Date single man from California, United States. I grew up on the northern coast of Brittany in France. After living in different parts of this country, including Manhattan for 12 years and Sedona for 7, I have settled in Berkeley for the last 15 years. This feels like home. I have a 13 year old son who shares his life equally between his parents (who happen to get along). Being a "good" father is important to me.
I now live on the water on a boat I am slowly restoring. I love living simply in the natural world, in a structure that feels as if it was alive. I consider myself fit, charming, self-sufficient (I cook, do the laundry, etc...), reliable, soft-spoken, smart enough, etc.. I believe that we can evolve and that "being in touch" with one's emotions is critical.
I became a "woodworker" in my mid-forties by choice. It's a work that fits me well I believe and draws me in from different angles: artistic, intellectual (always good problems in need of good solutions), physical (this is "real" work, very tangible and satisfying), and social (I have developed some strong ties with some of my clients). I have been able to work pretty solidly for the last few years and, being self-employed, see myself as being blessed. There is a strong artistic undercurrent to my work and I need to be with someone who can have that connection. Speaking of which...
By now, I think I am pretty much in touch with who I am, that I have become who I was all along. I am looking for someone who has reached a similar part on their journey. I believe there still is one "woman" left in me. I am seeking someone who cares, someone affectionate when it matters, someone who is able to receive as much as to give, someone who can trust, someone who has the ability to be present. Someone who can engage me in what she does and what matters to her. I am looking for"chemistry", that is essential. Someone who can be a friend, a lover, a companion possibly down the road. There is 'definitely" something important still missing.
Please know that I do not respond to winks or someone without pictures.
Meet someone special from California, United States. I am a very active person with a lot of interests. A lot of people say the same thing, but in my case it is true. I am a professional photographer who has been to a lot of very interesting places, fishes, rock climbs, backpacks, reads like a devil, collects rocks and bowling balls, and will do most anything for a laugh.
I cannot emphasize the importance of humor and spontaneity in my life. All kinds- goofy to clever.
Humor equals fun.
I would like a partner who is worldly, generally upbeat but aware of life's complexities. Can be spontaneous and not self conscious. Needless to say, emotional sophistication and empathy also rate high with me. Looking for someone to have BIG FUN with. Maybe more if you are the one...
Date a man from California, United States. Not as funny as David Sedaris but better looking than Garrison Keillor. I’m youthful but mature, sensual and sensitive. Willing and able to commit to one dynamic, creative, enchanting woman.
Yoga a couple times a week since 2004 makes me feel great! Its put me in the best shape I’ve ever been, restoring my strength, flexibility and balance. My photos are recent and most people guess my age at early 50s.
I’m seeking companionship to explore hiking, cooking and cuisine, movies and reading, performing arts, new adventures outdoors or indoors and just hanging out.
I have a special affinity for women in creative pursuits: the arts, media, writers. I'm an accomplished man of many parts: broadcaster (public radio), and self-taught musicologist; life explorer of broad interests and wide perspective.
FUN FACTS ABOUT DAVE:
** Grew up in an avocado grove in Southern California.
** Once directed Meryl Streep in a voice-over session.
** Richard Nixon’s father’s grocery was once the closest market to our home. My father wouldn’t go there.
** Lived in Bay Area since 1970.
** Once had a job driving a Bookmobile. .
** Have attended a weekly men’s group for 13 years.
** Favorite classical composer, Antonin Dvorak.
** Saw Jimi Hendrix perform.
But seriously:
I enjoy giving and receiving massage, dancing, naps, bird watching and diverse musical genres from minimalist to romantic classical to jazz.
Some of my favorite places are: California coast, high Sierras, high desert, Point Reyes, Tassajara Hot Springs, fine hotels, primitive campsites, good restaurants, Kauai, Italy.
Friendship in a love relationship is among my highest priorities, as are mutual respect, communication, fidelity, tolerance,. Other particulars: I'm non-smoking/ drug-free/ very light drinker / 59 trim and healthy/ cat lover / no kids and plan none. I've been told that I have "intelligent hands."
Are you artistic or creative in some special way? Do you have cat(s), listen to National Public Radio, hike, or like casual birding? Are you independent, happy with your work and life, like to dance, talk, read or be read to? If the answer is yes to some of these questions, we might be compatible.
GEOGRAPHIC NOTE: I've worked in Marin full or part-time since 1988 and lived 20 years in San Francisco, so I'm comfortable anywhere in SF, Marin or East Bay. Though I currently reside in Berkeley there is not a hint of tie-dye or pachouli about me.
PLEASE: S.F. Bay Area only.
Meet a soulmate from California, United States. An honest passionate man looking for the same in a woman for a life partnership or casual respectful sex or anything in between. One never knows until we come together and create something unique between us.
Date single man from United States. Things are getting curiouser and curiouser, don't you think?
You’ll find I'm a natural listener, with a schooled, soft voice.
I’m not offended by our differences.
I put my first trust in musicians, naturalists, visual thinkers, and writers, published or not.
More than a pastime: I love twisted wit, Jon Stewart's news, Robin Williams' mime.
More than a pastime: I love canyons, wind, lake-swimming, and playful talk afterward.
You and I are idealistic. Futures in the making are alive, even when they’re far- fetched.
We're drawn to breakthroughs and nurture, both. We’re good seers and givers.
We have health-seeking work and play. We’re at ease with different sorts of people, but we’re most at home with those who are mindful, literate, unassuming, and warm.
My work takes me into the prisons and the elites. I’m moved when people give up violence, especially the spoken kind.
I’m jaded about authority. I still don’t give up on people when I should.
One wish: your fondest music and landscapes leave you moist-eyed and wordless. Another: you’re a communicator, by nature and by dedicated practice. Another: you're as youthful as your posted photos, or you'll send me some more. (For my part, I am.)
This can take different forms, but it would mean the world to me to have a family.
Meet someone special from United States. I and others might describe me as open, fun, very funny, well-informed, insightful, generous, passionate and kinda boyish. And irreverent in the highest order (or is that lowest?). I was born and bred in San Francisco and never weaned (for obvious reasons). I come from a close, large, progressive family that has left their mark in the world and on me. I'm happy multitasking with my laptop on the couch. But I love spontaneous uprisings too: tennis, dancing, a movie, a concert, an amazing meal, a great bike ride or hike, golf — so many things will get me off the couch.
I desire a LTR and hope to share some of these other desires: Laughing, flirting, depth, style, (good) taste, stimulating and intelligent conversations, honesty, openness, fun, compassion, snuggling, warmth, vulnerability, understanding, learning, creative, culture, kind, (great) kissing. Heat and humor. Smarts and wit. Know how to formulate a sentence. Be grounded in your body and soul.
Like most of you, I believe in the laws of chemistry and mutual attraction and this is, of course, is only a start, but hopefully not a false one.
Date a man from United States. others tell me i'm balanced, funny, active, and fair. I enjoy surprises and new adventures. travelling to new places, seeing diverse lifestyles, and variety captures my attention. I'm really in the mood to meet someone fun.
Meet a soulmate from United States. Researchers say the average American laughs 18 times per day. Seems low to me, so I do whatever I can to raise the average.
In my ample spare time, I enjoy small towns, eclectic dining, film series, sports events and walking on unpopulated beaches with my two fine Cavalier King Charles Spaniels, Tiny Billie and Love Train. I'm in the tenth year of an escalating attempt to turn my yard into a tropical paradise. I spend lots of time in my hot tub savoring views of the bay, the City and the bridges.
I am seeking someone who would approach a relationship with good will, positive energy and an appreciation of life' absurdities, including those associated with these dating sites.
Date single man from Berkeley, United States. This keeps coming out like a legal brief but I need to try to get a little more personal here. The facts, in a nutshell, are that I grew up in New York and moved to California to go to UC. Berkeley and then law school , marriage and family. I did (and loved) every minute of kid soccer, baseball, barbecues and vacations. Now everyone is grown up and although things have certainly changed, it seems like there is a world of fun and adventure waiting out there. The real key for me is to be able to do those great things with a woman who's my best friend and partner and so that's what I'm looking for here and all of that is the complete truth.
Meet someone special from Berkeley, United States. Like to think of myself as energetic and active, also reasonably
well-read and curious, full of wit and plenty sardonic, affectionate and
thoughtful. I dance as often as I can. I prefer being outdoors and
when indoors you'll find me in the kitchen, cooking or baking.
Or in my living room reading my kindle, with my cat Cinnamon nestled at my shoulder.
I used to tend to roses, but alas, as I no longer have my beloved garden, I nurture orchids and tubers indoors.
I hope to connect and to initiate a long-term relationship with a
woman who is likewise active and athletic, intelligent and caring.
Having just ended a three-decade-long marriage, I truly am -- can I say
it now -- wiser and kinder.
Without much ado, I suggest we meet and talk -- one meeting, with eyes
and words, that will accomplish what many emails can't.
Try this fun quiz -- it might help you get to know me.
1. Who are Panisse, Fannie & Cesar? (4 pts)
2. Name the 4th in this quadrangle. (4 pts)
3. Have eaten at Chez Panisse. (4 pts)
If you answered #2 correctly -- I'll take you out to Chez Panisse.
4. Know what a Kumamoto is (2 pts)
5. Know how to make risotto. (4 pts)
6. Know what a Texas Tommy is. (2 pts)
7. What's an Ultegra derailleur? (4 pts)
8. Own your own sleeping bag. (4 pts)
9. Like to sleep under the stars. (2 pts)
10. Can do a Telemark turn. (6 pts)
11. Like Django Reinhardt. (2 pts)
12. Actually read Descent of Man. (8 pts)
13. Love Veuve Cliquot. (4 pts)
14. Know what your BMI is. (2 pts)
15. Your BMI is less than 26. (6 pts)
16. Neither smoke nor own a gun. (2 pts)
17. Love good French wine. (4 pts)
18. Dislike SUVs and Republicans. (6 pts)
19. Drive a Prius. (6 pts)
20. Watch Television. (minus 4 pts)
21. Know how to glissade. (4 pts)
22. Read Martha Stewart Living. (4 pts)
23. Know how to clarify butter. (2 pts)
24. Can do a Philadelphia boast. (20 pts!)
If you score higher than 30 points, then we might be a good fit.
Higher than 50 -- Marry me!