Date men from United States / California / Oak Park, 57 year old

Date a soulmate from Oak Park, United States. that is difficult i would like a caring person who likes to play and have fun also have a serous side, that we can just talk without hurting feelings, i would her to be understanding and not judgmental
i would like her to b pretty with or without makeup
i also would like her to b sexy she should have good self astem not be afraid to try something new sexually or just in life. i am looking to have someone who cares about me as well, i love my grandchildren and my daughter, my passion is i just don't no the answer to that question