Date men from United States / California / Belmont, 57 year old

Date a man from California, United States. I feel so strange doing this, but here goes.I'm an average guy, 45y/o, 5'11 182# short hair (and all of it). I like sports, playing softball and golf. Riding motorscycles. Sometimes I work too hard with my 40hr. a week job and my side business. My music interest is eclectic varies from some jazz to all out heavy metal, but mostly anything with guitar. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. My eye holds a petite woman with a mind of her own. I can't really describe her.

Meet someone special from California, United States. brand new to the area
let's see, how do i describe myself? i think you have to be in person to know someone; and, so it's chemistry for me; but i like to think i'm pretty interesting, witty, intelligent, curious, drawn to the creative edges over the mainstream, and compassion and empathy are important values; i'm sort of slow at getting to know people, mainly because i think i like to really get to know them
as far as the person who will capture my heart, i think i will probably know pretty quickly when we meet whether we we are likely to get to where we can't stand being apart; if that happens, it could lead to something meaningful and i like that, but i refuse to rush it
i would say my ideal match is almost as hard to define as myself, but the spark she ignites will draw me in to explore her more and more; that likely means she is strikingly attractive to me, inside and outside, and it means she will be a strong interesting woman of ideas and interests, independent, financially secure, and humor will be important to her; and we are probably going to find over time we share a lot of the same values; beyond all that, i have no clue, lol