Date a soulmate from California, United States. Wow, this is hard! Who am I? A little different, I guess. Born in L.A., grew up in San Diego county. Educated and worked in Europe and then Asia. China is a part of my life now. I have an adopted Chinese daughter and an import business. I love Southern California, but I need the world to be content and stimulated with life. I love honest people and kids. And I work my tail off.
I am looking for a soulmate, my Miss Right. the woman with whom I can spend the rest of my life with. I need passion, personality, and a lady who instintively cares about her appearance (hair, nails, teeth, sensuality). An Asian or Latina woman does fit me. But I'm all American, with rock'nroll in my head, so I probably relate best to an American woman with personality and a body that keeps me stimulated. Yes, my libido is sky high. Because of strong goals, I constantly remind myself not to take life too seriously. So I love to laugh. I love and respect most those in the world who have few possessions, who are natural and rich in kindness in their heart. I have a strong faith in God. But my faith is very personal, so I'm not a church-goer. Sorry, I'm also not a joiner.
The woman I seek should think as much about me as she thinks about herself. It's only fair! Because I will spend each day of the rest of my life working for her, trying to please her, and loving her. I love to kiss, so affection and personality in a woman are very much needed. I need an up-beat girl, to match me. I like to kid, to smack her bottom (not hard!) and smell her hair in bed nex to me. Because I love the outdoors, skiing, surfing, and everything connected with the ocean and the outdoors, I am very physical with love, affection, and romance. I really, really need femininity and sexiness in a woman. I can fulfill her needs and will, as Dr. Laura used to say, "swim through shark-infested waters to bring her a glass of iced tea". I hope you'll write.
Meet single man from California, United States. Bars not my thing-too busy with Life. I am ambitious with career, my friends and family. My outlook on life is I get one chance at this and its important to make the right decisions on who I spend time with and the experiences I seek.
My motto on life: "We are here to help each other through this thing we call life".
I'm looking for the Queen of Hearts, not the Queen of Diamonds.
*******Update: I've been asked to tell more about myself and just what I am looking for. Here goes:
I am emotionally stable and available, very little baggage, financially secure, intelligent, very fit and a gentlemen (not withstanding I know how to be the Man in a relationship). I am comfortable in a suit (sans tie), jeans, tux, or a pair of properly fitted fly-fishing waders. My Family and Friends say I am dependable, involved, loyal, quirky, unconventional, well-traveled and blessed. But I am not perfect, just me. For work, I am a consultant, author and public speaker. Additionally I have consulted for a world-wide art collectables Auction firm for almost 30 years-started that when I was 12, just kidding. I don't serial date-period (though this site tries to make all of us do such-brrrrrrr!). Too busy with life thank goodness.
I am looking for a woman, or in the right situation, a woman and her child or children, to share my life with. Someone who doesn't say in their profile "Spoil Me", but rather "Let's enjoy the spoils of life together". Someone who doesn't say "Make me laugh" (duhhhh?), but rather "let's laugh together". Someone who actually gets that it takes both the Man and Women who commit to be involved at a level that deserves and earns relationship happiness. As to you telling about you, everyone loves the beach. If we communicate, I'm more interested what's in your heart and what's in your mind. My ideal "get-to-know someone" path is: If attracted we meet; if further attracted we have 2-5 dates to know if there is something to build on; if we hit the Mother Lode-well you know.
I've enjoyed living in Newport Beach for 25 years, but not much for the "look at me scene". If you use in your screen name the words: Princess, SpoilMe, MasterPiece, MsPerfect, MsAwesome, or MsKnowItAll-I can't imagine us meeting. If you use in your screen name: HereForYouToo, ILoveSupport, RelationshipMaterial or the equivalent, and we are attracted to each other, we should probably meet. Lastly, don't miss that I love women, feelings and all. And, I admire intelligence (doesn't have to be book smarts), and someone who has the time and ability to have fun, nurture each other and be all of the amazing things a woman can be. You can be simple or more complex in nature. Each has its uniqueness. The End
Date someone special from California, United States. First Off,
I am not good at picture taking. I have been told I look better and younger in person.The tan comes from a lot of outdoor sports and pool side R&R since I am currently retired. I am still very athletic and stay fit doing sit ups and treadmill daily.I went from 210 in december to 180 now. Presently playing a lot of golf, tennis and lawn bowling. I am someone who enjoys the company of others. I am as much fun with a family BBQ/party or out dancing with couples or with you and your girlfriends. I do love to dance and listen to music. I enjoy sharing the meal preperation in the kitchen as well as the clean up afterwards. So if you like making tacos and guacomole and blended margarita's, chances are we will find ourselves laughing and dancing before you know it. I have an outgoing personality with integrity and a strong character. I believe in old fashion values like opening doors even when its raining or walking holding hands. I am a very romantic guy , which means full body massages (touch and being touched, her pleasure first before mine) flowers, cards, victoria secret surprises,( Yes Christian guys like sexy lingerie ) weekend get-a-way surprises, chocolate covered strawberries and champange. Chilvary isn't dead as far as I'm concerned and I always go out of my way to keep my lady happy. When she's happy... I'm gonna be real happy...... just saying !!
I would say I have a great sense of humor because even when no one else is laughing, I am still laughing at my own bad jokes or silly remarks. I have street smarts and I am always aware of my surrounding. Keeping my lady as safe as possible. I am not the jealous type unless you come home after a night out with the girls and TMZ has photos of you all over the web. ( In that case I should of been there with you to share in all the fun !!)
What would be the ideal partner ??
Its the same desire I have now as I have always wanted. That she is someone who put others before herself, she is a giver not a taker. She is not wrapped into the "I Wants" of everything that she could have, but instead its just about the things she needs. She understand a relationship is built on communication, connecting, sharing, growing and that arguements will last only for a moment but making up will go on for hours.
She can trust me to be faithful as much as I can trust her. That her thoughts, wishes, desires, temptations of seeking after greener grass no longer exsist. Because she knows a relationship grows where you water your own relationship, fertilize it and care for it. And when done correctly with continued shared efforts it will be the greenest grass in the neighborhood. She knows that being in love will last a lifetime with no early withdrawals. We still have time for a 50 year marriage, its possible. Today thats saying, "Yes we can" not," No we can't ". She knows she can have the freedom for her time and independence to have her space and be out with her friends because she knows that expressing to her guy that he means everything to her and that she appreciates him by her expressions of telling him and showing him often.
Finally, A bonus would be she is a Christian lady that knows what it means to be the backbone to her man. She knows what it means when two become as one. She understands how to respect and honor her guy for the reason for that is what helps him build his character and strength. She wants to be there for him when he's down as much as he will be there for her when she needs his encouragement. Its all very simple, YOU LOVE EACH OTHER THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE LOVED YOURSELF.
Knowing that neither one will ever be perfect by themself...... but prayerfully just perfect for one another.
Meet a man from California, United States. I recently moved to Newport Coast. I am a professional, and own my own business. I have lived in this area for over 30 years. Most of it in Laguna. I am single, been known to be a class act, sensual, and educated. I enjoy good wines, good food, and have traveled quit a bit. I enjoy photography, golf and love to cook. Looking to enjoy a cocktail, dinner or a good movie. And of course, some mutual pleasure and fun. Please let me know if you're interested.