Date men from United States / California / Topanga, 57 year old

Date a man from California, United States. Thanks for coming to check out my profile.
It is my wish that we ALL find the love and companionship we are all looking for, and find it first in ourselves.
First, I'm kind of a Dolphin out of water here in Utah... just spent the last two amazing years of my life in the tropical rain forest on Kauai... so please be easy on me I'm sort of cultural retard here in Utah.
If we meet me in person, you will find me to be awakened, alive and passionate. I see the greatness and beauty in every soul and I'm enriched by the experience. Whether we are each others beloved, and you are willing you will most likely walk away having your heart healed in some way. I challenged everyone I meet to be your true beautiful self and be empowered to embrace life.
A little about me:
Born in Hollywood, CA (that should tell you a lot;) LOL Grew up in Malibu (and no we didn't have Malibu Chickens) I was faithfully married 25 years and have 4 children, very proud of them. I have been a professional athlete/off-road racer, Ca. chamber of commerce board member, a church pastor, an LA DJ, a carpenter, a home builder, a retail computer store owner, 20 years in computer tech and sales... and Rob Lowe was my assistant for years in my mobile Disco company in LA:), personally interviewed Jerry Lewis and Burt Lancaster and many others... It's been FUN!!!
Four years ago my world got turned upside down and almost everything that was precious and dear to me was torn from me... Sadly, but gratefully I have learned that true friends and family stick by you in times of trouble and that those who don't never were. I have learned a deeper compassion. I have learned that others cruelty is never reason to stop loving myself and others. I have learned to love what is... and that even the harshest situations have silver linings! I have learned to find my strength inside and to love myself first. I have learned that every day of life is precious. Love is all there really IS.
No games please and please be kind to me and others. If you would like to meet me, just tell me and most likely I will honored to meet you:)
"Dawn is breaking... a long dark night does not last forever... just makes the first light of dawn even sweeter. The radiance of the Sun warms chilled bones... and dreams flood my being! Only love and mercy endure forever! Strength flows from within, today our world is ours to savor." Stephan
Here are a few of my observations/quotes about life, love, relationships and parenting, etc. that hopefully will give you a quality glimpse of me/Stephan
"The secret to ALL relationships is that people choose to be and stay together with a person that make them feel good about themselves." Stephan
"The best way to win the game of life is to be your true self, that way you don't have any competition!" Stephan
"The best feeling drugs on the planet are the ones our bodies naturally produce when we are in love with life, our self, and we are sharing that love with others." Stephan
"Awakening is the amazing process of moving our consciousness from ones finite mind, to ones infinite and source connected heart." Stephan
"Don't be Jealous! People are just expressing their Divine nature in THEIR own way... the world longs to see YOURS too." Stephan