Date men from United States / California / Westley, 66 year old

Date someone special from California, United States. I am a widower of 16 months. My wife and I were married 38 years; the bond between us was very fulfilling in all ways. Now that my heart is starting to open again I hope to find another woman to share with me life's pains and pleasures. I may seem shy at first but warm up quickly to a like personality. The quality most important to me now is that of being genuine.
By that I mean the relaxed self confidence to
show me who you truly are without a lot of
excess "glamour". I appreciate a woman I
can be "in the moment" with and enjoy a relaxed interchange of conversation, travel, good food, and other life pleasures.