Date women from United States / California / Pleasanton, 64 year old

Date someone special from Pleasanton, United States. Looking for a Match who will ignite the flame and keep it going long enough to toast the marshmallows...
This woman might be a little quirky at times, but has positive attributes that outweigh the negative.(Actually, You will have to decide that for yourself.) (OK.....read my lips: I'm, working on: ferme la bouche.) I don't need much to adapt, just a few things: a fluffy, down pillow, rich, dark coffee, and good music. It doesn't take much to make me feel happy! I even sing in the shower... Oh darn!...... I guess I need the shower, too !
I am drawn to men who unconditionally love themselves first and foremost....including their flaws.....
I appreciate a man who is physically active and seeks new experiences and adventures.
I respect a man who has some self-awareness about his 'kinks" from childhood and past relationships without projecting blame.
I love a man who has solid relationships with family and friends and who loves animals and children.
I adore good listeners and men who communicate well; who are learning and growing forever!
You are tired of looking for 'the next best thing" and ready to be with one woman "who is good enough'. You know the scarifices that you will be giving up to be with one woman, i.e., giving up other women..
I have heard it said that the first stage of a 'relationship' is attraction. The 2nd stage is 'uncertainty'. This is normal and happens with all of us. When we get to that 'uncertainty' stage, I am willing to put in the effort during this stage.
I have made a huge effort to understand men.... and how we communicate differently. I am learning from my mistakes. That is where the nuggets are and growth happens! Gently tell me where I can improve. I can take it. I'm a big girl, and I will appreciate your honesty.
I was married once for 38 years and single for a bunch. My remarried ex and I are good friends, and I serve on a board with him at his invitation.. Our interests can be different. The superficial things don't matter as long as we have a couple of interests in common. It goes deeper. It's the core values, the way we communicate, how much fun we have, and how comfortable we are together. How do we solve those inevitable problems?
Lucky me, I am happy and will share my happiness with the right man! Sure I have my ups and downs,as does everyone, and yet, I spend, by far, most of my time in 'Happy' mode. I CHOOSE to be happy!
I accept and forgive a man's 'mistakes' and honor his struggles. If you are the one I chose, I will pay very little attention to the things I don't like about you, focusing on all your 'good stuff'..When we disagree, I will wonder about your views, seeking to understand, while avoiding criticism, blame or defensiveness.
.My ex always had his freedom to do what he wanted, and I encouraged that. I also loved my own life separate from him. I take full responsibility for my own life, even so Not PC: I need a man!
Exercise and nutrition are important to me because I love my body and want to maintain my outstanding health! ( I cannot possibly be as old as I am...too much energy.) We will have matching energy, including sexual energy. I am sensual and feel so happy when I am dancing to slow blues. closing my eyes, allowing the music carry me to another place. I celebrate being a woman!
If you are the man I choose, I will celebrate you! You will wake up with a smile every morning, knowing you are loved, respected, admired and supported. Your life will be happier, easier, full of flowing love and appreciation Go ahead, look for a 'better' match on the next page, but you will miss a wonderful opportunity ....and the marshmallows.. When you bring the chocolate, make it dark!
P.S. I had the distinction of turning 68 on 9/11/11. I've been told recently that I look 4 years younger than my oldest son. Do you think we should tell him?
I've been told, consistently, I look like my pictures. No surprises!:)

Meet a soulmate from Pleasanton, United States. I am one of a kind. I am an optimistic, easy-going and outgoing person. I have a full life and love doing what I am doing. I can be in the moment at a drop of a hat. I love to laugh and want a partner who is sharp and can enjoy the humorous side of life. I love to play golf and hope to find someone who also likes to play golf but this is not a must.
I am grateful that I have a terrific family and enjoy spending time with them during the holidays and other social events. My daughter is awesome and love, love being around her.
I haven't gone to Italy yet, but am looking forward to getting there. I also wish to do a volunteer vacation/voluntourism in Mexico and some other country with some friends or family with me. I have traveled to France a couple of times, Hawaii, London, Africa. I loved my trip to Africa, but love France too.
I'll make a wonderful friend, companion and lover if I am attracted to you. I am loving when I am with a person I really care about. I am easy going and game to do most new things or visit new places. I'm so thankful for my good health and energy. I like to keep myself physically fit and exercise 4-5 days a week. I am happy to be financially stable. One thing you should about me is that although I like cats, I am allergic to cats.
I am looking for a genuinely good and kind person. I would like to meet someone who is willing to share my interests and passions. Someone who enjoys doing things with the person they care about. Someone who has a good sense of humor when appropriate and knows when to be serious or sensitive. Someone who is honest, trustworthy, has a zest for life, physically fit, responsible, compassionate, kind, gentle, loving and affectionate. I am looking for a partner who is emotionally healthy, and able to share a stable life with someone. Starting off as friends and maybe develop into something more meaningful. Is that person you?

Date a woman from Pleasanton, United States. Hi, and thank you for stopping to read my profile. I would be attracted to someone who is comfortable in his own skin, and does not take himself too seriously. A great sense of humor is a huge plus. I am easygoing, affectionate, and thoughtful - I'm not jealous, judgmental, or materialistic. Good values, a commitment to a relationship, a positive outlook on life, and being caring of others are some of the qualities I posess. I enjoy taking care of my own home and really love to travel. I am a professional woman but am contemplating retirement in the near future. I currently work part-time. I have two grown kids and am very proud of them. Most people who know me would describe me as an extremely positive, happy, strawberry blonde.
I hope to meet someone who has joy in their heart and knows how to treat a woman with respect, honesty and dignity. I believe in putting my partner first and am looking for a truly kind man (who likes to laugh and have a good time, of course). Would love to meet someone who likes to cook (I do, too) but enjoys dining out as well. I enjoy sports and hope you do too. If you do not rely on materialistic things to make you happy and the happiness is inside you, please think about contacting me and let's see if we connect.

Meet someone special from California, United States. Change keeps the mystery of life alive and nature feeds my soul. Photography keeps my passion flowing and enhances every other aspect of my life. I'm not "all grown up" yet.... I still believe in "Happily Ever After", Destiny,& A Higher Power...People with good values and a zest for life always catch my attention. I am independent and have started my own photography business defining it as fine art. I love to travel and enjoy the view from small aircraft. Feminine, passionate, loyal, flexible, sensual, and eclectic best describe who I am. Keeping an open mind and not setting any boundaries on life makes living much more fun. Relationships take hard work and constant nurturing, but the rewards are what make love and life worth living. No one can predict the elusive chemistry we all feel, but we all know it when we see it. Photography is my first love, but my interests are many. Traveling, hiking, working out in the gym, too many to list. I'm open to anything new at least once. I consider myself very fortunate. I've been lucky in love, inherited good genes, am surrounded by loving friends, survived many sorrows, and still have a lot of living to do. I wish to meet someone who desires a committed relationship. My main photo was taken by me (the photographer) in Feb 2008 , photo with friend Aug 2010, the photo with long hair was taken Nov 05, and the others were taken in 2001. Please - no messages without your photo...You may not share the same interests as I, but you are passionate about something in your life. You have a strong sense of who you are and where you want to be. You like to communicate and can laugh at yourself once in a while. Everyone says you have a loving heart and respect others. You love togetherness but remain your own person and do have a few things you like to do on your own. The simple things in life bring you the most pleasure and you like to travel and explore new places. If so, I am waiting to hear from you......

Date a soulmate from California, United States. single, quiet, always smiling....someone that want a good friendship that likes having fun, believes in God...enjoys people coming by at the drop of a hat.....does not have to have a schedule every minute of the day.

Meet a woman from California, United States. I am all the ages I've ever been and respond to things, ideas and people that delight or intrigue me. These are my minutes. I'd like to share some of them with a good, kind and humorous man. My heart and mind are open, but I am careful to use my wisdom and past experience in all situations. Music and nature are my spirituality and movies are one of my favorite inspirations. I'm a very good friend, witty and smart - and would like to meet someone who also has these qualities. Not necessarily looking for long term, but you never know.

Date someone special from United States. “Something good will always happen”
My life has proven this to be true, no matter what the situation. Thus, I am here to see what good can happen.
I am optimistic and enjoy life. I would describe myself as bright, warm and enthusiastic. I cherish my friends and family. I trust people easily and give them the benefit of the doubt. I can be compassionate. I don't mind going the extra mile for someone. Believe in treating others, as I want to be treated. Trust that everything happens for a reason....
I love to take long peaceful walks, or be in the midst of a crowded event. I think that the thrill of newness in life is a wonderful subject to explore. I'm a happy, loyal, and interesting woman who hopes to remain creative and excited about everything around me for a very long time.
Hmm, who am I looking for…..someone special, who offers interesting new ideas and experiences while enhancing the richness of our lives. I'm interested in meeting someone who's loving, educated, and insightful. A good sense of humor is a definite plus in my book. Playful, spontaneous, honest, secure and kind would be the words that describe him. He enjoys intimacy and quiet time as well as social situations. He's liked and comfortable with children, pets, and the grocery clerk.
Even though I look forward to sitting back, enjoying health, happiness and the world around me after I retire, I still thoroughly love my work.
Although I was married for more than thirty years, I have been separated now for many years. This has been an agreeable arrangement, with no thoughts of ever returning to the marriage.

Meet a soulmate from United States. Mechical engineer working as a project manager in the telecom industry. Am looking for someone to share outdoor activities, ie skiing (downhill & cross country), hiking, camping, running. Financially independent, non-smoker.