Date men from United States / California / Hollister, 64 year old

Date a man from California, United States. Retired CEO in multiple industries heavy lift crane rigging and agriculture. You’re thinking alpha male well yes but also a caring and romantic side. I have not been on a date in decades so this online dating is new to me. My female friends have warned me to be very careful that online dating can be a mine field. Although they also say I am what women are looking for. A widower, easy to look at, financially secure, thoughful, caring and in excellent health ready to have fun and experience more of what life has to offer.
I will be 64 in a few weeks but I can party to sunrise at the ships dance club or enjoy a romantic sunset dinner (Roy’s at Pebble Beach is my favorite) and anything in between with the right woman.
I have two daughters and three grandchildren (two born on St Patrick’s Day) that live very close. Living in a private gated community (not retirement type) with 36 holes of golf playing almost every day with my buddies men and women is the gold standard. A new friend that plays would be a HUGE plus. Seeing friends and family daily, going to the many events and parties is fun but not equal to the attention and affection of a loving female.
Lived in Europe for 3 years have no desire to return. I would like to see more of our own country. Dream vacation, how about a week in DC seeing the national treasures, then clam chowder and lobster up the east coast to Maine and Vermont for the fall color changes?
The photos posted are very recent. I do not photograph well bad luck I guess.
About You: Must be happy and outgoing, passionate about life, no drama or games.
She arrives fashionably late for the party dressed slinky and sexy; all the ladies want to talk to her all the men are envious of her date. She brings class and fun to all situations and everyone feels comfortable around her. Her laugh and energy level is infectious. She gets the party started. You enjoy being spoiled and return in kind
Alone with her man she is very romantic and erotic, likes being held, long kisses, breakfast in bed. Coffee at sunrise??

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. After I retired 4 years ago I wasn't sure what was it that I wanted to do, I played around with my hobbies, restoring classic cars, building harley's and mostly playing golf. My first 2 hobbies are very expensive so I mostly play golf (6 handycapp) Lately I have been volunteering in many local non profits agencies and also the Probation Dept attempting to help young people with their lives.One of my favorite pastimes is helping elder people fix and maintain their homes, I practically melt when I see that look of gratitude, I couldn't buy it with money.I should devote more time for this pastime.
So immersed with all this volunteering that I forget that I need the most important essential in my life and that is a better half, someone who can validate who I am, after all who am I, if I dont have that someone to encourage me and pick me up when I may fall on my kisser.
I am not very experienced at these site but I have to confess that I don't believe I would want to meet a lady that drinks heavily or smokes, also if you are alone because of your life's indiscrepancies Ill pass, I would like to live whatever life may be left in my gas tank as happily and conflict free as possible.
Although I have accomplished many things in my life and feel somewhat satisfied I still dream of things I would like to accomplish and have I believe that is what keeps me motivated, I am looking for a very special lady, I may never find her but I know she is outthere I am not desperate so time is not of the essence.
I am not rich,tall or handsome and my lady does not have to have the physique or the looks (it would be a plus)because experience has taght me that the true beauty a woman possesses is her inner beauty, her intellect, her diplomacy and her womanly ability to make a home what it should be, a comfort zone.