Date men and women from United States / California / Santa Barbara, 53 year old

Date men and women from Santa Barbara, United States. Well I had to come up with a title didn't I? It was either that or "Highly Evolved, Total Service Male, One Each." I'm a happy, well adjusted man looking for the final piece of the puzzle. (Is there a better reason for getting up in the morning?) I'm also a realist so I just might have to have some fun before my journey is complete. I better explain the pictures, I work in the Activities Department for an upscale retirement community, where I and my co-workers take a theme and build a party from the ground up. Yep we are a bunch of wallflowers who don't mind being super silly. I enjoy art, working out, sports,the outdoors, gardening, reading, writing,drawing, painting, fine wine or a really good cold beer and traveling. (Not while drinking of course) I totally adore and respect women and I'm ultimately searching for that certain someone to dote on. (Massage and peeled grapes included) Of course I expect to be treated well in return. (peeled grapes not included) My friends will tell you I am diverse, hard working, funny, loyal, generous, intelligent, witty, and just a little over the top. I can also be serious and contemplative when the need arises. I'm a true Libra, always striving for balance, harmony and beauty. I am 53, divorced, 6'2", 225 lbs, light brown hair and green eyes. I think children and animals are our ultimate gifts from above. I would love to meet an intelligent, fun loving woman not afraid of taking risks. Life is way too short, don't you agree?I'm looking for anything from a workout partner, dinner companion, great friend, serious partner or love of my life. Or maybe we can get lucky and have it all. A person who is not totally obsessed with looks, but cares about her appearance. Style is subjective but I think it really depends on how you carry it. Caring, kind, affectionate and playful preferred. A sense of humor paramount. Dreamers that love intelligent or silly conversation, romance and appreciate the simple things in life are encouraged. I'm pretty much up for anything, especially pleasant surprises. Oh, and big engulfing hugs with soft kisses..

Meet someone special from Santa Barbara, United States. I am warm-hearted, genuine, and funny wrapped in a semi-serious skin (which I’m slowly shedding). My purpose is to live in the present, love more, and learn. I am passionate about relationships, the planet, nature and expressing my artistic creativity to inspire people around environmental and social issues.
I try to live an open and honest life and want co-create an authentic loving relationship with someone. I'd like a relationship where we both strive to see, accept and love ourselves and each other for who we are. I’d like a partnership of mutual support filled with friendship, humor, intimacy, passion, and a deep connection. Although we don’t need to share the same path, we most likely need to share a similar depth of commitment for self growth and spiritual expansion.
I like to hike, be in nature, read, practice Qi gong, meditate and just be with the people I love. I’ve also just discovered Reiki, a very interesting way of connecting to and healing others. I’d like to be with a woman who enjoys these types of things, too.
Some random but important thoughts about relationship and you:
I believe that being best friends is the foundation for a great relationship. So I envision exploring a relationship by first seeing what kind of friends we can be.
I’m looking for someone of similar age, and with a similar apporoach to being in relationship. I’m not at my best with either too much tumultuousness or avoidance. Of course physical attraction is important, as is a similar sense of humor, and you should know I’m a bit of an introvert.
My life has been an adventure - having never gone as I had planned, and I try to enjoy each moment. I’ve got a way to go and I’ve come a long way too. My intention is to be in a loving partnership, expand and deepen my community, spend more time in nature and create inspirational art.
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage.—Lao Tzu

Date a soulmate from Santa Barbara, United States. At this point, though divorced for a few years (2010), I'm holding off on dating and first putting the final touches to my transition to semi-retirement. After all, how long could it possibly take, right?! ;)
I'll be back then with paid membership and full profile, most likely by the end of 2012. So for now I cannot receive or respond to messages. I'm just browsing...
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I am a practicing Catholic looking for a woman who shares my values if not the dogma. It's about Love, not rules.
No talk of favorite books, movies, or sports here. No mention of strolls on the beach, travels to foreign lands, and wine tastings. Sure I enjoy and want all those things and much more, but what I'm most looking for is True Love!
I'm looking for a woman who is intelligent and witty and the most beautiful woman in the world (at least in my never-to-be-humble opinion); a best friend who is passionate about issues, passionate about life, and passionate about love. I'm looking for an equal partner who can be all woman without feeling threatened. Let me open the door for you. Let me drape my jacket over your shoulders. We can share in each others' dreams and enjoy together life's little pleasures, the world's marvels, and God's creation. And perhaps we can even play a small role as laborers in His vineyard.
I'm very active and my days are busy, though as mentioned I'm trying to shift gears and trade work-time for quality play-time. I'm most proud of my three children (the youngest is 21 and in college) and of my role as a father. I'm a happy guy, always joking, an eternal optimist who likes to share (I hope that doesn't sound too metro-sexual - you may want to judge for yourself in person). I am bursting with Hope, Humor, Joy, and Love.
I may not be the typical sports lover, beer aficionado, or home handyman projects type of guy, but I'm always looking to learn new things and acquire new tastes. lol. If you believe a real man is fit, confident, kind, ethical, intelligent, responsible, loving, a leader, and a gentleman, then you're on the right track.
I'm not too concerned about shared interests. I have a broad range of interests (hopefully you do too) and many I haven't even considered yet! Genuine interest in each other is the key starting point. It's not about fun though I'm sure we'll have plenty. It's more about shared values, chemistry, respect, and love.
A quality relationship (or anything else for that matter) is worth waiting for, searching high and low for, working hard to grow, and enjoying with passion.
If we find that the chemistry is there and we share the same values, the rest will fall in place. Where there's love, there's a way. Our job is to never stop fanning that flame.
And for the right girl, there's nothing I'd rather do than shower her with love and affection till death do us part. Are you the one? Let's find out!

Meet people from Santa Barbara, United States. I have explored life to the fullest, but plenty of adventures left to share with the right person. I play the guitar but not ready for the coffee shop tour. I like coffee but it has to be $3 a cup, not a fan of the motor oil type coffee my parents drank. I like to ski and snow board and I play golf at least 4 times a week. I own a very successful chain of stores in Southern California, but joined this site because the one thing, the most important thing is not in my life right now, a meaningful relationship! So here I am, waiting for your response.
I am loving living in Santa Barbara. I took a step back from running my business and go to the office and visit the stores but don't drive myself nuts any more. Now I have more time to enjoy life and do the things that my hard work over the years has put me in the position to do. Would like to find someone that I click with to explore life with. A moment or experience is always more rewarding when shared with someone special. Iam a total car nut!

Date single man from Santa Barbara, United States. its been interesting, but I'm no longer subscribed. I'll leave this for your amusement...
ABOUT ME:
Narcissistic bastard in dead-end job seeks whiny shrew for co-dependency, unfulfilled sex, and hustling. I enjoy drinking, smoking, pornography, and self-righteous indignation. Everything I know about life I got from watching Gilligan's-Island while in juvenile hall. My warped sense of amoral self-righteous behavior allows me to spend four bucks on a latte, but I refuse to part with my change for the crippled kids from the March of Dimes.
I have no personal opinions of my own, because I am shallow and petty. I spend a lot of time yelling at little kids that step on my lawn. I am the kind of guy that won't play by the rules of society and yet will tell his employees that they need to come in on Saturdays and Christmas. I have a middling intelligence but try to appear much smarter by affecting a world-weary air, memorizing pointless quotes of classical works, and chuckling at my own mean-spirited, agenda-driven jokes. I'm 45, but look 65 and feel 79.
It certainly would be nice to be able to bounce thoughts and ideas off someone who isn't wearing an aluminum foil reflector hat.
YOU:
You are a whiny, dumpy neurotic with a misplaced sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations. Over time you will project all your daddy-issues on me and grow hostile when I don't fulfill every unmet need you've ever had.
Through a technicality you are currently not under court supervision or otherwise grounded -so we can actually hang out.
A big plus is if you just finished dating every guy in town - but now want to take your time with me.
My perfect night would include getting hammered in a dive bar while you flirt with seedy old drunkards, followed by an attention generating screaming match and culminating in a glass-bottle blow to the head - yours or mine, it doesn't really matter.
I would be open to an unsatisfying fling that leaves me filled with regret and dread but prefer a long-term, spirit crushing descent into booze and pills. No friendships. I don't need any more friends. Age unimportant, but I often condescend to women under 24 and rehash mother issues with women over 47. Serious replies only, please.
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Now, if you really believe any of the above, please do not contact me. That is completely not who I am. However, if you laughed about the insanity of the above paragraphs, feel free to read on...
I'm a man who is in touch with himself on many levels (get your mind out of the gutter, here!) Responsible in all forms and real. Multi talented, can do just about anything with technology and can fix anything. Basically, very good with my hands (ahh.. there you go again!) I do Improv and voice overs when I get the time, technology feeds my family and creative stuff feeds my soul. . I was raised in an environment rich with nature and animals (no, I was not raised by wolves... I don't know how that rumor got started!) so I enjoy that sort of thing. All kidding aside, I am a rather successful and secure guy.... that is a lot of fun to be around.
Who I'm looking for:
hmmm.... Brains, beauty, and self awareness would be a good start. A woman who is creative and thoughtful with a good sense of humor. A true partner, someone that is self aware, empathetic, and loyal - as I am definitely all of those and more. I'm a really giving guy in all aspects and would like to find someone actually capable of reciprocating in that area.
You must love to laugh - this is non negotiable! Just be honest and be yourself... I'm not much for endless emails back and forth. If I've piqued your interest somehow, then let me know and we can actually talk, then possibly meet. But probably should start by talking, don't you think?
and yeah... I like horses, rainbows, unicorns, butterflies, long walks in the park...

Meet a man from Santa Barbara, United States. I'm someone who enjoys the here and now the moment - I'm a songwriter and a musician
I spent years playing in bands I lost all my instruments I have some goals to get them back
I'm into massage and relaxation healing
and I love smoking drinking and gambling
fast cars I'm a single dad I'd like to associate
with people who want to bring real positive change to the world create abounding wealth not just for some for everyone I don't like alot of what I see around me in terms of people stepping on others to get ahead I'm looking for real
unrequainted unconditional love in a woman the real thing

Date men and women from California, United States. About Me: I am a happy man that is very passionate about life.
I am compassionate and sensitive to other people and their feelings. I am warm, loving and romantic. I am not afraid of making a commitment and having a loving relationship.
I am confident and comfortable in my own skin. I am not afraid to express my feelings. I wake up everyday excited to see what new adventures life has to offer.
My time is split between Santa Barbara and my other home on Lake Nacimiento located near Paso Robles, CA.
I am looking to share a relationship that is filled with love, affection and happiness.
I would like it to challenge and inspire us to be better people in this world today, tomorrow and forever!!!

Meet someone special from California, United States. Im on a stable role, want to role with me? do you have plans for a better life? just starting to get? can you be a team player with me? are you cut? do you know how make and save money? will you settle for a simple life but, have on the back burner a successful one? are you doing the best you can, are a realist? are you honest? have common sense, will you be patient with me? can we be more than friends, can you stay calm and, not panic but reason and find a way out? Im a realist; I will not pretend and say all is well when there is danger coming just to feed my ego and theirs, I see things as they are and will react accordingly, this too save, to love, to build, to prosper and to walk in a good way to the best of my ability. MDH.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I would like to be with someone who is physically active in a variety of areas, likes conversation, likes to cuddle and have fun! I also like my alone time and would want someone who respects that.... I am someone who views my glass as ALWAYS half full, ready for whatever happens that day and makes the best of it

Meet people from California, United States. I am looking for someone to spend time with, get to know and share life's pleasures and joys (including the tough times.) Hopefully, this person will enjoy an active outdoor lifestyle and enjoy the company of a woman who is adventurous, easygoing and looks for the humor in life.
I am attracted to a kind, thoughtful man who is independent and comfortable in different social situations. I prefer a casual lifestyle, but am flexible and like to mix-it-up from time to time. I am self employed with a flexible schedule and when I unplug from work, I hope the person I'm with can do so as well. I love a man with a creative mind and sense of humor, even if it is a little goofy at times, someone who is not afraid to be themself, but most importantly, is respectful and considerate towards others.
Family and friends are important to me. I am an 8th generation Santa Barbaran and am involved in a few local non-profit organizations. My son lives at home, but is very independent. I currently live in Santa Barbara and split my time between SB and the Santa Ynez Valley. My friends would say I am a positive, content, compassionate and tender person. I enjoy entertaining, preferably in a casual setting. I'm honest about myself and realistic about life.....I don't do drama - life's just too short. I am up for almost anything, anytime, as long as I can laugh and have fun or just simply enjoy.

Technology fascinates me - it's fun to try and keep up with all of the latest gadgets (although I don't always find them all useful, just interesting.) I have a telecommunications and management background, but have chosen to stay out of the corporate world for now.

Date a woman from United States. Integrity and honesty…what I need from a partner. If this is you…continue!
I am outgoing and enjoy a challenge; my work is teaching and helping others. I’m a “what if” person so tend toward innovation, adventure, and looking “outside the box” – a dreamer.
I love seeing others smile, enjoy a good laugh, find the irony of life a great topic for discussion. Exploring the world, watching people, and a good conversation will make my day. I also enjoy spending quiet time with a good book/movie, a warm fire, hot chocolate or glass of wine. Now that we're in our Santa Barbara summer mode, a walk anywhere, cool drinks and warm smiles...
I would be open to someone willing to share outdoor activities, travel, and new experiences, as I rewrite my new life! IРІР‚в„ўd like to find someone to share and explore what the world has to offer, near and far, willing to laugh and play, interested in a long-term relationship. Someone who understands we all come with a different view on life. Past experience makes us who we are...youРІР‚в„ўve learned, moved on, and willing to talk and share.
I love a good story, especially if it makes me laugh…if you can do this; you’re my kind of guy!
Be well; connect if you see a match! D

Meet someone special from United States. --My closest friends would describe me as a thoughtful, intelligent individual with a strong passion for health, fitness, nature, and animals.
--- I grew up in Northern Sweden, but I have also lived in Germany and Switzerland. Here in the U.S., I have lived in Washington D.C., Oklahoma, San Diego and San Francisco. I feel very happy to be living in Santa Barbara. To me it offers a life-style that is close to ideal.
--- The things that makes me smile are my dog and his quirky personality, my profession (most of the time), people with positive attitudes.
--- I am hoping to attract someone with many experiences in life. Someone strong phyisically and mentally, with a sense of humour and sense of self.
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