Date men from United States / California / Carmel Valley, 36 year old

Date single man from California, United States. Well, I'd like to think that I'm fun to be around and can always make people laugh (how can I not with that Elvis costume?!). Now that I'm done tooting my own horn, how about some actual, verifiable facts? I'm very athletic and a super quick learner. Intelligent and well spoken (read: "I have manners"), but still the type of guy who will always roll the dice, because without risk there's no reward. I rarely get angry or upset at anything because I just don't think its worth it and usually can't do anything about it. Never really moody and very easygoing, just like my screen name. Saying I'm very independent is an understatement. If you took me to a party, I'm the type of guy whose hand doesn't need to be held... I can make friends on my own.
Romantically, I treat women with respect, and still open the door for the girl, yes, even the car door. I love to travel (who on Match doesn't?), especially (or exclusively) surf or scuba vacations. My last five trips have been to Australia, Costa Rica, El Salvador, Canada (Whistler- unreal!!) & Mexico. I take yearly vacations in Cabo to stretch out my summers cuz I'm greedy like that!
I would like someone whose athletic, intelligent and spontaneous. Now while cuddling is nice, we can't do that 24/7. I enjoy being active with a girl, meaning doing hobbies, sports and traveling together. Girls, shopping is NOT a hobby, nor is it a sport (I don't care how fast you walk from store to store). Humor and the ability to laugh at yourself is always a must. Really, I would just like to date somebody who is currently where they want to be in life and is ready to move forward together.