Date men from United States / California / Aptos, 30 year old

Date someone special from Aptos, United States. My first impressions are never the lasting notions when I meet someone new, and neither should it be yours. So when it comes to first dates or meetings or whatever, I'm never one to go all in or even fold at first glances. I'm always interested in meeting new people, but the ones who last the longest in my life are the ones who whole heartily are truly good people. Anyone who's too self: serving, loathing, righteous, minded, sighted--- or basically sociopathic, would be my adversary. Ofcourse there are degrees to these egocentrics, but I consider myself to be