Date men and women from United States / California / Ventura, 41 year old

Date a man from United States. How would i describe myself? Optimistic, good-natured, and easy to talk to
I have two amazing kids and I share custody 50/50. When I'm with my two kids, I love spending time with whether it is coaching their teams, at home reading, or mini-vactions to their favorite places.
Though I wish I had my kids 100%, I try to make the best of my "off" time. I like to get out and do things have a dinner with friends, take my dog to the park, or go see a movie. I really enjoy going for a good walk, a mountain bike-ride, or a run.
I am fortunate to work in education for the past 15 years, as both a school psychologist and as a special education director.
Life is good, rich with family and friends. I think it could be even richer if I found you.

Meet a soulmate from United States. I would first describe myself as motivated and driven. I work hard to be someone that gets things done while still taking time to really get the most out of life. My friends are very important to me, but the most important thing in my life will always be my two daughters It's not hard for me to see the view from the other side, and I think of myself as a very positive person. Physical fitness is also important to me, and I would prefer to be with someone who cared about their health and fitness as well. It is important to me to surround myself with people that see life as glass-half-full, as I do. There is too much to be enjoyed in life to waste time hunting up things to complain about. My ideal life partner is someone with good self-esteem, a positive attitude about work and family, and just a basic enjoyment of life. I'm comfortable with affection, and looking for someone that doesn't have a lot of barriers or issues to be negotiated. Just a regular girl that chooses to be happy and loved without needing to be saved or save the world.

Date someone special from United States. I am an easy going guy.
I can get along with almost anyone.
I truly have been blessed with a great life, excellent health, with wonderful friends, family, awesome neighborhood, and a job that I love. My approach to this site is light...if something happens...it happens. If not, it was fun while it lasted!
I am also into living a healthy lifestyle. I enjoy running and it's been a part of my life since my college days. Wherever I go, whether on a business trip or pleasure trip, I always take a good pair of running shoes with me. I value fitness, whether it's a hike in the hills, walks at the beach, or a run around my neighborhood. I have been studying Jeet Kune Do for awhile now and enjoy the challenging moves and physical fitness it provides.
I can easily shift between an athletic, energetic mode and a relaxed, almost meditative mode.
I never smoked, drink, or did drugs, but don't mind an occasional steak from Black Angus or burger from In and Out.
I believe things happen for a reason, and if I do meet my future mate in this site, well...it happened for a reason.

Meet people from United States. i am a nice guy tired of being lonly and would love to meet a girl that shares the same views as me someone who likes movies and to walk on the beach with. someone to talk too. not sure if im looking for marriage or not but anything is possible im outgoing funny and love kids I enjoy working and saving money in hopes to one day buy my own house here in so-cal

Date single man from United States. . OH i need to put this up now because it seems to be an issue with quite a few...
if you are looking for someone in thier 20- to early 30s, please me by, as the way I see it, you are looking for a boy toy, and i value myself more than a toy,i am looking for a long term, ever after style of life with someone, not a month long fling........please , really are you ladies serious, than you grind men on the same issue...
I am a simple guy with simple needs. I do not like to complicate things. I know my priorities in life.
Like most decent people, I value honesty, trust, loyalty, integrity and reliability.
I value a person's character over looks and material possessions.
Most people describe me as handsome, smart and and a little nuts.
I don't think it matters a great deal how much I write on this profile.
True connection is determined by actual conversation/s over the phone or in person. True connection is also never rushed. It does take time to know a person. For now, I want to share time sharing, laughter and great conversations with a wonderful woman
I have had a long time to groom whom i have become, i am happy , just want to share it with someone EVERYDAY.....
Mans man looking for his JANE...hmmm simple right?
I am a HUGE fan of dogs, so i have a few, lol and they might just scare you off, but they are the biggest babies... ;- 0
One last thing,I am really 48, but it seems a lot of women judge by age, i am not 48 when it comes to my life, i am 35....just try me!
GOOD LUCK TO ALL!

Meet men and women from United States. I dont believe you can truly summarize yourself in these things because, after all, they are just words. I am a pretty down to earth person. I work hard at my job, but will not let it take over my life. I love to laugh, have fun, be able to get into deep intellectual conversations at times, or at others, be completley non-sensical. I am open to meeting new people, regardless of how different our backgrounds are. Of course, in the end, there must be chemistry, and she needs to be my strength and my confidant, and in return, I would devote myself to her happiness as well, even if it were something that I wasn't accustomed to. Basically, I want an emotional, intimate, and plutonic partner all wrapped into one......wow, that got serious so fast!
FYI I just signed back up after laying off this thing for a while. I tried it a while back and my lack of effort along with the very peculiar people I met was, well, lets just say discouraging......and in some cases, really really weird! I just wish people would be who they are instead of who they want you to see them as. However, I've come back with a much more optomistic point of view and am going to give it a chance this time around as I am truly burned out on the bar/club thing.
Anyway, questions, comments, suggestons.......I'm all ears, oh, and did I say how I love Pina Coladas and getting caught in the rain.

Date a man from Ventura, United States. I am a very happy go lucky kinda person, I enjoy life and try live it to its fullest. Looking for someone to share that with. I am interesting to talk to and I have been told I am fun to be with. I enjoy doing new stuff, I love the beach and being outdoors. I take life serious but also know when to let loose. I will show my partner how to enjoy life too.

Meet a soulmate from Ventura, United States. Looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. I want to find someone who enjoys outdoors, has a sense of humor, doesn't mind getting a little dirty and trying new things.
I have a great job and make good money. I would like to find someone who has a career and has lived lifes up and downs, like myself. I rarely drink and not into going to nighclubs.
I don't have any tattoos or piercings. I have a full head of hair and clean shaven.
I have a teenage son who I have half of the time.

Date someone special from Ventura, United States. I'm adventurous, fun, a good companion, a loving father. I feel a vaccum in my life which I perceive as my not having a best friend in my life who is a woman that I talk to regularly, and first; whose company I crave, whose thoughts I want to hear, who I'd like to meet for meals and walks, sails and flights, nights out and talks. I miss the simple rewards of closing thoughts at the end of the day, and saying hello in the morning. Gifts. Of making them coffee, and the satisfying moments of meeting when we can. At the moment I'm not in a relationship, but not for any tragic or dramatic reason. So I am looking for that. I'd enjoy hearing from a woman who thinks my profile reflects a man they are looking for. The rest will take care of itself.

Meet people from Ventura, United States. I recently returned to Ventura and am looking to meet someone cool.
I'm chill and enjoy good conversation and kicking ideas around. I'm also a highly driven person and committed to pushing myself. I've done a few things and traveled here and there. Of course I love to have fun, laugh, and goof off (when I'm not in workaholic mode:). I love running, hiking, and all that kind of natury stuff. I am pragmatic, optimistic, and open and trying to stay right-sized.

Date single man from Ventura, United States. After quite a few years of trial and error and a lot of refection I think I have a pretty clear idea of what works in a relationship, at least for me.
Similarity- I don't mean being just alike, far from it. Similar however, in life goals, what we consider fun, sense of humor, values and lifestyle.
Independence - Allowing enough space for each other to have "outside the relationship" time and experiences.
Respect- Genuine respect and admiration for the other persons thoughts, ideals and actions.
Passion - Yep! I believe that if you have all of the above but don't sexually click then what you have is a friend. Friends are great but we are all here looking for a lot more than that, right?
Since similarity is all we can guess at here, I'll give you some basics:
For fun - I love being outside and active. I'm into camping, backpacking, hiking, photography, surfing, diving, mountain biking, road biking, and love road trips. That's not just a random list, I actually DO this stuff on a regular basis. I also like wine tasting, concerts, movies, hanging out with friends at the beach or a backyard BBQ. We even started outdoor movie night at my house. I also have an awesome Lab that I spend a lot of quality outdoor time with.
Professional stuff - I own my own home 1 mile from the beach, not in debt, never been married and have no relationship baggage. I truly have one of the best jobs on the planet. I work with my head and my hands and love what I do.
Lifestyle- I try very hard to stay in shape 1) so I can do all the active things I like to do and 2) to create and maintain a physical attractiveness for whoever I end up having a relationship with, I think that's fair. I love to travel and have been quite a few places. I'm always planning a trip. As a matter of fact, I'm going to Tanzania with some friends in Dec. to climb Kilimanjaro, go on safari and do some diving. If THAT sounds like fun then we may hit it off. (and if we do, you may get to go!)
Other stuff that might be helpful - I believe in chivalry, open-mindedness and empathy. I think John Stewart has a better grasp on politics than anyone in D.C.. I also think that's sad. I still think the Simpsons are hilarious and I once saw a bride hip bump the groom when she got to the altar and I thought that was awesome.
Anyway, if you got a kick out of my profile, we might just "get" each other so send me an email and we'll go from there.
Oh, and yes, I'm well aware some of these photos are cheezy. You can't believe I WANTED to take those. But hey, I have photographer friends and it's a fair representation of what I look like and they're current, and isn't that what we're trying for here. At least I kept my shirt on.

Meet men and women from Ventura, United States. easy gong and fun. like outdoors, motorcycles, sports cars, wine and music. enjoy long romantic evenings, good food and good wine. like to travel, ride, surf, climb, snowboard, flyfish, race, or read.