Date men from United States / California / Carmel Valley, 48 year old

Date a man from California, United States. I am grateful for my family and god. God has given me so many new ways to do things and so many paths to choose. My family has given me a chance to feel loved by everyone. What I am looking for in a relationship is someone who I can be myself around and someone who I have things in common with.

Meet single man from California, United States. New to San Diego, actually here for 5 months but just settling in...
Me.... I am still a dad and I take that privilege and responsibility very seriously, which means I have to be flexible on occasion. Are you? I have spent the better part of my adult life raising my kids and now that they are almost all gone I am looking for someone to share the latter half with. I was born and raised in a military family and am the oldest of three and have a great relationship with my family.
I work hard, and will admit sometimes too hard, but I play even harder. That said I work to live not live to work. I have found over the years though that I'm not a very good spectator. If I have the time, I would rather be on my bike, playing volleyball, skiing, on a golf course, or you name it rather than sitting and watching others play. That said I do enjoy the social aspect of being a spectator; just need my kinda time I guess. Words that describe me... Perceptive, Demanding, Down-to-earth, Creative, Adventurous, Intellectual, Open, and Purposeful. I'm sure there are others, but will have to let you come up with your own.
You....I'm sure, like you, I have some sort of check list but honestly I couldn't tell you what it is. I have figured out though that it’s important that you are active, fit, independent, intelligent, happy and open to meeting a nice guy, yes I still believe in opening doors.
If you made it this far then maybe we should meet for a coffee, I don’t drink it, or something?
Cheers!!