Date men and women from United States / California / Carmel Valley, 45 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. Let's see ... where do I start?
I had an interesting idea as to how to approach this. In order to come up with a fair description of myself, I asked a bunch of friends to each list a few words to describe me. There were a lot of duplicates, but here’s what they came up with; Charming, Forthright, Funny, Sincere, Intuitive, Generous, Ethical, Loyal, Well-rounded, Complex, Intense, Friend.
I guess that’s me!
I’m in a great position right now, my life has gone through a lot of positive changes in the past year and everything seems to be moving in the right direction (well, not *everything*, life always tends to through us a few challenges...). The only thing missing is that certain someone I can share it with, someone who’ll compliment my life and allow me to do the same for her. I am very open to a serious relationship, but not “desperate” to get into one.
I do have an engineering background and am fairly successful in business. I am not the sort of guy to lay around in board shorts and a ratty t-shirt all the time. I am always well groomed and often well-dressed. Unlike most guys, I hardly EVER watch sports on TV.
I am very interested in personal growth in various aspects of mind, body, and spirit. I work out pretty regularly. I can watch lectures and read about Economics, Astronomy, and Psychology (brain candy is a good thing) but I also love movies (action, comedy, documentaries, etc.). I watch very few TV shows, but my favorites are Modern Family, Mad Men, Californication, Walking Dead, and Dexter. I also tend to act like a total goofball around my niece and nephew. So if your looking for someone to laugh with, ask how your day went, and be able to count on to be there when I say I will, that's the kind of guy I am.
If you find yourself interested, say hello! Let's see what we can make happen together.
One more thing ... Ladies, I understand that most of your are BOMBARDED with messages from guys! Most guys seem to blast out messages that read like "form letters" and send them out in batches to many women at once. So I know your inbox can get quite full. I tend to take another approach. I usually send out (initiate) very few connections, simply because the chances of a reply are SO low (again, because it's hard to rise above the TONS of email that all of you ladies get). So ... I tend to respond when a woman contacts me first. It just seems more logical that way. Trust me, I am very chivalrous and very much the charming gentleman who can take the lead when it comes to dating, but in a situation such as Match.com, I am really counting on a woman to make first contact. (Plus, I must admit, it is quite disillusioning to send out 20 messages over the period of a week and get NO responses back. That's a bit of a challenge for anyone's self confidence!)
So, the long and short of all of this is ..... If you find me interesting .... just send me a note. Say hello. I'll be happy to take it from there. I know that some women may not be all that comfortable making the "first move" (and attractive women rarely have to ... because guys are relentlessly hitting on them so much! LOL), but give it a try. We may be able to share something wonderful as a result of just that small effort.
Whether or not we ever talk or meet, I wish you the best in finding what it is you are looking for. David

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Date a woman from United States. I HOPE TO ATTRACT A COOL ,SPORTIVO, POLITE AND INTELIGENT MAN WHO LIVES IN DEL MAR AREA IN SAN DIEGO, TO GO OUT TOGHETHER AND MAYBE CREATE A RELASHIONSHIP ON THE FUTUR. I LIKE A MAN WITH ELEGANCE ON HIS SELF

Meet a soulmate from United States. Me: Genuine, what you see is what you get. I will say it as I see it, but know when it's appropriate and when it's not to open my mouth. I'm outgoing and am comfortable at Roscoe's or at The University Club. Depending on the situation, I may be shy at first...although no one would ever describe me that way. I can be serious and also a big goof ball. I have one daughter who is a freshman in college in another state...it was all about her for the last 18 years, coaching her cheer squads and helping with her softball teams...so now I'm at a good place in life, love my career, my friends, and would love to meet someone special in my life to share it with.
You: Must be of integrity and honest character, be confident, stable, have direction and a good sense of humor. I love a man who is playful and can keep me on my toes with his intelligence and wit. But please be nice too. If you and I talk, and I'm not what you're looking for just say it...keep it real! I'll do the same.
Relationships: In a relationship it's good to have my time, your time, and our time. For that reason, I think it's absolutely okay (and can be a positive) to have different interests...so unless you're looking for a golf partner...go play golf and I'll go to the beach! Or heck teach me!
No one is perfect...I tell my friends all the time when they are going through trials with boyfriends or husbands...everybody has their "issues" it's all about knowing which ones we can tolerate and which ones are deal breakers.
I know what I want, do you?

Date men and women from United States. I'm an active, athletic, young minded professional SoCal transplant. Growing up in Napa Valley, I learned to appreciate good food and wine, but I also love and appreciate good home cooking (sometimes my own)!
I spend a lot of time outdoors, running (half marathons are my distance) walking and exploring (I travel a lot for my work). I love my work, but it's not my world
I love to laugh, love humor and use it a lot (mostly the self deprecating kind - not into tearing others down). I believe "what comes around goes around" - and try to be a positive force for my children, friends, family, and world. .
My two amazing kids - a boy, 10 and a girl, 6 -are with me 50% of the time. We have a great time together figuring out all sorts of trouble to get into.
I love my life, but I'd love it more somebody special in my world. I'm looking for someone to share and explore with - a friend first and hopefully someday something more. I'm definitely seeking a partner - I'm ready to give 100% and hope to find the right person willing to do the same.

Meet people from Carmel Valley, United States. Not ready to post my profile yet. Just want to look for now. I didn't think that I had to go through all these questions right now. how many characters are there so far? I will keep on typing but you guys should say at the beginning that you have to answer questions before you can look.

Date someone special from Carmel Valley, United States. It took me a while to get into it, but now I can say I’m hooked and probably will be for life. At least, that’s how most people I know described their relationship with golf. Growing up on the east coast, my parents were pretty avid players; now they and their friends are still going strong, so I figure I’m likely to follow. Moving to California a few years ago certainly helps, though it’s a fringe benefit to starting an enormously satisfying career. And while I was getting my practice established, I met some pretty fantastic friends who introduced me to lots of other ways to enjoy living here. From mini-vacations to the desert to “nights in" with our group, I keep discovering new reasons to love the time we spend together. And when I need time to recharge, I’m usually at the gym, tending my little gardens, or getting more into yoga. But lately I’ve been thinking I’d like to meet someone special to get into, too. So if you think you might be that guy, say hi.
About the person IРІР‚в„ўm looking for:
You’ve been happy for a while now. You think formal education helped make you who you are today. You’re generous without trying to buy affection. If you saw a kid fall off his bike, you’d stop to help. You make others feel comfortable just by being around them. You’ve always thought you’d be a good dad, and you’d like to prove it one day. You feel like most religions ultimately lead to the same end, so you don’t feel too strongly about any one of them. You find humor in everyday life. You avoid seriously harming your body as a form of recreation. You enjoy socializing, but you don’t need to be the life of a party. You can fix a few things around the house, and know who to call for the rest. You’re emotionally aware of others around you. You’re aware that “down to earth” can have a few meanings, but you’re pretty sure you’d fit into most definitions. To you, your job is more than just a job, yet people who just met you don’t necessarily know how successful you are. But they always see how warm you are.

Meet a woman from Carmel Valley, United States. Just looking...Please don't respond to me. I am just getting a feel for the people out there now. uI have been in a relationship until now, and am not ready to waste someone's time. I will commit to match when I am emotionally ready.

Date a soulmate from Carmel Valley, United States. I love making people around me happy with simple every day acts. I like to surround myself with good friends, good food and good conversation over a glass of wine or a cold beer.
I love all types of art and being creative when I can find the time. Everything from attending a opera, play, a concert or taking the time to appreciate everything a museum has to offer.
Seeking someone who is thoughtful caring and is open to someone new in their life. Someone who can complete me. It would be nice to learn about each other and share things in common. Looking for that special person to becomes close with and possibly more. Looking for that important ingredient of mutual respect in a relationship.
I love long walks on the beach holding hands at night under the stars. Looking for someone with a sense of humor and that can make me laugh and at the same time knows how to have a deep conversation.
I'm not into playing games. Life is too short for that.