Date single man from Westlake Village, United States. My headline pretty much says what I'm like. I am openly affectionate in love and friendship and care deeply about family and friends. II have worked as a paint contractor most of my life, but equally as much in the creative fields as an actor, singer-songwriter and currently screenwriter. I have a broad spiritual base so although I consider myself christian, I do not believe any one faith has a corner on God. I don't believe there is an actual place called heaven..or hell. Both, it seems to me, are a state of mind. It's free will, we create our own heaven and our own hell. Nor do I believe that there is a chosen people. Seems to me that there are only people who choose. It's your life and you make of it whatever you want. However, I do believe that life is eternal and God, he/she/it .. is all there is.
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I am looking to find some one who identifies with my own interests, but who also has their own life interest that I can support. She
might have been slightly hippi in the 60's/70's and fits comfortably with a variety of people. A positive outlook, good sence of humor, sharing, caring, sometimes silly, sometimes serious. Not too regimented, but disciplined to her own needs and goals. Out-going and friendly, experienced and worldly. Someone who hasn't lost their inner child. A friend and confident. Some one you enjoy, respect and have a good time with. If It goes beyond that, thats even better. Ultimately I would like to find that special someone to share my life with.
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Meet a soulmate from Westlake Village, United States. You are a good-natured, happy, attractive and clear-headed woman. You think that the glass is full.
I love the world of ideas. I am dependable, direct, low maintenance, easy-going, open, affectionate and I tell the truth. I "relax into life". The last time that I was angry was in the early 1970s. I have been annoyed more recently. We must "relax into life" to love thoroughly. Otherwise it is just hormones.
I feel better and prefer sunrise to late nights. Will I see 2 sunrises each day....the first being your smiling and eager face?
I get along with most people. I, of course, prefer some over others. Some people who talk with me the first time ask if I am a teacher/professor.
I have learned that selfless love is known by its devotion to the happiness, health, improvement and refinement of another. It is clear-headed, open-eyed love that aims to serve the other. "It is the sickness and the cure." I want to grow it again.
I think that the "purpose of life" is "purposeless play". The joy and excitement of children in play and college football players in the New Years's bowl games are the best models of living. They are not concerned about religions or the future. They are in the Here & Now.
Buddha was closet to the mark when he taught how to lessen suffering Here & Now. He deflected questions about the after-life. He would have agreed with Bill Gates when asked about after-life when Bill said "not enough data."
I like LACMA, Laemmle, Landmark, PBS, NPR and Netflix. I watch only a little football. I have no need or desire for cable. I like holding hands while walking and cuddling closely on the couch as the DVDs play and more in private. I like country dancing.
I like to hike and sleep in the woods several times a year in the warm summer. I would like you to join me or you can spend time with family and friends. These hikes create awareness of breathing and walking, two of the most basic human activities. Beauty draws me forward with lighter steps up steep trails above tree line and I follow beauty down again.
I think that on average we can cook better tasting food and much healthier food than we buy in restaurants. I grow better tasting citrus, tomatoes, squash and fruit than we can buy and they are free of contamination. Such home-grown food is wealth too.
Now that I have remodeled my kitchen with a man's eye for convenience and efficiency, I am cooking from "Nigella Express: 130 Recipes for Good Food, Fast". She is correct.... EXCELLENT flavors with VERY little preparation time. I will also learn to make several Mexican salsas and food from India. All of these receipts will be supported by output from my garden starting this winter. Relax, it's not a competition. I am only learning/playing. I can help you in the kitchen or get out of the way.
I will fix things NOW around the house for you. Your kitchen knives will always be sharp.
You like a clean house and so do I.
I take no prescription drugs. My BMI is 21.8
If medical help is needed, I am battle-tested. I was her sole caregiver over 19 months. She died at home with only me present as she wished. Grieving ended Dec 29th, 2007. It was like light switch going from off to on.
These are some practical things I can say clearly. The most important aspects of human relations are beyond words. They are lived.