Date a soulmate from Woodbridge, United States. I want to start by saying that I believe in a full disclosure policy. Everything in here is the truth. Also, I am among the 57% of men online that actually aren't married. My main residence is in Woodbridge, between Sac and Stockton, but I am at my vacation home in Monterey as much as possible. I have been a fitness enthusiast for decades and lead a healthy lifestyle, but still enjoy three star restaurants. I enjoy the theater and concerts of C/W, the blues (those can be a real kick), rock, anyone good. I also like theme festivals such as the Renaissance Pleasure Faire and wine events. My Monterey home is where my heart really is. It is also a satellite office so that I can work from there. I also spend time on Tahoe's North Shore where I have another vacation home, so I hope you like those two areas or we won't have much in common. For city-life, SF is my favorite. A typical night in SF is a great dinner followed by the theater. My favorite resort is the Sonoma Mission Inn in the wine country and I go there as often as my schedule allows. I enjoy many outdoor activities, but seem to find time only for golf, skiing, and some biking. I am very mellow and would like to find someone with the same temperament. The old saying that opposites attract just isn't true. I describe myself as the world's most responsible child. I play only after all my responsibilities are complete, then play hard! I am very busy during the week and can't be available all the time, but when we are together it will be at a fine restaurant in a romantic town or setting. I have adult kids and two teenagers. One away at college and the other around here often. They are 17 (now that he has his license, I don't see much of him) and 20 yo. All this said, the bottom line is that I am a fun person to be with and frequent a lot of fun places. I am looking for someone that enjoys the same things as me, is mellow, and wants to have fun. Frankly, I am more concerned with the shape someone is in than their age. Hopefully, this system can get us together. FYI. CA doesn't report divorces to online reporting companies so a record search will appear that all people, myself included, are married. That's not the case, at all.