Date women from United States / California, 53 year old

Date a woman from California, United States. I am kind, sincere, fun, intelligent, pretty and charming. I live life to the fullest and am very self sufficient but misses the company of one special man in my life to share the highlights of life. I want to find someone who is my equal both in intelligence and education. Someone who has interests of his own but will allow me the chance to be me without trying to change me.Someone who is romantic and caring and enjoys being touched and kissed. Affection is important as well as communiation.I am not interested in serial daters and unfortunately there are quite a few on this site. If you are a member of that group please do not contact me as well as OCD guys with social problems. I am not interested im meeting someone who has dated every woman in Scottsdale so if you have been on this site more than six months we would not be a good match.I do not plan on being on this site more than a few months and do not wish to be a penpal for lonely married men. I am interested in a heathy direct guy who is emotionally and physically healthy and truly wants a solid well grounded lady to date seriously.... I want to find somene who I can get off this site together with and who wants a monogomous relationship.
I live an active lifestyle and time is important since it is something we can not replace in life. I want to meet someone who walks the walk not just talks the walk. I want a gentle, kind man who does not sit on his computer everyday looking for perfection, but realizes that what is in the heart is more important than what is on the outside.l am attractive by most men's standards and I have a lovely smile and long blonde hair. I am petite and wear a size 6 incliuding my shoe size. I am looking for my bestfriend first and then see what develops. I am not looking for the best looking man or the wealthiest man, but someone who is my equal and compatible to my lifestyle. I was brought up in a household of men and went to private schools all my life except college. I want to find the man I can spoil and who can spoil me with his affectionate and sincerity. Someone who makes time for me in his busy life and someone who is not needy, but finds that being with me is what he prefers than what he needs from life. I would like to believe that everyone has a soul mate out there, but the realist that I am believes that one can love different people at different times in our lives. Each love is unique and different since we ourselves are constantly evolving as we share new experienes in life.
If you can not relate to what I have wrote above than you would not be the person I am looking forward to meet on this site.Everyone is looking for a partner to share with and I know what works for me hopefully you will too.....

Meet someone special from California, United States. Generally shy and definitely private before getting to know someone, not so much after! Is it possible to connect with a man without posting my lifeРІР‚в„ўs details, personal thoughts and deep desires for random (but interested) strangers to read?! Well, I'll give it a shot. I let people in slowly over time; bare my soul after building rapport and establishing trust. Want to get to know someone by spending time doing fun things. Over the long term, want to build a committed, passionate relationship based on intimacy, shared experiences and mutual support.
Originally from NY, still have family back there and visit once or twice a year for business. Get down to Florida regularly too, more family there. Will begin visiting Chicago since my oldest starts school there in the fall. Do Vegas once a year - just chilling by the pool, seeing shows, dancing in clubs, watching more than actually gambling. Have traveled outside the US some and have seen many parts of both the East and West Coasts. Road trips can be great fun and if you're willing to put up a tent, I'm willing to sleep in it!
Given a choice, I'd choose to be moving: cycling at the beach, hiking in the mountains, walking, playing, dancing, etc. Sit all day at work so in my free time I gotta 'do' something. Love to hear a good story and am happy to have someone else be the center of attention. Am better one-on-one than in groups but do love a good party every so often. Now that my girls are grown, am ready to take some risks. Dang, can't even think of anything really risky - I need some help with that one!
Believe that we can grow and learn from every experience and all the people who come into our lives if we pay attention. All the best with your search.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am a romanticist who would make the right man melt. And I am funny too. I have been described as "the diet coke of evil, just one calorie not evil enough." I am passionate and not shy to show or demonstrate my feelings. I have lived in Africa, Europe and USA. I have two children - one adult and one teenager. The latter lives with me sometimes. I am outgoing, lively, communicative and romantic and like to cuddle. I am a good listener, sensitive, love to dance and to travel. I speak many different languages. I have been happily divorced for quite some time now, thus no baggage. I don't like to cook, but often do because I watch what we eat - I don't like fast food. I am clean and like a clean man; like to laugh and enjoy a good sense of humor. I am looking for a long term relationship, possibly future partner, if it works out; he should have nice teeth - that is the first attribute that attracts me to a man because I love to kiss; he should be outgoing and have a good sense of humor, or at least try to; caring (someone once told me, "the problem with you is that you care too much." If it is true, then I am happy to), sensitive, patient (you learn to when you have a teenager living with you), relaxed and tolerant because I am. If you are materialistic and put a lot of value on money then you are not the one I am looking for - because I am poor. I just wish that you be established. I love to experience different things, people and places - that means traveling, meeting new people, etc., but it is not fun traveling alone. I lack that partner to travel with, laugh with when we find ourselves lost in the middle of nowhere without speaking the native language; I like to learn new things and ideas. I am looking for fun in a relationship where there is trust, honesty, loyalty and respect - I am the "faithfully yours" type. I want to be with someone who inspires me, but not possessive or controlling. Good communication is the most important for me in a relationship, and being able to talk openly (without the other taking offense) about anything and everything, even if stupid or childish - it is nice sometimes to be childish. My happiest moments are when I am listening and/or dancing to music and helping the underprivileged or needy.
I believe in Jesus and would be nice if you do too.

Meet a woman from United States. I am an honest, no-nonsense person who knows what she wants. I have a good sense of humor and enjoy a man with one as well (love to laugh). I can be charming, and like antique stores, swap meets, thrift stores, the beach, mountains, writing, music, singing, comedies, muscle and antique cars, and car shows. My ideal man is caring, kind, thoughtful, romantic, and funny. I am attracted to a man who lives a healthy lifestyle, so social drinking is okay, but nothing too excessive. I walk every day, and would enjoy having someone special to walk with. Seeking a non-smoker and single, available men only. Since my children are grown and on their own, I prefer a man with the same circumstances or no children at all.

Date someone special from United States. I have a great life and am looking for someone to share it with who enjoys walks on the beach, travel, a room filled with laughter and sharing quiet moments. If you like dogs, it's a definite plus. Relationships take work and commitment but most of all they need a foundation of integrity, trust, open communication and supportive behaviors. Sounds simple enough but we humans sure like to complicate it, huh?!?
I'm grounded, creative, fun loving, confident, adventurous and don't take myself too seriously. I also consider myself to be witty, thoughtful and caring. My interests are varied and I enjoy learning from life. What I do isn't nearly as important as who is with me. With a good bottle of wine and the right people around the table, you can serve me cardboard pizza. I'm all about the social aspect (but do enjoy cooking). I like almost any live performance but opera is never going to make it to the top of my list …just saying. I find spontaneity exciting, getting/giving random acts of kindness warms my heart and being in a committed relationship with mutual respect and admiration makes life even better.

Meet a soulmate from United States. Life is too short not to enjoy it to the fullest, and I m looking for a man who feels the same way! My interests are varied, I have been studying photography so going any place that has great photo opportunities is a plus. (be forewarned, I may try to snap a candid or 2 of you too :-). I love to travel around northern CA (OK and even S. CA and Nevada on weekends and hoildays)...from wine tasting to fairs, to jazz festivals, we are truly blessed to live in one of the most beautiful places in the world. I have a sense of adventure and spontineity and am almost always willing to try anything once, (more if I liked it) from skydiving to piloting a helicopter, to riding in the Goodyear Blimp to other things that I will only disclose when I know you better. The best relationships are ones in which you can laugh together frequently, and I can be a bit irreverent sometimes. But I have never had a complaint that I am dull or boring (from those who have lived through the experience). Make me laugh and I'll follow you anywhere. I believe in giving back to my community, so you may find me volunteering for a non-profit or attending fundraising eventst. I'm also a dog lover (the 4 legged kind, not men who tend to hump anything they find :-), and I spend a lot of time doing pug dog rescue which is my passion. My dogs are my "Fur kids" so as they say, love me, at least be kind and tolerant of my dogs. Think you could handle someone like me? Drop me a line and we can chat about it! Peace!My ideal match must love to laugh and enjoy life and be able to make me laugh too. I know, all women say they re attracted to a man with a sense of humor, but hey, it s true! Good conversation is also a need in a healthy relationship of any kind. Passion,(or to be passionate about something) spontineity, joyfulness and playfulness are also what I am looking for in a friend and a mate. A kind hearted man who loves animals gets brownie points too!

. Que sera, sera, you know, whatever will be, will be, da,da,dada,da,da... I'll tell you later..
;) wink, I am looking for a sincere, good looking gentleman. Fun to be with, laugh with, companion

. OK...so the things that make me smile are simple. family, friends, work, walks, beach and of course music. Will you share your secrets, goals and dreams with me?
Well...now for the real truth...dark rich chocolate and new sexy shoes make me happy and smile so basically that's what it boils down to....and maybe a little fine wine and yummy cheese!!
Talking softly and chilling out to a movie or music with munchies is so romantic or summer nights at the beach is very relaxing.
I am a pretty calm person and easy going, then I can get super charged up at a Pads game or watching the Bolts choke.
However...I have a spunky (or some say fiesty) side to me so watch out for that! I absolutely have a positive outlook on life and make the most out of a situation.
My fav spots to visit are Hawaii , New York and CA Coastal all offering incredible sights. I have been to New Zealand and hope to visit Australia some day.
You may want to know more about me....I encourage you to take a chance...be a risk taker!
Can you answer this question....What makes you happy? I would be very interested in knowing! Really!!

. I love my life, and I feel so grateful for all that makes it so rich and gratifying. I enjoy meeting new people, hearing their stories, finding connections. I like our differences, and I like that ultimately our experience is rooted in our shared humanity, with all its foibles and all its wonder. I value the many authentic relationships I have with people in my life. I feel very blessed.
I was lucky to have a solid, loving relationship with my husband for many years until his death three years ago from cancer. This experience was, of course, extremely difficult, and it also left me stronger and more grounded than IРІР‚в„ўve ever been. I know whatРІР‚в„ўs important, and I donРІР‚в„ўt sweat the small stuff.
After the past few years of significant life changesgrowth, I’m excited about new possibilities of friendship, relationship,…whatever comes my way. I have a good sense of humor and an accepting approach to life. I’m passionate, resourceful, and open-minded.
On the deeper stuff, I consider myself a spiritual person though not religious. I trust my intuition and have faith that things work out. I notice and appreciate synchronicity and find that it happens a lot in my life.
IРІР‚в„ўm from New York, and after thirty years in the Bay Area, IРІР‚в„ўm a true combination of both coasts; the NY edge with that РІР‚?synchronicityРІР‚в„ў awareness. I have two children, one in college and one entering high school. I love spending time with them. I also feel lucky to have many loving, supportive friends and a wonderful extended family. While IРІР‚в„ўm a social person, I also like having time to myself.
Integrity is important to me. ItРІР‚в„ўs an ongoing process to be true to myself on as many levels as I can. My commitment to social justice includes working toward acceptance, tolerance, inclusion, and respect in our world.
While IРІР‚в„ўm not looking for a laundry list of qualities or values, the things that are most important to me in a partner are humor, emotional intelligence, warmth, and a good heart. ItРІР‚в„ўs about play and fun and fit. It's about the imperfect package that we all are. All of this is just preamble to a conversation waiting to happen.

. I took a personality test based on my favorite dessert and it was amazingly accurate....CHOCOLATE CAKE WITH CHOCOLATE ICING-- vivacious, always ready to give and receive. Very creative, adventurous, ambitious, and passionate. Not afraid to take chances. Will not settle for anything average in life. Loves to laugh!!!
I made a documentary about an 85-year-old barber in Birmingham who dedicated his life to the struggle for civil rights. I learned a great deal from this man about perseverance, sacrifice, determination and much more. But his words that stood out most for me were, "Dyin' ain't the worst thing a man can do, the worst thing a man can do is to live for nothin...I want to live for a purpose."
No distance is too far to travel for a friend in need. I've been known to take home a stray animal or two, which is how my Peruvian dog found its way to America with me. I find the greatest joy in sharing laughs with friends, showing someone I care, or helping those less fortunate. I love what I read somewhere..."glass half empty, half full...I'm just glad I have a glass." I am very grateful for my amazing circle of friends and family (which include two grown and successful sons), an exciting career, and can't wait to share it all with someone very special!
I love to cook, hike and travel...and a combination of any or all of those is even better! I'm very romantic and enjoy a nice glass of wine, candlelit dinner, followed by dessert in front of a cozy fire. IРІР‚в„ўm an adventurous traveler, and have had the opportunity to visit many countries and amazing places. I usually travel off the beaten path so I can get to know the people and culture IРІР‚в„ўm visiting. I have many more on my list of places I want to explore so I hope to meet someone who has a desire to travel.
I'm patiently in search of my best friend...someone with big heart, a warm smile, a great sense of adventure, and who is ready for the best years of our lives!

. I am a person with many interests that I pursue with a passion. As a daughter of artists, I have been drawing and painting all my life. I see the world through an artists lens. Creativity in all its forms, visual arts, music, dance, writing and crafts, fascinates me. This brings out the best of who we are. I express myself creatively through water color painting and glass mosaics. I love to dance and have been studying Flamenco dance for four years. The power and sensuality of Flamenco speaks to my soul. I am fascinated by history and love to travel and experience other cultures. In the last five years I have been fortunate to be able to visit India, Egypt, China, Peru, Guatemala and Belize. I also love to travel in California, hiking, camping, kayaking and enjoying the beauty of nature. I enjoy just spending the time together no matter what we do. I have a lot of love in my heart, am affectionate and have many ways to show you that I appreciate who you are. Loyalty and sincerity mean a lot to me. My friends know I am their friend for life. Communication is essential, I am straight forward and not interested in playing games or personal drama. My life is good, I am happy but I am looking for a committed partner who shares similar interests and passions that I have and can show me new interests I might not have considered. The man I am looking for is intelligent, he has a good heart, is caring and affectionate, has a sense of humor and a curiosity about life. He is creative in some way or is interested in creativity and has many interests. He is secure in himself and appreciates a loving and secure woman.

. …here’s my spark…I can bring home the bacon and fry it up too...I can, but I don't! I'm beautiful, self-assured and confident. I’m independent but far from being a feminist. I have a fabulous sense of humor and a straight forward way of expression. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish one out on my own. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I’m artistic and creative. I’m witty and uncommonly bright. I need variety, adventure and excitement in my life but I have no problem relaxing and taking a nap. I am a winner. I alternate between daring and insecure, tomboy and delicate child. A combination I’m sure you cannot resist! I’m a pretty sexy lady (even in thermals). I’m not timid about romance, nor am I cold hearted. I have a deep longing to feel the intimate passion that only good communication and romance can provide. I am not a gold digger. I'm a great cook, but I often end up charring every dish I prepare! I love gardening, roses are my favorite flower. I like to try new things. I always want to keep learning and improving. One of my goals is to travel the world. I plan to visit every continent. I am currently separated but the marriage will be ending. I live a single life.
…what kind of man am I looking for? A slightly off-beat, but exceptionally well bred man. One who takes care of his health needs. An athletic well-toned man stops me in my tracks. One who is a lover and a best friend. One who has a good sense of humor and can laugh at life. I love a handsome smile. One who is mechanically inclined. One who has a passion for life, loves to play and relax, and loves with white hot fire!
Have I scared you off? Only the man who is looking for a non-conventional lover will be attracted to me. IРІР‚в„ўd love to hear from you. I want to know what makes you weak in your knees from joy and happiness? WhatРІР‚в„ўs your spark? ...even a Milwaukee (a Makita or a Proto) Power Tool doesn't work unless it's plugged in!
Have fantastic day!
Beautifuljay
PS. Working out is a passion. You will note that many of my pictures are of me in my workout clothes.

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