Date single man from California, United States. I'm easy going, reliable, trustworthy and caring. Being a Taurus, I can also be stubborn but loyal to a fault to my friends and am also very passionate about the things that matter to me. No kids of my own but I do have a 3 year old granddaughter that means the world to me. I hate these profiles where it wants you to write about yourself but this is how alot of people judge you and the words may not apply in every situation. I'd rather just sit down and talk with someone.
I'm a sports fan, and my front room could be considered a "man cave" as I have my Raiders and SF Giants memorabilia on display right alongside family pictures. Music is also very important to me, and my office could be considered a Beatlemaniac's room. This is the extent of my "toys" as I'm not a guy that is in to possessions. There is the old saying "He who dies with the most toys wins", but in my outlook, you're still dead so what do the toys matter?
I currently work handling personnel for a business in Merced, but have been a radio dj and sheriff's deputy in the younger days.
I realize this is a lot to write but like everyone else, I have a history and that's made me who I am today. Whenif the time is right, it's open for discussion.
NON-SMOKER is THE most important trait as that killed both of my parents and almost took my younger brother too. If you smoke, please don't go any further as I will not even consider a smoker in my life.
Being 6-5, I am drawn to tall women (5-8 ) and you have to have a sense of humor or else there is no way you're going to be able to put up with me. I'm not looking for someone who wants to hang out in bars or clubs but on the other hand who also wouldnt mind a stop at one if we are out and the mood strikes.
I'm content to kick back at home and watch tv or a movie or take a walk around the neighborhood.
Some people may look at that as boring, but I did the nightly lounge hangout routine when I was younger and thankfully moved past it. You'll likely find me now in the recliner watching the Giants play, reading, or being a cushion for a feline.. Oh yes, she must love animals as I have two cats who are basically "my kids" and they're the ones who really run this house!
The key words at this point in my life are "Slow And Steady" as I'm in the process of ending an almost 9 year marriage and I'm not looking to dive back in to a serious relationship.. been there, done that.
I'm looking for someone to get to know on a slow basis and starting out as penpals or just an occasional dinner and movie date sounds good at this point as i'm sure nobody wants to feel pressure early on in a relationship. I know I'm certainly not ready for that and and thats not even in the cards right now. It has to be able to grow on its own rather than being steered in one direction or another.
Long distance doesn't work either. If you're not within about 40 miles of the Merced-Atwater area, I have to say no and I'm not looking to relocate either. I see where people from the East Coast are leaving messages but again, only those local to me will get any consideration as I don't believe in long distance relationships.
Meet people from California, United States. Nice, comfortable, funny guy, most people say good looking, i like animals, golf, good food, friends. Own a business, my home and kids are grown. looking for a kind, happy woman to spend time with, travel and enjoy the good things in life.
Date a soulmate from California, United States. I'm an easy going guy who enjoys laughing and enjoying this great region we are fortunate enough to live in. I run a car museum so I spend a fair amount of time at Car & Motorcycle Shows. I love music. I'm the professional bad boy with a conscious and a heart.
The worst thing that could happen if we meet is a few laughs and interesting coversation.
Meet men and women from California, United States. guy looking for love and decideed to get on line and try it out. Looking for someone in Irvein or close to irvine. Professional fun loving and easy going with some goals in life. Kids are fine as I two have kids
Date someone special from California, United States. I am a craftsman- you may have heard of them...one of those folks who still build stuff with their hands. I have athletic as well as sedentary passions- cycling and photography, skiing and drawing, travel and music.
My free time is often spent road cycling with some buddies from the cycling club.
Don't watch TV but love Netflix On Demand so I can watch a comedy, indie flick, or hisorical drama according to my mood. I can build a house or a piece of furniture or remodel residential and commercial buildings. My favorite is the Craftsman period, 20's-30's. Long term goals are to invest in real estate and build a house for us...
My Dad, although a Stanford Professor, was and chef and home winemaker, and I carry on some of his traditions. Most of my family are musicians- I'm probably the least talented but I still love to play sappy love songs on the guitar.
My sweet, creative 15 yr old son lives with me and he's a better musician than me too!
"Even after all this time, the sun never says to the earth,"You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that. It lights up the whole sky."
Hafiz
Me: monogamous, intense, passionate, thoughtful, romantic
fit, curious, affectionate. I can dance!
You: athletic, warm, goofy creative woman who has worked though her "stuff". Actually have time in your life for a relationship. Musician/singer or cyclist would be a bonus!
Ask me about: our family tradition of making wine; last summer's epic bike ride over Sonora Pass (going up was easier than coming down); wedding photography (Have been a professional photographer)
Would you be up for a cycling tour in Europe?
Meet a man from California, United States. OK, I just looked at my profile for the first time and realized that it said I was 5'-5"......oops I'm actually 5'-9" so if you sped past me because of that you might want to turn around for another look!
I was born in Minn. raised in North Dakota on a cattle ranch and ended up in Ca in 1985 and was going to spend a year here to check it out, 26 yrs, 3 children and 1 grandson later here I am. I like most all the outdoor activities, watch mainly sports and a little news when I'm laying around (which is almost never) go to the gym 3-5-7 days a week and try to eat right. I'm caring, giving, compassionate, passionate and an occasional wise ass! Bad news is I'm a really lousy dancer who will if coaxed try to dance. Love music, I have a huge collection of oldies rock and roll, blues and jazz, and what else??? Don't know right now but feel free to ask. Thanks Bryan
Oh by the way, I work all around the Bay Area and am currently located in the East Bay so I might be driving right past you!
Date single man from United States. I am described as shy and reserved, boisterous and chatty, serious and fun loving. It all depends on the situation. I love music,(Blues, Country, and Rock), theatre and movies. I love most all sports but don't get to participate as much as I would like. I am also comfortable cooking and spending time in the yard. I travel every month for work and have been to most of the 50 states. I love the beach and have visited some great ones in Antigua and Hawaii. I am looking for some one to share some of these adventures and just hang out. I have just moved back to the area and am trying to make social contacts again.
Meet people from United States. Unique, attractive, curious, loving, intellectual, hard working individual, busy all the time. funny, charismatic at times, loves to travel, and work hard.
I'm looking to find, a loving, honest, committed. someone that is not afraid of challenges
Date a soulmate from United States. Many people call me a renaissance man, because I love to jump into many diverse interests, and over time have developed some of them well enough to make life much richer, this includes painting and photography, film making, songwriting and performing bluegrass, country and western swing, but also Latin Nueva Troba, and Salsa.
I am inspired and moved by people who strive to really challenge themselves and find and pursue what they most love. I like a balance between work and play.
Friends are important to me, but family comes first, and true friendship is not common, but highly valuable.
When I travel, I love to live among the people that reside there, rather than do touristy stuff, I like to know the heart and soul of a country through the people I meet. I usually walk around with a guitar or other musical instrument, or sit and paint plien air, which usually leads to meeting other creative people.
I like women who are strong and into their creative and intellectual puruits, I love diversity and feel attracted to many cultures.
Meet men and women from United States. Hi.
I am currently finalizing my divorce (26 years married) and never thought I would ever be in this place. I am the father of three great kids, one who is still at home. I have not dated in a long time so I am giving this a chance. I thought I had married for life but I now get to find out if there is more than one special person out there for me. I would like to meet a person that can laugh and have a good time and know that life is important to live now.
I like a lady that takes care of herself but is not so vain that nothing else matters. If you work out 7 days a week, great, but I hope you have the ability to enjoy that decadent dessert! I like competitive sports and activities. I enjoy relaxing without having to feel like nothing was accomplished. I enjoy entertaining and cooking and sharing what I have I like helping friends and family without any obligation. If I can help, I will. A thank you is all that I ever need. Nothing is more satisfying.
I like to travel but the company is more important than the destination. I like playing golf and cards. There is nothing more sexy than a women who can play a hand of poker and knows the difference between a flush and a straight. If you play golf or can appreciate it, or, can sit with me a few times a year and watch it on TV, you are reaching dream girl status. If you play and want to play with me, I am in heaven. If you really want to learn, I am there for you. I am not addicted to the game though by any stretch of the imagination and play when the company is right.
I like camping because I have your full attention for a few days. If you like to wake up to the smell of bacon and coffee in the air, I am the one that is making it happen. I don't mind if you sleep in because I won't. But, I know when it's right to get back in bed and cuddle. I am the one making a roaring fire at night to keep you warm and will be the one sitting next to you enjoying it.
I like to cook and will be the one making you breakfast in bed. Not good enough? I will tend the BBQ during your party or be the one making sure all your guests have what they want. I hope you like to entertain because I enjoy it and making somebody else's day a memorable occasion.
I like the home version of Karaoke. I can carry a tune but don't need the world to hear me. I have been told that my rendition of "knockin on heavens door"- Guns and Roses style is to die for.
I want somebody that has their act together and likes to have stimulating conversations but can watch a football game in their PJs. Balance is very important. I am done with the serious part of my life and want to enjoy the rest with someone special who wants the same.
If you are new to men of Latin heritage, I was born in the USA and I do not have an accent. But, I can do a great Antonio Banderas if necessary!
If you are interested in somebody like me, give me a chance or at least a wink. I have not known anybody that has regretted getting to know me.
Date someone special from United States. I'm filling this out because I'm a prince among men. I'm sure I'll have tons of interesting things to say....soon. I like lots of things. Like sushi, great snare drums, the right high heels, flabbergasting musical prowess and a vibe as thick as chocolate syrup. Chemistry is king.
Meet a man from United States. Ok, what I meant with my "Dating Headline." I was in a long-term relationship (5 years), and do not have much recent practice with the dating thing. However, I am willing to learn. ;-)
A little about myself:
I was a member of "Match.com" many years ago and again about a year ago. I actually met someone on Match back in 2004, and fell in love. Unfortunately, that relationship did not survive. I tried Match again about a year ago, but I don't think the timing was good for me. So, I thought I would give Match another try.
I am fortunate to have retired from a long law enforcement career back in December 2009. Financially, I do not need to work. I have done some volunteer work with the Red Cross. I also have a home on 5 acres out in Wilton (a rural southern portion of Sac County), which at times can keep me busy.
I have two daughters, one 18 and the other is 33 (I started young;-). I also have two grandchildren. My 18 year daughter lives with her mother in Santa Rosa. My oldest daughter and grandchildren live in Texas. Yes, my ex does live in Texas. ;-)
I had the opportunity to travel Europe many years ago when I was in the Air Force. Now that I am retired, I would like to see the rest of the world. I would like to find someone to travel with me. Is that someone you?
If there is something you would like to know about me, just ask!
Happy New Year!
I hope the following does not come off wrong, but I have received some emails that caused me to update my profile and add this paragraph. Although my profile is relatively comprehensive, there are likely questions you may want to ask. I am 53 years old and my life story is a bit more than I want to publish on the internet/Match. I am happy to answer/respond to a reasonable amount of emailed questions. However, I am not interested in long series of email communications (i.e. - Pen Pals). If we are interested in learning more about one another, it is my opinion we need to speak on the phone and eventually meet in person (once the comfort level is there). To me the phone is much better medium of communication than email. We can hear the other's voice and all that goes along with speaking to someone (i.e. inflection, delayed responses, etc..). The world is full of weird people and I understand the need to be cautious. If either of my daughters were on Match (they are not), I would certainly want them to be cautious. I will be happy to supply my cell phone number if it makes you feel more comfortable. Again, I hope the preceding paragraph does not come off wrong.
My profile was updated January 30, 2012.