Date a soulmate from Santa Barbara, United States. I am a very kind and gentle, compassionate man. I have a very close relationship with my son and daughter, my son in law andgym four grandchildren. I am a deeply relational person and I am looking for someone to enjoy life with: to have romantic dinners, to watch movies at my home or at the theater, to go for long walks and share common advantures. I have had a successful life as an author, pastor, mortgage broker and speaker. I am very easy going, never raise my voice, am strong in conflict resolution and genuinely tender. I love to run and workout and have been able to establish myself financially as I am the top producer in our mortgage company. My perfect mate would be : easy going, a good conversationalist, willing to give me some alone time, desiring a peaceful, intimate relationship. She would be genuinely spiritual and have a healthy relationship with her family. She would be emotionally healthy and yearning to grow. She would enjoy long walks, trips to the wine country, working out, movies, romantic dinners. She would , most of all, be flexable and not demanding or quick to anger. She would want to be with a man who would respect her in every way and be grateful for each day of life.
Meet someone special from Santa Barbara, United States. Native of Santa Barbara and know how special of a location we have. I’m a caring, generous individual. Friends have often remarked a bit too caring and generous. I do not like confrontation and would rather discuss disagreements to hopefully reach a mutual agreement. I love to travel and explore new and interesting places. I love to cook, especially for friends and family. I keep physically fit generally working out at home but do enjoy playing tennis or getting out on my bike when the weather is nice.
Date a man from Santa Barbara, United States. I am an easy going type who appreciates the qualities in others, not the least of which is a quick sense of humor. I am not immune to physical appearance when it comes to what motivates me...;o)
I am not a compulsive "planner" that is to say, i prefer to be more spontaneous, but someone who posses the
"planner" gene is always a bonus for me/us.
I have had a good life and would like to continue...;o)
I would like to meet someone pretty and intelligent who loves to laugh, a great sense of humor, not afraid to laugh at ones self.....there must be chemistry and i find that with chemistry, most other things have a good chance to be compatible........dont you agree?..;o)
Meet single man from Santa Barbara, United States. Where are you ?!?!? I'm waiting for my new friend to show up and share a wonderful life with me. I'm a young-at-heart guy, very fit, who
enjoys music, excellent foods, and most important: great company !! I'm really very comfortable in jeans walking State St.,
or in a tuxedo sipping champagne, but my heart leans to the jeans !! I sell real estate for a living, which gives me lots of free time right now. I'm not the stressed out type, my sense of humor keeps me afloat, and I now wait for you to connect for a chat. walk on the beach,
and see how we do.
Date a soulmate from California, United States. Have lived a full life. Now want someone to enjoy the mellow things of life. The beach, sunsets, music quiet times to reflect..................Probably have unrealistic expectations of real life, but who knows.....let's explore.....!
Meet someone special from California, United States. I'm a honest hardworking, intelligent guy with a great sense of humor looking for gal with pretty much the same qualities. At the moment I'm rebuilding my home in the foothills behind Montecito. The original house burned down in the TEA FIRE. Since carpentry is one of my skills, I'm doing a lot of the work myself. On the other hand, typing for me is almost painful! Two years ago I was married and planning how to retire. I was sort of driffting through life. For various reasons, the spark in our marrige was gone. Today I'm working my butt off, but I feel great. My health is perfect and my vitality is back. I feel like I'm ready again for companionship, passion, and love.
Date a man from California, United States. I really enjoy staying in shape, by working out every day in many ways but mostly in a gym. I also love yoga and other spiritual pastimes. I love wildlife and my pets and spend a lot of time with them.
Meet single man from California, United States. I was born and raised in Europe and held an executive Position in the United States.
My social values are liberal. My Family is important to me. I like good food, and don't like to eat alone.
In order to maintain a good relationship with a partner it is important to listen to each other.
I like to travel.
Paris is my favored place to visit.
Date a soulmate from United States. I'm looking for a woman who is smart and funny who could become a good friend and lover....someone who is active/athletic and loves the outdoors and all its vagaries....who likes to walk and enjoys the many wonders of nature that are out there. Wit and intelligence..did I mention that? Emotionally independent and secure. Someone who has her own business or is self-employed would be preferable but not an absolute. Someone who likes to eat basically healthy foods without being a fanatic about. Someone who likes the desert....sand dunes, sunsets, and agarophobic distances. Nice hotels from time to time and stimulating conversation. Someone who doesn't take herself too seriously and makes sure I follow the same rule in my life. In touch with her confidence and being her natural self and me loving her for it and her loving me for who I am. Respect and love.....simple enough but a treasure when one finds it. I like a person that's a bit wacky but also wise. Is that the same as smart and funny?
Meet someone special from United States. It seems that we become so much more aware of what works and what doesn't, in relationships; as the years go by. Set in our ways; perhaps (?) But more likely, a need for common interests, a heightened social conscience, intellectual curiosity, shared recreational pursuits, an equal "appetite" for romance, et al. I am fortunate to have male friends with whom I'm able to discuss the intriguing topics that swirl around religion, politics, economics, science, human dynamics, environmental issues, etc. How nice it might be to find an equally enlightened, educated and engaged woman with whom to share these interests, and additionally a passion for physical; social activities, and romance.
I lead a very active and stimulating life. My work is interesting and gratifying beyond what I ever imagined it might be. I keep fit and active with gym workouts, kayaking, cycling, swimming, hiking and dancing. I have been mistaken for a professional dancer, but simply have a passion and aptitude that allows me to execute well and teach with patience and understanding. A life time of "training" allows me to say that I am likely the most active and fit person whom you are likely to meet.
I look forward to meeting someone who shares my values and interests and has evolved her own life of causes, passions and activities. There is so much that we can teach one another, if we have spent a life time pursuing the good stuff.
My work, activities, volunteer coaching, fund raising and dancing have allowed me to know literally hundreds of people in Santa Barbara. For that reason I have chosen not to publish photos. I'd prefer to keep my personal life private. I'll be happy to provide pictures should we choose to correspond.
Perhaps there is more to say by way of this introduction; but I suspect that a potentially compatible woman might find enough here to be curious (intrigued?) enough to want to exchange further thoughts, ideas, questions and answers. I'll be honored to hear from you.
Date a man from United States. I 'm always ready for change and love the outdoors. I am a hard working man dedicated to honesty and doing the best job possible. I am looking for a lady with western roots who has a love for western art. I was married to the best wife in the world, for 37 years. She passed away a year and a half ago after a three year struggle with cancer. If you had a similar experance, I would love to talk. My two grown childern are great source of love and happiness. I am ready to love again.
Meet single man from United States. I could say anything to get your attention....i would love an email rather than try and convince you with a never ending ad designed to sell. We publish our photos to make a first impression....if your first impression makes you smile......then please email....;o)i am searching for a beautiful woman, physically, emotionally, with a sense of humor like no other...loving and likes attention......chemistry is so important and is a nice foundation to begin with....