Date women from United States / California / San Gabriel, 64 year old

Date someone special from San Gabriel, United States. I am new at this sort of thing and not sure how to go about it. I really don't want to pay for a six month stint. Maybe someone will help me. I am recently widowed and don't know a lot about what is facing me.
I like a tall slender man, more on the quiet side and intellectual. I am thin and small and like to dress nicely. I love to go to various activities, air shows, surfing contests, horse racing and movies. I am a simple woman but love fun and to laugh and cook and enjoy life.
I prefer someone that is not engaged in his self only and his looks. Simplicity is what I want. But definetely not boring.
My friends like me very much. I am described as a fun loving person and very nice. Anything small makes me smile. I am grateful for my son and the good life I have led.
I am passionate about meeting someone that is morally straight and honorable and honest.