Date men from United States / California / San Ramon, 57 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. I am recently retired after having spent the last 30 years in the IT field. Since I needed something to keep busy I bought a house with a small vineyard that I now tend to. I plan to use the grapes to make wine with friends that we can all share.
I am a fit, confident, practical man who has succeeded at every level. I believe in treating everyone better than I would like to be treated myself. I don't mind going the extra mile for something that I want or believe in. I enjoy simple things, smiling, making people smile, a good day golfing, a great day at the beach, a good meal at home, a great meal at a new restaurant, discovering a great new wine, finding a new friend. I am old school when it comes to chivalry. I believe in opening doors, holding chairs, etc. Loyalty is very important to me. It should be to you as well.
I have really three passions in life, golf, wine, and travel. I play competitive golf. I used to be a competitive bowler, but now I just fool around with it. I have traveled within the US to many places, but have many holes in my resume. Never been to NYC or spent any real time in the South. I have traveled internationally to Europe, however have not seen Paris or London, Asia, mostly to Japan, and the Caribbean which I love. I am a die hard bay area sports fan. Points added if you are a Giants or 49ers fan. I will try desperately to understand if you are an A's or Raiders fan, but no promises...
I would like to find a woman who I could share my passions with. To be clear, I am looking for a long term commitment, someone to share the rest of my life with. This woman would be active and preferably a golfer (I enjoy playing with golfers of all abilities) or at least be understanding of my addiction. She would have a current passport and be interested in using it. I would hope that she would be comfortable in her own skin and has discovered by now that drama is not worth the effort. I know that I have.
If this sounds worth exploring, please let me know. We could get together for a glass of wine to start, or even have a chat on the phone if you like. Either way I am looking forward to hearing from you.

Meet a man from United States. Finding it best to honest up front, here goes. As per my user name, my number one priority is 15 yr old daughter. I dont do alcohol or drugs (11 yrs sober). I have strong spiritual relationship with a God of my understanding and I believe in the power of prayer and strong family values.
As for me personally, I am 6 3 and had been very thin up until 3 years ago and now I am finding it difficult to keep the pounds off. I play tennis 3-4 times a week and a little basketball whenever I can get past the fear of getting hurt by the younger faster guys. I got the tall and dark part down pat...leave the the rest for the viewer to decide (smile)
I am originally from Louisiana (North, not New Orleans), and I travel back there quite a bit, about every other month. I have traveled quite a bit (some international) but find I am most relaxed with quiet country living. I fine trips to my fortress of solitude in Louisiana restful and energizing.
My interest are pretty simple and these days I prefer a quiet lifestyle. I can be fully content taking in Turner Classic Movies on a Sunday afternoon. I do enjoy "movie and a dinner" dates, but its been awhile since I've had one of those which why I'm on this site to begin with. Since books went digital, I spend far too much time reading crime dramas.
If you are looking for a glamorous lifestyle or someone with whom to travel the world, I am probably not your cup of tea. For me its about enjoying someone's company, good conversation, or even the ability to just be quiet with somewho who "understands"
Disclosure Alert: The Photo of my daughter and I is 10 year old (she is 15 now). Photo is one of my favorites. The others are current!