Date men and women from United States / California / La Mesa, 51 year old

Date a man from La Mesa, United States. Close friends have told me that I can be a beacon of light amongst other things.
I'm levis and v necked t-shirt,black boots,black leather jacket while riding the Glide.
Am not blue collar or white collar. Am ring around the collar. I do clean up well.
Am suit and tie, gq'd when the time is right.
Old and tattered sweats when going for a quick jog or walk.
Am a hard worker. Been working and building underground pipelines, bridges and freeways for over 20 years.
Less then four more years and hopefully will be able to retire. But there's a artistical side also.
Enjoy Balboa parks, NY's and Europes museums.
Photography is an important hobby and at times it has been on a professional level.
Resturant and cafe displays,galleries,"best black n white" award San Diego magazine, weddings,freelance and published for n by the U.S. Navy. At one time had a print in the W.H.
Recently have been working on hopefully establishing a photography business. W/S is in the works and on its way.
Acoustic guitar playing is another enjoyment and also the harmonica. At times both played at the same time. Am lately trying to teach myself to sing. Ugh!
I'm loyal with good friends, and much more with family and a love via actions and not just words.
Am looking for someone with deep integrities, good charachter.
I am focused but with flexibility.
I don't sweat the small stuff. I also can take suggestions well, and when need be can take hold of the reigns.
I enjoy opening doors, helping in the kitchen.
Arm through arm,hand on hand, head on shoulder. Ahhhhh!
Watching movies late in the night and into the morning is also a pleasure.
Am more than happy to listen about the day.
Am able to graciously and accept your help if given.
Yes I love to laugh,hold on,laugh.....
Admiring you while you float across the floor.
I do not appreciate cons,scams,pretentious,contentious, double minded, etc.types.
Travel is also a favorite of mine.
Have been to New York various times. Boston,Houston also.
Have ridden by motorcycle all over California and through Nevada,Utah,Idaho,Wyoming,South Dakota,Colorado,and Arizona twice.
Prague is also a favorite.
Have done the scuba,surfing,solo and tandem sky diving,martial "survival" arts,long distance bicycle racing.
Walking and light jogging, body surfing,semi long bicycle rides,and raquetball have taken presadence.
Am looking for someone who is emotionally free from prior relationship or marriage as I am. It's only fair for both of us. Am free of big debt at the time being and I hope it stays that way.
Am not into the bar or club scene.
More can be talked over and revealed in time.

Meet men and women from La Mesa, United States. I would describe myself as stable in my career and goal-oriented. I am intelligent, and can carry on meaningful conversations. I care about other people's feelings. . . . . . When I'm with someone special I like being spontaneous, adventurous, romantic, funny, sensual, playful, polite and respectful. I'm looking for someone that lives a busy life already, yet likes to play when it's time. Someone to travel with, take walks on the beach, sail in Coranado, snow skiing, go to the River, Vegas, ride bikes, hike, or anything just to have a fun time together. It"s great when two people enjoy spending time together! I know relationships don't just happen on the first date, but in time with no pressure. We all have our lives we live, and I'm willing to share as much of mine as you I can with someone who can be my best friend, lover, and companion and in return would want the same. I’m not shy, am family oriented, love kids and animals. I have two kids in High School, and I remain a good Father, keeping them on the right path. I still have plenty of “Me” time, but I hope to have more �We” time in the future! I have an artistic and creative side of me that has enabled me to start a small online business. It involves the beach and clothing. I do this part time, while keeping a secure full time job as well.
I believe in seeing the best in people and live my life that way. I’m not lazy. I try to keep my life moving in a productive and positive direction all the time. I'm someone you can take out in public and not be embarrassed to introduce to your friends. I have a diverse background and fit into most any place or situation. "No" I'm not 5' 10", but I dont mind if you are? :) I'm a great catch and the only bait you need is to take a chance meeting me. I believe each person we meet in life enriches us in some way, so if it doesn't work out after our first date or second, we will walk away still friends. If you are still reading this I guess I have your attention? I hope you can take the time to hit the “wink” button, or e-mail me, so we can get to know each other better.

Date people from La Mesa, United States. Looking for an extraordinary individual who knows their worth, owns their life, and lives their journey with passion & purpose!
Who can give to others, share deeply with one, connects consistently with self and spirit/soul.
I have been recovering/rebuilding after a serious accident (a broken femur with complications) and am now ready to find a playmate
(hopefully partner) who wants to have fun, explore/experience adventures each other, and who is emotionally, energetically, and environmentally available.
If you're ready to be inspired, energized excited, along with being treated like you long for and deserve,
reach out, take a chance, let's see where life can takes us...

Meet a soulmate from La Mesa, United States. I am looking for a fun and simple relationship. A companionship, friendship that is about having a good time. I am entering a new chapter in my life that is about living life trying to make everyday count. I love to laugh so humor is very important. I am very honest (to a fault) "If you don't want the truth don't ask me". I don't like drama. I am true to myself even through my faults. I am extremely independant so I am not looking for a crutch but someone who wants to share some good times.

Date people from La Mesa, United States. You are kind, passionate, affectionate, humble, loyal, intelligent, spiritual, and generous. You have integrity, sense of humor, compassion, and have a good head on your shoulder.
I am the mirror of what I am looking for in you, however I am more than just those attributes and descriptive words mentioned above. It's important for me to be around people with positive thoughts and actions. I am also hopelessly romantic: kisses, notes, hand holding, flowers are in; jealousy, controlling, temper tantrum are out.
You are not a workaholic. You will not forget to slow down, hold my hand, take a walk, cultivate your spiritual development, smell the flowers, have a nice dinner, or just spend quality time with each other. I like you to be gentle, generous, and embrace my culture just as I have yours. Together we will discover the beauty of love, companionship, and commitment.
I am definitely not a drama queen, and don't play games. I am not looking to date a lot of people. Quality is more important to me than quantity. I am not looking for a perfect person, just the right one for me. I don't look at myself as the glass half full. It's full, but I am always willing to add the right mix to compliment my glass.
Finally, I don't understand the "wink" concept. It's either you are, or are not interested in connecting with me. I will not respond to "winks".
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. it is not rude, it is not self seeking , it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects. It always trusts, always hope, always perseveres. Love never fails." I don't know where this came from, I just like the expression.

Meet someone special from California, United States. My personality speaks for it's self. The thing things in life that are most important are my family and friends.I am looking for a guy who dose not worry about the little thing in life, that is kind and not afraid to be HIMSELF.

Date a woman from California, United States. I'm very positive and have a great outlook. I love life and try to live it to the fullest. I LOVE to have fun and to make people laugh. I enjoy the outdoors. I can be a tomboy when needed and also very much a lady. I would rather play sports then watch them but I do enjoy a good pro game. I go with the flow. My fav place is the beach. (I'm from San Diego) I also love going to vineyards. One of my fav things to do is cook. I make a party out of it everytime! Turn on the music, have a glass of wine and maybe even a little dancing in the kitchen(depends on how much wine I have) while I throw something together! . I have two great boys and they are my life.
I enjoy the simple things in life. The best things in life are free...... laughter, fun, affection,attention! Money can not buy love!!
One final thing.....I am not looking for someone to live with. I am looking for someone that I can't live without!!

Meet men and women from California, United States. My closest friends would say that I have a great sense of humor and that I am the one that always figures it out. I love spending time with my good friends and of course my family. Absolutely love living in San Diego and also love to travel and meet new people.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I don't go out much. I work as much as possible. I have 2 kids who mean alot to me. I have 28 year old son who lives on his own local. My 15 1/2 year old daughter who lives with her father locally is a bright young lady. I am hard working and am seeking that from a partner as well. Seeking a partner that can make me laugh when i really need it but can be serious when appropriate. I am reliable, dependable, hardworking, sincere, honest and a down to earth individual pretty much of the time. I want some who will appreciate me for who I am. I dont need anyone to try and take charge of my time or how I use it. Trustworthy is important in any relationship so if your not sincere or trusting, please do not apply.

Meet people from California, United States. Looking for someone who is comfortable in all settings from dinner parties, to football games. I love the Chargers!!! Must be intelligent, accepting, with a sense of humor and able to accept a strong independent, outgoing woman, yet be caring and considerate. I am old-fashioned, so I love to have doors opened for me, chairs pulled out, and regularly use the words, 'please' and 'thank-you'. I'm a work in progress, very down to earth and extremely accepting of others and life in general. I also will take the time to acknowledge your e-mail to me, whether I think we have enough in common(on paper) or not. Again, all about manners and respect.
You must live within 35 miles of me, otherwise there is no chance of actually getting to know each other. Back into working out, love dogs, books, movies, and the arts. Oh yeah, I also can carry a tune(not giving up the day job or anything)!!! Like all kinds of music, excluding rap. Concerts are the best!!! I especially love hanging out with friends and family, love the holidays. Not sure if it's the great smells coming from the kitchen or the warm cozy moments. I'm a great cook, but will not pass up a chance to have a man wine and dine me! Come on men, we like to be pampered!!! I want that one piece missing from my life. That one special person to snuggle with, go places with, do ordinary things with, share a cup of coffee on a cold weekend morning while reading the paper in bed, sipping a glass of wine, cuddled on the couch watching TV together.
We must be on the same page in life, so if you are retired, live too far away, don't love dogs, have not posted a picture (only fair), shy or introverted then good luck to you. Age is just a number. I've taken to adding mine together, so that makes me 6!!!!! Yes, I have a sense of humor. I love to laugh.
The perfect date isn't what you do or where you go, it's who you share the time with. Looking for someone to share similarities and teach me about new ideas and events. If the chemistry is there then the perfect evening could be as simple as sitting on the floor eating a P-nut butter and jelly(preferably grape) drinking a Diet Coke in jeans and a sweatshirt. Everyone has baggage, it's just what you carry it in.
My disclaimer is if you're into playing games or just hooking up, please move on. I'm not the woman for you. I'm not looking to date numerous men, or serial date. I just want that one special someone who I can look at from across the room and he still takes my breath away.
You must be passionate about your life,for without passion we are just sitting on the sidelines watching life pass us by.

Date someone special from United States. Bye, Bye Fellows- It was free entertainment but lacking in a Man with Social Graces, Very shallow men on Match- looking only for Athletic and toned. Your loss and my peace that God has a better plan for my future. Best Wishes to all of you in your Search for your Barbie Doll.
Well I have been looking for Love in all the wrong places. Just kidding- looking for a Friend because a friend is for a lifetime. Hope that the Friendship will turn into a lasting commitment.
I am looking for a man that can look beyond the expectation of a fine toned body. I still have goals to keep in shape, I am not small boned or thin. Beauty is more than skin deep and I present myself well.
I love exploring new places. Love to travel and Cruise. I am content to be busy or be silent and still, To Participate or Watch an event. I enjoy my own friends and space as well as companionship. I believe in blending two peoples thoughts and likes but not loosing the individual in the process.
Fun, Conversation, Honesty and Truth is what I am about and would hope that you would be too.
I have 5 children- 3 are grown and out of the house except when they visit. My youngest are twins , 17. They are with me 50 percent of the time.
My Children have been a huge part of my life. Family and Traditions are important and I hope to meet someone that feels the same way.
I do feel blessed to be able to experience so many different things here in San Diego and would love to share those experiences with someone. I am just as comfortable being in a informal setting as I am at a Formal function. I enjoy both. I hope to meet someone that loves the simple things in life just as much as the special occasions or events.
I am hoping to meet someone that is looking for a walking partner and a dinner and movie companion.
I do have other commitments that I am involved in and require my time and commitment. I hope to find a Match that Enjoys our time together just as much as the time He has alone with his own interests.
I am totally new to this dating thing- I did things backwards in the past and I am looking first for Friendship and then to dating.
Look forward to sharing a cup of coffee.

Meet a woman from United States. My greatest accomplishment has been sobriety. my proudest moments have been my grandchildren. I am grateful for each day i wake up.
My closest friends would discribe me as a happy person who enjoys helping others.A person who loves to garden and cook for family and friends.