Date someone special from Ocean Beach, United States. I'm a Chronically Ironic Juxtopositional Jester; and Registered Habitual Cliche Offender
Autisticly Artistic Dyslexic Poet Provacateur
A Poor Man's Frank Loyd Wright, and a Builder of Custom Home that marries Austere Santa Fe with Binge drinking Trappist Monk; not to mention a dance floor and yoga studio.A monument to my self-centeredness cathedral commensurate with my insecurities
An Over the Hill Performance Level Sasla Dancer;
Resistance Advocate in War against Complacency, Compulsive Conformity Anal Retentive Zealotry
Survivor of 07 Hip Replacement Debacle 08 Financial Holocaust and still managed to keep a 6 man construction crew working full time from 06 through Bush induced depression until 2011
Former Herman Cain Lover (just kidding)
And Evangenital Executive Member of the Church of Costco ( not kidding)
Equally proud of my Failures and Sucesses.
Tantric Heterosexual Male with functional hydraulics and feminist sympathies- Kobe Beef Certified
Chief Executive Buffoon of Kamikaze Financial
Serial Collaborator, Win/Win Opportunist and; Advocate for the Common Good
Ready to get into Dance Education for Kids . Progressive Democratic Politics when real estate projects are completede in a few years.
Having been egotistically driven to achieve my personal vision, I can now begin to generously turn my devotion to the dreams of others. Having spent a life pursuing unorthodox answers, I have mischievously vanquished categories and simplistic self-limiting categories.
But perhaps I could best be summed up as a Buddhist Warrior. The following quote, which is an excerpt from Rob Brezsny's Free Will Astrology, explains.In Tibetan Buddhism's "Four Dignities of the Warrior's Path, courage and ferocity are absent. In fact, the qualities regarded as essential have nothing in common with the training regimens of football players or Marines or lobbyists. The first dignity is literally translated in English as meekness, but that word doesn't convey its full meaning. "Relaxed confidence" is a more precise formulation. A humble feeling of being at home in one's body. Perkiness, or hard-earned, unabashed joy, is the second dignity. To develop it, the warrior diligently drives out the self-indulgence of cynicism. The third is outrageousness. It combines a delight in daring experiments with a passionate objectivity that is free of hope The fourth dignity is inscrutability, or a skill at evading the pigeonholes and simplistic definitions that might limit the warrior's inventiveness while fighting for his or her moral vision.
i am attracted to gifted women who can run with the Wolves. If they can dance with the sensual fury and abandonment of an angry goddess then i'm like a moth drawn to a burning flame. The women in my life usually have a clever improvisational mind that requires the intellectual stimulation of books, theatre, poetry and foreign movies. Non-linear thinking is not only a plus but appreciated. My ideal woman has an active moral sense of justice, a political rebel perhaps, who will not lamely succumb to the patriarchal phallic-centric value system of the dominant pop-culture machine. She would also be embracing of my existing family of women friend/dancers. And oh yes, I'm partial to tall women adn dancers, To such a woman I might happily commit myself and offer her financial freedom to puruse her artistic dreams.
just to clarify my never being married. I did have a friend lover over 14 years where I was contentedly monogamous. She was as well. But she broke off our friends with benefits when she realized I woud be moving to SD. We remain friends. But during the many years we were together, i continued to expand my family of women friend through dance which brought out too much jealousy which also was a factor in her decision. So you could say I was married without the confinement of a legal contract; making the continuation of our intimacy a decision we could make freely every week
Meet single man from Ocean Beach, United States. Call me a bit old school, but I'm a man of action rather than words. Puts me in a pickle in a place like this, but I'll give it the good ol' college try.
Don't get me wrong, I love a good conversation, and I enjoy people in general. I like hearing what people think and learning what makes them tick. I genuinely care about others and know that I'd gladly give my life to save another, especially for children and the elderly. I am happiest when I surround myself with people who care for others more than they care about themselves; we're just kindred souls.
I've been lucky in life, have traveled to many places that others only dream about. I'm not ready to stop yet but I do think that the travels would be better if I had someone to share them with. I've lived enough to know that life is too short for games and self-indulgence, and sharing is everything to me.
I'd like to meet a woman who is loving, caring and honest. Someone who gives before she gets, is interested in others and understands that she is whole and good just as she is. Someone who will share their story and cherish hearing mine.
Sound like you?