Date men from United States / California / Montara, 57 year old

Date someone special from California, United States. I am unique. Myers-Briggs are still scratching their heads about my personality type. I am witty, funny, insightful, profound, silly, sincere, and irreverent but at the end of the day, I want to be important to someone and I want someone who gives me a reason to come home every night ... someone to share my failures and successes, my happiness and sadness, my good, bad, and ugly. I want to inspire and be inspired ... I want to love and be loved. I neither want to own someone or to be owned.
When the s**t hits the fan, I want to be with someone who has my back and I have hers. I want someone who has absolutely no need of me ... but rather, wants to be with me. I want someone that cares enough to see the differences in my silences ... someone who knows my laughter and can tell the difference between joy, hysteria, and desperation ... someone who knows what I need, or is willing to take the chance that she does ... someone that appreciates darkness and silence with the same passion as sunlight and chaos.
Do you want someone to sing to you, write your heart down as a song, and probe your mind for the "off button" when you are stressed ?