Date men from United States / California / Monrovia, 64 year old

Date a man from California, United States. PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME IF YOU HAVE NO PHOTO or IF YOU LIVE GREATER THAN 100 MILES FROM ME.
WHAT'S THE POINT?
I am recently retired and on Two quests to define my life and future. The first is to discover the next enterprise that excites my passion, and the second, to find the destined and supreme companion with whom to share my life.
I am financially and emotionally secure, and these goals are beacons to my focus right now.
Basically, I am most attracted to funny (but NOT sarcastic), intelligent women, of quiet beauty, who are of slender to average build, close to me in age, and who share in my desire, for a “best friend/soul mate/got-each-others-back” relationship to develop.
I am not restrictive to racial, political or religious differences, but I do believe in God, and His wonders.
Please don't respond unless you can agree with how we meet.
To explain: Here's what works for me, in order to minimize frustrations and disappointments, and not waste time for either of us. I prefer to email each other initially with whatever "getting-to-know-each-other," questions we have to enhance our initial attraction. Then, let's just meet for coffee, for 30 minutes. I assure you that chemistry will surface (or not), within that time frame.
We can hold our opinions of our meeting, until later.
Neither of us has to disappoint or to feel bad nor do we have to invent an excuse to leave.
I've been told that the need to hear, "the voice," is important to some. For me, it’s what I sense from "her eyes."
Meeting, as I suggest, solves both preferences.
Why waste time with numerous emails, phone calls, chats, and etc, when we can sense all we need to know, by just having a 30 minute cup of conversation?
I have never heard of anyone being accosted, by meeting for 30 minutes, at Starbucks.
There is no need to exchange numbers, until there is "mutual chemistry."
If this doesn't work for you...I sincerely wish you a short-search elsewhere, but I have faith that “my dream girl,” won’t find this a problem.