Date men from United States / California / San Ramon, 43 year old

Date someone special from San Ramon, United States. I'll tell you where I am, and you can decide if you want to say hello.
Currently I'm in Afghanistan. Probably the most interesting place I have ever been. The experience thus far has caused me to alter my perceptions of.... Well, pretty much everything.
So what to tell?
I have confered with my women friends and key words were; be honest, be funny, be driven, be tall... etc. etc.
Oh and I was told, have correct grammar! apparently women look for this.
Generally speaking, my grammar is spot on, all the rest is interpretation. ;)
It would be nice to meet someone. Lets keep it light. There is so much intensity out there and not enough enjoyment. I like all the standard stuff and I'm open to just about everything. I don't judge harshly but I will give my opinion. I love debate.
Who is truly an adventurer? And I don't mean Hawaii at Christmas or Europe on a summer vacation. Although both are in my future plans. ;) Perhaps, Hawaii is not in my future. For some odd reason it just doesn't do a thing for me. I learned to scuba dive but on a reasonably deep dive I looked up and realized there was no way I was going to be able to hold my breath for that long. Common sense eh. I digress.

Finally two things that do motivate me...
The future
And my boy. I just really like the kid, he tells me kid stories. ;)
It's quite simple. Someone is out there, and Afghanistan won't last forever.

Meet a soulmate from San Ramon, United States. A bit about me, I am a good guy who has a lot to offer the right partner. I am self employed so i work a lot but llike to play just as hard when i get the opportunity. I am working on work/life balance and would love to share that time with a special someone. I love to be outdoors whether playing some volleyball or hiking or just splashing around in the ocean. I am honest and sincere and will generally be laughing at myself for one reason or another. I am the type of person who does not have a lot of friends but those i do have i hold close to my heart and would do anything for. I am not a big bar or night club scene but love to dance on occasion, mostly when i am on vacation lol. I can be a very comlex person and it takes a while to get to know my but I communicate my feelings well and am looking for the same. Well thats all i got for now, if you want to get to know a great guy give me a shout and lets chat. Chao for now.