Date men from United States / California / Aptos, 51 year old

Date someone special from Aptos, United States. Let's create together our life long relationship filled with love, purpose, and joy.
Do you like to play and laugh and have more Joy?
I value an open heart and a playful spirit. What would you like to share with me that you haven't shared with anyone else?
Have you ever thought of how much freedom you can have within your relationship? I am currently Polyamorus and will be Mono when I find the right long term primary relationship. I want someone that I can go deeper with and grow forever with. Continually deeper and deeper and better and better. More and more love and in love.
Do you want to feel so comfortable and close that we are best friends? Let's share family and community and continually grow with each other spiritually?
Please be financially healthy, emotionally vulnerable, spiritually growing, and responsible in your communications.
I am available for honest communication, heart connection, deep listening, warm touch, laughter and playfulness, kindness and generosity, spiritual adventure.
I am happy and satisfied in my life and I hope you are too. Would you like more Joy? Love? Play? Common goals?
I like making and eating food together? Let's have adventures in nature together. Let's build a garden together. Let's create a project together that is a healing service for our world. Did I mention Play? I am ready to savor our unique relationship. Let's be increasingly interested in recognizing each others' gifts and be present to our individual and combined growth. And did I mention that I have the ability and interest to love you more than anyone else?
Oh.. and I hope you are willing to show your astrological sign as I find that a good way to get to know each other.

Meet a soulmate from Aptos, United States. I am a person who appreciates life and am thankful for all the gifts that have shown up in mine. I love to fully participate in living, loving, conversing, thinking, cuddling, dancing, traveling, hiking and just being in the moment like enjoying the incredible beauty of a sunset. Several have described my energy as positive, enthusiastic, open heart, romantic, giving and receiving. I care deeply and love deeply. Whenever I feel ungrateful or upset or realize that I am not really hearing the sound of the ocean, I know it is time to reconnect with the here and now. I am always trying to grow and expand as a person. It will take a lifetime and that is part of the joy of being.
My container is full, not half full. I experience life, revel in the wonders of it and have fun in it. So many wonderful experiences have been had and so many more, unknown ones, ahead. It has been a good journey and there has been much more happiness than sadness going on although I understand that can change tomorrow. I seek a balanced life – my 2 sons, health, fitness, fun, work, calmness and relationship. A loving, nurturing relationship is something I am ready to add and have room for it.
I am looking for a passionate partnership, a relationship where two people work together as a team, uplift one another and journey together toward fulfillment. We will learn how to communicate with each other and see how our differences can fulfill the relationship instead of deplete it. I am looking for a heartfelt experience, an authentic experience, a lifetime experience. I believe the greatest gift two people can give each other is presence – the ability to be fully aware and attentive to each other without judgment or agenda and willing to understand what the other is experiencing and wanting to share. Relationships have their tough times and it is important for us to take them on in respectful, constructive ways. It is all a destination with no arrival point.
One caveat – I listed myself as divorced. I have been separated for 3 1/2 years. Those who know me know I am fully ready and able to create something new. My former and I are nearly complete with the mediation. I do look forward to closure.
If any of this resonates for you, please share. Let’s see if there is chemistry between us. Thanks for taking the time to read.

Date single man from Aptos, United States. I am trying this out for the first time and am not sure this online dating thing is for me.
There's been a big part of life missing from my life for many years and I am cautiously putting myself out "there".
I work hard and play hard. Enjoy the gym and mountain biking, tennis, squash.
I always seem to see the best in each person I meet. I prefer to see the world through positive eyes. I believe love is the key to lifes happiness.
I am ultimatly looking for someone to fall in love with and grow old with...Laughing at life, helping others and having quality family time.

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