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Date someone special from California, United States. Subscription is expired; I'm not renewing at this time. I hope that you find what you are looking for.
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I was recently told (by a small group of ladies at a wedding of a couple that met on-line) that I won't be single for long and my "About Me" should simpy say -
I am very intelligent, uniquely humorous, financially secure, and you will have to investigate further to learn more." (The End)
So if that's all you need, jump to the next step - email me or move on. For others that want to know more ... read on ...
I have been fortunate to experience that rare and elusive true "Chemistry"
"I like it. I love it. I want some more of it." - (you may know the musician, but Match removed his name)
Chemistry may be difficult to describe, but it's easy to recognize.
Chemistry is invisible to the eye, but perceptible to an observer.
Chemistry can never fill a container, but it can certainly fill a room.
True Chemistry is beyond this material world, but not beyond our reach.
But this next time, I want to share it forever.
I'm a real good guy. I'm not perfect, but regarded as much better than average. I am uncommon, humorous, considerate, sacrificing, caring, gentle, respectful, honorable, trust-worthy, quite amorous, passionate when appropriate, loyal, dependable, intelligent, driven, in good health (all original - no relacement parts yet), drug free, financially secure, and easy going every chance I get. I cherish family & friends. My humor is often dry and cerebral exercise is constant.
I have two beautiful young sons. My family (now “children”) is (are) absolutely the paramount facet of my life.
(I think this part scares away many, but there is often a larger return for investing early.) "Generous to a fault" - For the benefit of my soon to be ex-wife, I'll be techinically married (though legally Separated) until July 2012. However, the actual "marital relations" are long dead and gone. I'm fine to talk about it, but would not post details here.
I've already had the significant (rebound - multiple months) relationship and some other dating after I became legally Separated.
I'm ready to begin dating with a purpose and validating my belief that treating a woman with respect, consideration, appreciation, and honor is a winning formula.
I believe looks are relevant, stimulation is important, and chemistry is critical. I would like to discover my best friend to share our lives.
My date should be fun-loving, interesting, reasonably drama-free (and fully drug -free), easy going, compassionate, accepting of others, and ... stimulating. She should be comfortable and look good in casual clothes and minimal to no make up. I'm not going to judge you by education or income level. I'm not going to limit my exploration to just one color of eyes or hair. You are not being compared against a stringent checklist. (Isn't it hard enough to find that special person without restricting it further? But - respectfully - I'm not here to explore with just anyone that shows interest in me.) Help me to see why you and I may become a long term "us".
Philosophies:
Do on to others; help whoever you can; appropriately respect everyone; honesty is the best policy.
I believe that success, happiness, and satisfaction are attainable by all individuals willing to pursue it with pure intentions.
I prefer “participation” rather than “observation”.

Meet people from California, United States. Well, winking is as far as i am getting on here..... sorry! I am not subscribed.. :( I am a single Mom. My kids are my world. They are all out of the house except one. I am also a Grandma to a 4, year old boy. :) I am NOT like most Moms. What I like to do: I will try things if they look like fun. I am a spunky, active person who at times just wants to sit and be pampered, i do return the pampering. I am very passionate about things i love. I love to go to the beach, dance, go out to eat, movies, cuddle, watch the sunsets, hike, camp, eat hot wings, roast marshmallows at the beach OR at home on a fork! I like to read. I am pretty easy to please!! I think the question should be.. what don't I like...I dislike LIERS, CHEATERS and FLAKES, and i don't mean the flakes you eat with milk! I do not wish to play games. I want to find that special guy I can keep. I am looking for a relationship so if you are a commitment phobe, please save us all some time and keep looking. I like spending time with my guy, but everyone needs there alone time. I am so easy to talk to that people do not need to make a front for me. BE YOURSELF! Don't present yourself one way then do a personality morph on me..Whats up with that Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde???? I also don't like eggplant or lima beans. I am looking for a gentlemen, someone who is honest, and does not cheat. I am a born detective...so . if you have it in you to hide things and be dishonest, click to the nest profile because i am not the girl for you. I want an affectionate guy that i can not wait to see. Are you out there?????? My match MUST be ABLE to decipher the fact that If I do not pay on the site. SEND ME a phone number, i CANT get a hold of YOU. I CAN'T answer e-mails on here. Sorry! I just am not a paying site user... Now to answer the question about my mate.....I want you to be NORMAL!! Good looking, BE A GENTLEMEN. I can not stress that enough, Gentlemen rule in my book. Please have a picture WITHOUT sunglasses WHAT ARE YOU HIDING BEHIND THE SHADES?? I look younger than my age so i prefer that in my mate. I must admit I have a weakness for guys who can cook! Just an FYI.. :) I want a guy who knows how to do simple special things that burn in my memory. Like I said I am passionate and remember things like when I was told to close my eyes and he grabbed my hand and wrote I love you on my palm.. That's what I am talking about! I love being wrapped in my guys arms.. I love attention! I also like monogamous guys. We have all had our fair share of heart ache and slip ups in life but I have already LEARNED! Hopefully you did too.... :) If you want to meet a good girl with spunk, That's ME!! :) Can you handle me??? I really am a very special person :) Hope to hear from ya!

Date someone special from California, United States. Hello gentlemen!!!
Thanks for stopping by...
Make me laugh and hold my hand or cuddle with me. Looking for a simple and easy relationship. I have free time now that my kids are adults and moved out and they are great adults and I am proud of them. Looking for a man to hang out with and go and do things together and a long term relationship is what I hope to find. I enjoy the outdoors and ice cream, movies and dinner or weekend getaways. I will try new things atleast once. I enjoy simple things in life (walks at the beach or cuddling up watching a movie). I would like to find someone that is funny and has a good smile .Those are some simple things I hope to find. I like having quality time with a man that is willing to have a normal life without the drama. :) Say HI If you see me online "INSTANT MESSAGE ME"
thanks for taking the time to read my profile.
Good luck with your search my membership will be ending on 5/31/12... I will not be renewing my membership cannot seem to find an available guy on this site..
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