Date a man from United States. Interested in N.P.R. AND CURRENT EVENTS ENJOY PLAYING PIANO HOPE TO LEARN TO COOK; TO BE INTERNET SAAVY; AND TO ENJOY FORAYS TO NEARBY CITIES.HOPING TO FIND AN ATTENTIVE RESPONSIVE COMPANION TO SHARE THE FUN. GOURMET FOR TWO AND INTIMATE EVENINGS IN DVD HEAVEN TOGETHER
Meet someone special from United States. So, obviously, I'm not quite ready yet to go totally live, to post pictures or to start communicating. This (like me and all of the rest of us, if I may say so) is a work in progress - the early stages is how I'm feeling about it right now.
Then, I decided, why not post right here, out in the open, the stuff that I'm writing/the drafts that I'm working with as I try to figure out how best to express myself here. Sound a little obcessive or perfectionistic? Well, maybe it is. Or maybe it's just the way I'm going to enjoy the early part of this process.
In the interest of perspective please keep in mind everything I'm writing in these sections is true at least it's true at the moment that I write it. But, this is not like Venus being born fully adult and beautiful from the head of Zeus. If only, right? Also, some of the basic/statistical/personal ID info is a little off the mark; it will be corrected when I'm ready to post pictures and start communicating.
That all having been said and on the perhaps unlikely assumption that you even care anymore, here we go.
The Bsd - Things are not always as they seem. An observation that probably goes without saying on a dating site. On the other hand, I tend to treat what we could easily call the disappointments as if they were entertaining surprises - little vignettes that are really harmless and which give us glimpses of (sometimes omitted from our profiles) aspects of the human condition.
The Good - It’s way too easy to forget that “things aren’t always as they seem” has plenty of room for the delightfully surprising, too. The stuff about each other that we would never have guessed and which we find out only when we meet or after a few face-to-face conversations. Somewhere along the line (we all hope) there will be the surprise that will make us want to come back for more. And more.
Might I be that kind of surprise for you? And you for me?
I talk too much.
I hope that at least some of the time you will think that I have interesting things to say.
I am an excellent listener.
I strive to understand.
I weigh too much. Ooops! Wasn't planning on saying that. Promise that all of the pictures that I post will accurately show how I look now as opposed to 10 years ago.
I have lived with Golden Retrievers, usually 2 at a time, for so long (since 1960) that in many ways, I think I may have become one, myself. This is a good thing. Plus, I don't shed.
I had a 25 year long career/avocation/love affair with flying that was almost beyond magical. I don’t concede much and not very easily to the consequences of aging but, over the course of a couple of years, I found that I was loosing some of the edge, mental sharpness, intense and unremitting focus that I want the pilot of any aircraft I’m traveling in to have. FAA said that I was good to go and so did my doc. But, I knew better and so, I made the call because I have only one *.
I have big time needs to give and to receive loving - to listen and to understand, to be heard and to be understood.
Date single man from United States. I'm most passionate about: Finding a Life Partner to share my life and have Children with, as our real Legacy is our children, all else is meaningless! Pheromones Chemistry is the Key - meaningful connection! Also, just enjoying what the Gift of Life has to offer, while we are still here! P.S: A 39 yr. old Women is NO Spring Chicken!
The qualities that I am most looking for in a Life Mate are as follows: A Woman who is a Good Listener with Good Common Sense, who knows her own mind; goes after it! Trusts her gut feelings; does not allow herself to be influenced by Friends or Family! A Women who considers any Mans Age just a number; not important, because she can always consider other aspects; other qualities that a Man has to offer, which over shadows his age! A Woman, who wants to have Children, is young enough; healthy enough to have them! A Woman who wants to share her Life, Love, Happiness with a Good Man - like ME!
In addition: It seems that the majority of Women, state that they want honesty from Men! Yet, it seems that the majority of the Men out there will just tell you what you all want to hear, so that they can get what they want! With me, what you see is what you get – no Game Playing!
My leisure time is spent as follows: Gardening, Refurbishing my 4 BR/2.5 Bath, 2 Story Ventura Beach Home, Master BR has View of the Anacapa Islands and Ocean (My Ventura Beach Home is approx. 450 Feet above Sea Level - near Ventura College).
I have taken the year 2012 off from my normal Profession, so I can concentrate on refurbishing; updating my Home in Ventura – as it is very time consuming! In addition, three quarters of the work on my Home, I am doing myself. I enjoy working with my hands, as I do an excellent job – even if I do say so myself! I have always been quite proficient at refurbishing and updating Real Estate!
I enjoy the following: Cooking, Dancing, Traveling, Cruise Ships, Investing, Movies, Plays, Seminars, Lectures, Etc. Besides, spending quality time with the future one I love!
I have a lot to offer my Future Wife - besides laughter, so all She needs to figure out, is what She has to offer Me in return!
Added information: Accept for my Wisdom Teeth, (removed due to not enough room) I have all my original Teeth and never experienced any Cavities! That should tell you something about my Health for my Age, which I have already stated is just a number!
The Program Nature on P.B.S – TV: shows that the African Female Elephant will only Mate with the Oldest Male Bull Elephants, because they have already proven themselves capable of Survival (Genetics) – that is how Mother Nature works! In addition, Children born to Older Fathers have increased Telomere Lengths on their Genes - and an increased Lifespan!
To be honest with you, I am personally looking for Beauty on the inside as well as Beauty on the outside. In My lifetime of experiences with Women, I have come across many Beautiful Shells with no substance, and that is definitely, what I am "NOT looking for!" This is why I decided to try Match.com, to see if I might have better luck in finding My Soul Mate! By the way, I am NOT a Player, I have just been picky all my life, and I only want to be married once, with NO Divorce!
Statistically: Women have a higher divorce rate with Taller Men, than with average Height Men! Sorry Women, but approximately only 10% of Men are over 5’ 9” tall! Women who marry Older Men have fewer divorces, than Women who marry Younger Men!
If Mr. Donald Trump can marry a Women 30 yrs. younger than he is and have Children with her, than I see no reason why I can't do the same, or younger with an older mentality!
P.S: My Primary Picture is recent! I am Loc. approx. 56 miles from W.B. Studios in Burbank, Calif. I am also a Member of SAG - AFTRA ONE UNION, which keeps me busy, with a change of pace in my life. Income is to Lifestyle, as Wealth is to Balance Sheets! Required Prenuptial! I'm NOT a Member yet!
Meet a soulmate from United States. Why does anyone ever sign up for this crap. I just want to see if there is anyone interesting in my area and they ask me a million questions. Total BS. Lets see. It's 62 degrees, 4:40 AM, I am bored.
Date a man from Ventura, United States. want to hang out or have with!
Someone not boring!
The homes I've desgned and built and my art work!
My life and the blissings that go withit!
Someone who likes people!
I have a great # of friends!
A good comedy!
Someone I want to wake up to the next morning!
My best friend and the rest will fall in place!
Life with family events growing together as a couple and lifes challenges.
Meet someone special from Ventura, United States. I am a thoughtful and caring person with an eccentric sense of humor and cerebral/serious when the situation calls for it.
Enjoy all sorts of activities including live music, reading, dining, business, movies, dancing, travel, theater, nature, great conversations, have very high energy, and enjoy almost every sport.
I'm always willing to try new things.
Looking for someone who is loving, considerate, and caring who wants to share the activities or be supportive of them.
Date single man from Ventura, United States. I would say that I've got a good mind, a good heart and a good sense of humor. I'm athletic and like competition. My sports use to be surfing, basketball, baseball and tennis but are now mostly racquetball and golf. I'm very easy to get along with. I've lived in Ventura most of my life except for college in San Diego. Since a picture is worth a 1000 words, I posted mine. My look-a-like? Maybe Grizzly Adams... remember him ? I'm like most of the people using this system, I'm single after a long marriage (25 years) and now looking for a compatible companion, an activity buddy if you will...someone to have fun with... that right fit that makes anything you do together great fun. I think that judging everyone in this system as a possible life long mate puts too much pressure on everyone envolved.My ideal match would have a nice way about them. That is they would really care about others and their feeling. They would find the fun and pleasure in a simple life and not need expensive things to make them happy. People are what count not things.