Date men from United States / California / Carmel Valley, 34 year old

Date a man from Carmel Valley, United States. I have a passion for travel, and just returned home from an epic 14 month, 50 county adventure motorcycling and backpacking my way around the world. I had lived in Seattle for the last 4 years previously, but after chasing the sun around the world, I woke up one day and decided if I had go back to work, it was at least going to be somewhere warm and sunny. I found a nice job in Carmel, and here I am. I'm quickly falling in love with the area, but meeting people is a bit tricky around here.
My friends would probably describe me as fun, adventurous, intelligent, laid back, and a little bit goofy. I'm a very optimistic, happy go lucky person. I love meeting new people, but I'm pretty shy until I get to know you; then I'll talk your ear off.
I'm very outdoorsy and usually try to get out in nature at least a couple times a week. I'm really looking forward to exploring all of the beautiful coastal trails, roads, beaches, and dive sites here in the Monterey Peninsula. I have a chocolate Lab named Bailey who is usually along for the ride.
When I'm not outdoors thing I love having friends over and cooking for them, BBQing trying new restaurants, watching college football (Go Ducks!), and seeing good live music.
What I'm looking for in a lady is someone who shares my love of travel, the finer things in life, the outdoors, and exploring new places. Someone who is equally comfortable at the top of a mountain in a driving wind as sitting in the front row at a Broadway musical. Someone who loves to talk for hours about random things and laugh a lot. Someone who believes the journey in life is just as important as the destination. Someone who's caring and compassionate, but doesn't take herself too seriously. I'm looking for an honest person who knows how to enjoy life and have fun in any situation. If any of that sounds interesting to you, I'd love to talk to you.

Meet someone special from Carmel Valley, United States. I recently moved to San Diego from Los Angeles, but If you were to ask my friends in Los Angeles, they would describe me as affectionate, caring, ambitious, loyal, faithful, communicative, and athletic. They would tell you that I have a sarcastic sense of humor (the good kind, not the bitter, cutting kind). I am passionate about good music, intelligent conversation, delicious food, modern art and architecture. I am open-minded and straightforward. The only "games" that I know involve some sort of a ball, a plastic disc, or a cardboard that you sit around and move tiny little pieces based on the whims of a plastic dice. I wear my skin comfortably and with confidence around me. I am the sort of person who would be comfortable walking in a room full of strangers and making a few good friends at the end of the event. I don't do clubs; dive bars, and live music is where you will find me on the nights that I do decide to go out on an urban prowl. MUSIC is a huge part of my life, and I can't live without it; fodder for the soul.
I am a poet, and so I feel deeply, and am very passionate about the people in my life and my intellectual and physical pursuits. I enjoy charcoal sketching, and making music with my friends. I get excited about USC football during fall season. I have been practicing Vinyasa and Anusara yoga for three years. I also regularly work out at the gym. I enjoyed my hikes in the Santa Monica hills (they are not mountains folks) while I was living in Los Angeles. I will have to explore and find some new trails in San Diego. I don't expect my partner to embrace all of my activities. If we have some similar interests, then I believe that that's a great start.
In my partner I value independence and individuality. You should be smart, honest, empathetic, humorous, educated, well-read, athletic, fit, healthy (mind, body, spirit), affectionate, caring, open-minded, and ambitious. I like a woman who has her life together and knows what she wants. I understand that we all have some baggage from our past. Some have heavy ones, while others have small carry-ons, or have learned to shed the extra weight, and travel light. I am in the latter category.
Love, empathy, care for one's partner, all these traits must, they must stem from a leap of faith. I'm seeking a deep connection, one where you and I are comfortable even with our silences; where much is said without saying much. In the end it is all about that elusive, mysterious exchange of chemicals between two people.
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A MAN IN HIS LIFE
A man doesn't have time in his life
to have time for everything.
He doesn't have seasons enough to have
a season for every purpose. Ecclesiastes
Was wrong about that.
A man needs to love and to hate at the same moment,
to laugh and cry with the same eyes,
with the same hands to throw stones and to gather them,
to make love in war and war in love.
And to hate and forgive and remember and forget,
to arrange and confuse, to eat and to digest
what history
takes years and years to do.
A man doesn't have time.
When he loses he seeks, when he finds
he forgets, when he forgets he loves, when he loves
he begins to forget.
And his soul is seasoned, his soul
is very professional.
Only his body remains forever
an amateur. It tries and it misses,
gets muddled, doesn't learn a thing,
drunk and blind in its pleasures
and its pains.
He will die as figs die in autumn,
Shriveled and full of himself and sweet,
the leaves growing dry on the ground,
the bare branches pointing to the place
where there's time for everything.
(Yehuda Amichai)