Date single man from Berkeley, United States. Looking for a special relationship that will grow and blossom as we have fun sharing time together. I am healthy, fit, funny, irreverent, and interested in intellectual pursuits---art, politics, history, religion, science, and how they all relate. I also enjoy the outdoors, travel, dancing, theater, music, and am open to new fun things. I am romantic, passionate, playful, affectionate, and giving.
I am looking for a special woman to begin exploring the possibilities for a wonderful relationship. I want someone who cares about family and people, is curious about life, and has wide interests. Someone who is compassionate, thoughtful, adventurous, playful, and affectionate. Someone who is confident, outgoing, has positive energy, integrity, and is passionate about life. Someone who is self aware and real, who balances talking and listening, has a great sense of humor, loves to laugh, and is comfortable with who she is.
A poetic thought:
Exploring the world together would be oh so very sweet
Finding a special partner would make the symphony of life complete
Laughing, learning, loving, dancing
Our time together so fun and life enhancing
Share adventures, search for our cores
Tap new creativity, open new doors
Let's find our girl and boy
Be carefree and enjoy
The excitement and passions of life
With wonder and pure delight
A fun and exciting life is awaiting
So let's connect and begin our dating
It's definitely "time2share fun"
Terry
Meet a soulmate from Berkeley, United States. I grew up in a small town in Kentucky. Though I am long separated from there (in more ways than geography), I have been shaped by the simplicity, friendliness, and support of small town life and by the warmth of my home and two loving parents. I left there for college, got a PhD in philosophy, and then settled in Berkeley where I’ve been blessed to find my calling as a prep school humanities teacher. I also write and do photography. I am on sabbatical this semester (spring, 2012), so I have a very flexible schedule.
I am soulful, giving, sensitive, caring, patient, and loyal. I am also great father material, though at my age I know that might not happen.
My friends (and students) tell me I’m funny, but that tends to emerge after I get to know someone better. I generally prefer deeper interactions with one other person or an intimate gathering of a few to rather than large parties.
I love being in nature, and I hike, run, play tennis, and I'm venturing back into golf. I watch tv infrequently (usually the news). I love good films and art, watching dance performances. I’m a dog person and have a wonderful German Shepherd. I am something of a “foodie,” so I love great restaurants, from neighborhood gems to the Michelin-starred. I’m a good cook. (I also do dishes!) I like to travel, but by nature I’m more a homebody than a nomad. Some of life’s richest moments are those around the house.
I would like to meet someone who is basically happy, who knows who she is, who is capable of intimacy, love and commitment and who would like to build a home in the richest sense of that word.
Date someone special from Berkeley, United States. "In traveling, a companion; in life, compassion. Chance encounters keep us going." Haruki Murakami, Kafka on the Shore.
There are two well integrated sides to me: one active and passionate, the other, active and intellectual. When I tested down the middle on the MyersBriggs test, the psychologist said she'd never seen someone so evenly balanced... I had to laugh as I already knew that...I do know myself.
This represents the active/passionate part:
seeking more than i've ever known....
offering more than i've ever given....
a partner in all things.
life is more than i've ever dreamed.
the future is yet to be created and revealed.
This represents the active/intellectual side:
...intelligent and adventurous, imbued with humor that allows my insight into my own folly, learning from experience that an open heart and kindness in all things matters, now seeking that very special partner to share the richness of life....
What has been consistently dear to me is my relationship with my son, grown now but as dear as he was that day he held my finger on the rocks at Bodega Bay, my art -- painting and photography -- and keeping myself flexible in both body and mind, growing, learning, loving.
This is a particularly good time of my life...most of the issues with which I was concerned for many years, business, raising a child, providing security, and those of the ego, success, money, and the like, have resolved themselves well and I find myself, fortunately, able to do much of what I’ve looked forward to, painting, photography, being with friends and family, participating in sports, traveling, all in a relaxed, centered manner...there is a sense in all of this that as I grow older, and I hope wiser, has a richness I may have passed by a bit too quickly before...and with this richness an opening into an inner space that seeks a deep sharing with a real partner.
Beyond that, I thought I’d try to express what else is meaningful in a different way, to offer a sense of how I see the world.
I came across these words in The Second Book of the Tao by Stephen Mitchell. The author poeticizes the wisdom of Chuang Tzu, an ancient Chinese master. Without permission, I have edited his words as such wisdom belongs to all of us. These are not words of a religion, nor do they prescribe a practice or ritual. They are simply one man’s thoughts about our existence. I rewrite them here simply as an offering to anyone who may find meaning in them, as have I.
Everything can be seen as a this;
Everything can be seen as a that.
The 'that' depends upon the 'this';
The 'this' mirrors the 'that'.
One follows from the other;
Each is inseparable from both,
The same side of the same coin.
Every point of view depends upon the viewer,
Affirmation and denial,
Are equally beside the point.
None is more important
Or more valued than any other.
Welcome all things,
Watch as they come and go,
Be rooted in now.
When you penetrate that far,
You will shine with the original brightness.
Are you my partner in this adventure?
Meet a man from Berkeley, United States. I'm pretty easy going, vaguely intellectual, and I rarely get worked up over things. I travel a lot for work and pleasure, often combining the two. I have a daughter in college, whom I'm very proud of. She's truly my legacy and my gift to the world.
I enjoy my work a great deal.
I've always been an extremely happy person, and I seem to be missing whatever gene it is that makes people worry. My values are very traditional (integrity, hard work, loyalty to friends and family, tolerance.)
I went to boys schools (and one year at a men's college) and was taught old-school manners, some of which I actually remember.
I believe in over-tipping waiters and waitresses.
I'd rather read a good book than watch TV (I enjoy documentaries and the news but never seem to get around to it - TV and me don't get along too well). I'd like to meet someone who can talk about history as well as celebrity gossip.
And I'm not certain about walking on the beach and looking at the sunset. I find it much more interesting to walk for hours through the streets of Manhatten or San Francisco looking up at all the wonderful buidlings. I'm fascinated by people and what makes them tick, but I'm not terribly introspective.
Date single man from United States. Love Culture, all kinds, art - do some, music play some, Shakespeare to Joyce.
Fascinated by all things human from Cro-Magnon to Californian,
Relaxed (mostly) like to cook for & be with friends.
Always better by the water, as a homebody who likes to travel cruising on a sailboat is perfect, traveling but always at home. At sea you feel a balance between the three states of matter: solid, gas, liquid. The hull & sails a bridge between the wind & water.
What am I looking for?
What I try to be. A positive, kind, adventurous personality. One still dazzled by this bright world.
Meet a soulmate from United States. I am described by my match.com name:
sixtyisyoung. In a woman what is important to me is emotions and appearance. I don't like the American use of the word "cool". To me it is a negative characteristic. As to appearance, I like curvy, full figured, maybe somewhat fatty women.
Date someone special from United States. Non smoker, non drinker, non womanizer seeking non smoker, occasional drinker, one man woman. to share what life has to offer, I cook, know my way around the kitchen sink, laundry room, can with persuasion clean around the house.
Like to watch classic movies, cuddling on the couch, walking briskly for cardio or slowly in the moonlight.
There are a few more places in this country that I'd like to see, prefer to drive, so, a good navigator would be welcome.
Meet a man from United States. I like those words by Pablo Neruda. He spoke them when he was given the Nobel Prize for literature.
I’m a published poet, too. Actually only one poem, published in the San Francisco Chronicle editorial page a week after America’s invasion of Iraq. Seems so long ago...a tragic course for our country. Whatever happened to the vision of John F. Kennedy when he spoke about the struggle against the common enemy of man. That was the inspiration of this poem:
The Old Warrior’s Plea
Such a turn of the phrase, the old Warrior spoke,
“Now the trumpets summon us again,” said he.
Not the slings, not the arrows, to shoot from the darkness, but a Call to awaken us Free,
Free from the lock of the bushman’s law,
Free from the rules set by madmen all,
Free from that simple, that so mindless role,
Where victory’s gain is the loss of our soul.
Not as a Call to bear arms, said the Warrior,
Not as a Call into battle.
A Call to bear Burden, the Burden of Struggle,
The Struggle that starts and that lasts through the Twilight…
A Call that rejoices in Hope, and in Patience,
Not waging a war �gainst the Weak with our Might…
But a Struggle �gainst common enemies of lore…
�gainst Tyranny, �gainst Poverty, �gainst Disease, � gainst War.
And when the dusk sets, and the old Warrior looks down on us,
His tired eyes pleading for help…
Hear the trumpets that call for your whole-hearted Struggle,
A Struggle �gainst War––itself.
Well, that's it...
I'm really not much of a poet. I am a very good architect and designer with my own firm in Berkeley. I've lived in the Bay Area all my life. Went to UC Berkeley. I play tennis, practice tai chi chuan, or Argentine tango daily. I'm teaching my tango friends tai chi steps, and my tai chi friends tango! It's all good. My travels usually involve architecture and tango...kind of tangotecture, although this year I'm spending more time closer to home, working on my design projects, paying attention to my business, composing tangos, and only dreaming about where to go next...
I personally don't think I fit a mold, so maybe I seem too inaccessible or maybe just strange. Also in the last year, I've been spending more time paying attention to staying alive within the downturn of the architecture economy, and thus have not spent as much time on the net looking for you.
Nevertheless, here I am. I know you're out there. Bright, beautiful, intelligent, independent...am I asking for too much?
Well, maybe we don't need to bake the bread, but we may enjoy breaking some bread together.
Date single man from California, United States. I am a very passionate and caring man that lives life to the full I would like to meet someone that feels the same,.. I enjoy the simple but quality things in life I can drees jeans, sport or a business suit....
I enjoy going out , because there is so much to enjoy and see, I like going to the movies, staying home on a rainy or winter night and watching a movie , , conversing over a fireplace setting , Cooking together a special meal .. Traveling has always been my passion, I do have that gypsy mentality!!! lol I grew up on the beaches of San Diego , surf, diving and all water activities have always been a part of my life... Now,.. Just having that certain special someone would be the key , and would bring me the complete joy
Meet a soulmate from California, United States. I am new to the bay area visiting my family. I am interested in meeting new people to explore the beauties, that the bay area has to offer. I would be interested in meeting someone who lives in the bay area or very nearby, or who has his own jet and will be visiting frequently.