Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am a tall (6’6”) medium weight (250lbs) athletic built guy, seeking a tall girl friend with hopes of making a long lasting impression on her. I have not been married but the last of three fianc?s in my life broke my heart and she stomped that sucker flat. I have not been dating in a long time. I am healed and here ready for a fresh new start, I am from Florida been here in the Oakland area now for about 3.5 years. I love going out to the movies but don’t think it makes a good date because there's no talking there. A small cafe or specialty restaurant like Italian food make for good first dates, and breaking bread and having a good meal often breaks down barriers and open people up to new people and new ideas. I am a creative type and love to draw and create art, and prefer to work in the business id and prepress and web site design when I can land a gig on craigslist.org, but I hold a yacht masters captains license and that’s what brought me here to the west coast from Florida a summer job in Oregon. I love it out here and still am going and doing a lot for the first time and really like going to baseball basketball and football games here. I am sort of outdoorsy would love to go camping down at Big Sur or skiing at Tahoe. I like to dance was a disco kid. I enjoy lots of different music but think today I enjoy Jazz the most and old style rock n roll. I am looking for an upbeat girl with not a lot of hang-ups from past relationships, I have never hit anyone and hope to never have that experience, I have been hit several times in my life I can take a punch but am not into sadomasochism. I am a lover boy I like to cuddle and stroke my girl and I give a great massage and am trained in chiropractic adjustments as well. I have been recently a member of health clubs and will return soon I miss working out. I am about to buy a large passenger vessel and open a whale watching excursion boat cruise business and would hope the right gal would join me in this business to some degree. I grew up in a feminist house full of women and am appreciative of women’s careers. I am very normal but have one flaw I cannot correct; I am not attracted to Fat women. I have been approached by some of the finest fat women I have ever met but there is just no chemistry there for me so please, before you respond to my ad here keep that in mind. I love sailing sailboats. I just got back from three days at sea delivering a 44’ sailboat to San Diego from San Francisco. I live now in Pinole, Ca.
Meet people from California, United States. I am looking to see if lightning really can strike twice on the same guy. I found love once and enjoyed what I had while it lasted. So why not again?
I liked going to work knowing that I'd be coming home to MY family. I liked planning little family excursions. I REALLY liked date night. When we had the opportunity to remember why we were together in the first place. I believe I can have that again with someone else. Possibly even more.
I am a widower. That's a fact but it does not define me. I come complete with a son. He's a great kid and we have a good life together. I'm not looking for a new mom for him but we are a two guy package deal.
I do like creating adventure in my life. Most recently it was hang gliding lessons with friends on Mother's Day and then I found myself on a zipline course on my birthday. I believe you never really know if you're still alive unless you feel your heart beating inside you. Sometimes you have to make that happen. That's kind of why I'm on here.
I feel I take pretty good care of myself and I like to hang with people who are of like minds. Maybe that's you?