about that. I love dogs, and will probably get another one some day.
I would love to meet a woman who is genuine, warm, smart, and caring. One who is both emotionally and financially secure. Ideally, she is a relaxed, easy-going lady who is an open and honest communicator, laughs easily, likes to travel, and enjoys life. We will be best friends, complement each other, and feel safe just being ourselves. I hope to find that special someone to share my life with.
Cheers!
PS Yes, my photos are current, a commonly asked question, because of the youthful appearance for my age, which, due to search reasons, is actually a brand new 61.

Meet a man from California, United States. Yeah I know, dating world! But hey, if your weren't lost you'd never be found.
So I'm here to bare my soul, my innermost vulnerable self, my wounded heart...what a bunch of crap, ok I'll stop. I have no issues, vulnerabilities, fears, or worries. I'm actually very happy and healthy and I'm completely comfortable living in my world of denial.
About me? I came from the East coast, been to most states and travelled the world some. I've been in California since '79, landing in Santa Cruz by chance originally and returned recently. I'm also invested in Tahoe and make regular trips there. I love the contrast of ocean and mountains, warm beach to snowy peaks. I still have many destinations and some roads less traveled in mind once I unite with my other half.
Part of my nature has always been to build and create no surprise I found myself in the construction industry in past years. I'm quite enterprising and since have dabbled in real estate, playing Monopoly I suppose (too bad they changed the game). Other current enterprises include web development. Oh but I've always been a writer at heart and someday will have the time and inspiration to put pen to paper. If I seem to write now all a bit too sincere, know that I also intend to also take my stand up comedian act to amateur night someday. You may find my facets fascinating.
I have a wide range of interests and have always seemed to relate to all sorts of people. I Love animals, (dogs in particular) and every child in the world, especially mine of course. Son 36, Daughters 26 and 27. I am both proud and privileged to have devoted an enormous part of my life to them and they have filled my heart and saved my life. They are all grown now and I am available now for a new chapter. I'm loyal, trustworthy, faithful, dependable, and deeply passionate. I need someone to dream with me, and discover our world together. You would have to be occasionally bold, so don't be afraid to say hello! My life is private from this venue so you would have to reach out to know me more. I've been in this jungle before and I've no intention on staying here any longer than when I meet my one and only.
Every word I write, I write to you alone. Come to me. I'll catch you when you fall.
OK some finer points as to whom I am seeking:
It's OK if you haven't lived a charmed life. Knowledge you learn, wisdom you earn. I'd like a woman who's been around the block, but didn't get lost.
I don't believe these are my "golden years", I haven't even had my "mid-life crisis" yet. So I'd like it if you are young at heart and willing to do some exploring and discovery with me. I'm not looking for someone too much younger than me, people that age seem like kids to me. Its even OK if you're a little older, so long as you don't act it and you worship the temple (that means stay in shape, respect thy self). It's perfectly OK if we don't agree on everything however if you enjoy arguing please look elsewhere.
So much more to say, so much more to me. I'm best in person, one on one. Who am I? I am my heart.