Date men from United States / California / Ventura, 42 year old

Date a man from Ventura, United States. I am fortunate to be surrounded by many people who think like I do, but live life without any goals. At this point I think that you have to get busy living or get ready to just give up and get busy dying. I am attracted to women who are independent but do not have problems adjusting to another human being who has needs and desires.