Date men from United States / California / San Anselmo, 63 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Ladies! If you have questions about my marital status, please ask. I will be glad to share all details.
Beaches are my favorite places in the world. I love the Caribbean, Bahamas, Hawaii-- areas with bright sun, clear, azure-blue water, and warm weather--the kinds of places where you can go barefoot all day, and dressing up means putting on flip-flops, maybe a t-shirt. Speaking of dressing up, I also enjoy putting on a tuxedo or even a set of tails, and going to a fancy event.
I have studied ballroom dance for over 15 years. Also enjoy yoga, meditation, hiking, reading, travel, going out to restaurants, vegan cooking and dining, music, movies (primarily romantic comedies), and writing. I like the theater (primarily musicals), the City (SF, N.Y., Boston, Paris, London), being in the country, the mountains, lakes. I used to ski but haven't done it in a while and am starting to think maybe I would like to try it again. I follow a macrobiotic lifestyle and diet. This does not mean that I only eat brown rice and tofu, meditate, and chant (though I have done those things). I have a pretty normal life, but I do cook a lot. I go to restaurants and eat out with friends. I eat fish once in a while too. Hey, if it's good enough for Bill Clinton---! (it is the only respect, however, in which we are alike!)
For me, the important ingredients in a relationship are mutual attraction and consideration, shared interests, and shared affection and intimacy. I am looking for someone who is honest, attractive, athletic, slender, adventurous, inquisitive, loving, a great kisser, and at least interested in vegan/vegetarian cooking. Your spiritual beliefs, whatever they are, are important to you. You are happy and appreciate the gifts and adventures that life has to offer. You don't need another person to complete you but you are looking forward to finding a relationship that is more than the sum of its parts. You are a romantic and believe in magic,love, chemistry, "x-factor" or whatever it is that draws you to a stranger across a crowded room, but you have your feet on the ground and can deal with life on life's terms.
Looking for a best friend and a lover, a companion to be comfortable with in conversation or in silence, someone who has a balanced approach to life, is open with feelings, and willing to discuss things before they become problems.