Date women from United States / California / Palos Verdes Estates, 64 year old

Date a woman from United States. I'm separated from a long term marriage and no chance of reconciling and waiting until all financial aspects have been distributed before divorcing. If some of you have been there, I'm sure you'll probably understand how long this all takes.
I am looking for a best friend who loves to be active and enjoys life and has a good sense of humor. I want to meet someone who loves to travel, but also loves his nest and takes pride in his home. Family is very important to me and I would desire that quality in a man; i.e., someone who enjoys his children and/or grandchildren. I love spontaniety,
so someone who plans everything down to the minute probably wouldn't be compatible with me. I would like to meet casually for coffee first and then take it from there.