Date men and women from United States / California / Costa Mesa, 41 year old

Date men and women from California, United States. I am very idealistic, know it and refuse to be more "realistic" yet I walk this green-blue earth with two feet firmly planted in the ground. I am hopeful; perhaps a bit shy at first; and yet I can carry on a conversation with just about anyone. I am passionate about people and the human condition. I am very imperfect and with all my imperfection will keep showing up for life. I am a deep thinker, can be very intense, very serious and yet I am a huge goof ball. I love my kids, being a Dad. I love being outdoors; spending time in nature. Social issues are very important for me; I will ALWAYS fight for those that don't have a voice. My faith is central in my life and yet I am not looking to convert anyone. Acting in my sphere of influence is important to me and not getting my ego and pride all bent out of shape over things that are out of my control (most things).

I have lived a full life and bring a huge amount of life experience to the table. Sports was a huge part of my life; played college hoops; I am a phenomenal athlete and yet I don't have anytime for sports that doesn't include my boys. I can break down any sport and yet I would rather talk religion, philosophy, politics and go to a museum, concert hall or picnic at a park. I studied everything in college; but mainly philosophy and religion. My curiosity is enormous which isn't always a good thing and doesn't necessarily translate well to the bottom line. I have lived in England, Spain and France; speak Spanish fluently. Enjoy reading and writing; learning.
Some of my heroes are M.L. King, Ganhdi, Thoreau, Tolkein, C.S. Lewis, Rudolf Steiner, Dennis Klocek, Burt Hellinger, Bob Dylan, Cat Stevens, Jonnie Mitchel, Pete Seager, Mother Theresa, Emil Bach, Owen Barfield, Kahlil Gibran, Rudyard Kipling, Bill W. ... And of course, YOU!

I am looking for a woman that is feminine and graceful like a dancer. A woman who loves to laugh and is playful. A women that is cultured and intelligent and likes barefooted walks on the beach and in nature. Is health conscious and generally progressive in her thinking. A women that is naturally beautiful and respects her body. A women that is gentle and yet firm like a mountain. A women that is a force to be reckoned with. A women that has lived a full life and has little regret. A women that really loves and appreciates herself. One that understands that you have to loose yourself in order to find yourself. One that is patient and can see through my bullsh--! A woman that knows how to set boundaries and can trust enough to continually rediscover intimacy with me. A women that knows truth is paradoxical.

Meet single man from California, United States. I am a person that enjoys life and stays active. I enjoy going to the gym, beach, movies, romantic dinners, long drives and also just stay home and watch TV or a good movie. I try to stay active and in shape. I enjoy all kinds of sports but my favorites are basketball and martial arts. I am loyal and trustworthy. When it comes to music, I enjoy all kinds of music.
What I'm looking for: A woman that enjoys life and likes to have fun. Someone that is active and takes care of herself. Someone that is honest, loyal and caring.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I gave up my career as a professional stunt driver so I could focus on my true love...floral arrangements. Not buying it? Didn't think so. Would you believe...professional airline pilot by day and sophisticated secret agent by night? No? Alright, how about this...a guy who loves to find humor in everything life has to offer. Someone who loves living in Southern California because of the rich variety of activities we have here. Surfing, beach volleyball or running my dog at Dog Beach all year round? Check. Heading up to Mammoth in Winter to enjoy the powder from the latest storm? Oh yeah! Trying out a new restaurant or club on the spur of the moment? I'm in! Or even just hanging out at home, watching a great movie and enjoying the company of someone special. It all depends on your taste in movies. Personally, I could watch anything from "Casablanca" to "Dumb and Dumber" and still have a great time with you.

Meet someone special from California, United States. I am an emotionally stable and available, fit entrepreneur who opens doors for random strangers, and secretly buys drinks for people who look like they're having a bad day. I'd love to find a partner who is active, emotionally balanced, considerate and not self-centered and someone with a high EQ. Thanks for stopping by!

Date a man from California, United States. Well.........
I must say, I'm really at a point in my life that I'm looking for that special someone to come home too. I'm tired of all the mind games and being taken advantage of. I'm a hardworking professional and very family oriented........ "I value family over anything else, so that special someone must feel the same, I'm not looking for a bootie call". I enjoy being spontaneous and on a moments notice could just say....... let's take the boat out and go wake-boarding or let's take Vegas by storm! I will say that this dating thing is very new to me and I'm a little nervous? I am very open minded and will try most things at least once. I'm really kind of a carefree spirit and would love to finally find my soulmate. I know your out there....... Let's have some fun!!!!
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Meet people from California, United States. I aspire to live a positive lifestyle, I beleive in love for family and friends and also this world,I seek a partner thats energetic ,loving, knowledgeable and understanding , , I love sports ,music ,concerts, like to travel and make new friends! I like to do volunteer work for charities.I like bike riding .I enjoy the beach and being outssde in the sun, I go to the gym on a regular basis. Love to go to the theater and to sporting events,can dine out or at home. I feel I am a fun and easy person to be around. I dress casual mostly but for the right occasion, I can polish it up well!

Date someone special from Costa Mesa, United States. Hi there-and welcome to my little piece of!! What can I tell you about myself? Im 40 years old, living in SoCal since 1997(originally from Oregon) go Ducks!. I love it down here, although I do miss the"changing of the seasons". Family is very important to me, so if you have a closeknit relationship with your family, that is a plus in my book! I have a big family, and I relish all opportunities I get to see them. Im a relaxed, down to earth "girl next door" type of person, with a love of sports-football(Seahawks), baseball(Angels), tennis, golf and basketball(Blazers).
I have a passion for good music and accompanying atmosphere- jazz clubs, concerts, dance clubs, quiet dinners. A perfect evening for me would be: dinner, a good bottle of wine, music and that "special someone". I love to travel and my favorite place I have been to thus far is Kauai.. lush flowers, waterfalls, beach(very romantic). My next desired place of travel would be Italy/Tuscany. Rolling Hills, all the colors of the landscape, the general beauty of the land. I love the outdoors, especially the ocean or running water(streams, rivers, waterfalls). There is something very calming and peacefull about it.
Well, what am I looking for in man? I am looking for a real relationship, the one that my grandparents had (An enduring one). A man that has a love of family, caring and compassionate personality, someone who has morals and respects all ideas and doesnt judge, someone with integrity, loyalty, a good heart. Someone with ambition and goals in life. An individual who enjoys humor and being silly/ can laugh at themselves and life in general. A person who is athletic and outgoing, spontaneous but also responsible, someone who enjoys showing physical affection and is a true romantic at heart. Someone who is going to be my best friend, my lover, my partner in crime, my teammate thru life. Someone who wants children and will be a good father and husband.

Meet men and women from Costa Mesa, United States. Well, here I am! I'm a friendly, curious, easygoing person, so although it seems weird, I am giving this a try! I love to meet new people, especially those with similar interests, but I also appreciate the company of those who may be quite different from myself. I look for people and experiences that will add value and depth to my life. I enjoy the outdoors, nice weather, good conversation and humor. Life's too short to be serious, boring and cynical...I want no part of that!
My two teenagers are growing up to be amazing people, and I love my life with them. They keep me laughing every day! When I'm not with my kids, I spend a lot of time at the gym, hiking in the mountains or local wilderness, or just hanging out with friends. I love music (rock) and going to concerts. The last show I saw was Roger Waters' The Wall- it was absolutely incredible. I also love to be near any kind of water- oceans, lakes, streams, waterfalls, even just a pool. I haven't traveled much in my life so far, but look forward to doing so as my parenting and career demands allow. I enjoy luxuries but don't need them to be content. I love camping and backpacking, RV's etc.
I would love to find the right person to share adventures, friends, family and lots of laughs with. Life has so much to offer, and it's so much more fun when shared with the right partner. That can be hard to find and to maintain....but it's possible, and I wish you the best!
I do appreciate the winks, but if you want to talk, please go ahead and email me! Thanks! :)

Date people from Costa Mesa, United States. I am a person of honesty, and I like others to be honest with me. I don't like to play games. I am looking for someone who is honest, not a player, and enjoys life to the fullest . I enjoy adventure and I am very spontaneous. I love to travel, authentic cuisine, and always up for doing something fun.

Meet a woman from Costa Mesa, United States. I love to experience life and like adventure. I am a loyal friend and spend a good amount of time with my friends and family. I love to meet new people and do new things. like to go out to dinner with friends or stay home and have a Sunday afternoon BBQ and watch a football game. I like to make road trips ...and I have never been opposed to jumping on a plane and taking off for a week. I love music, good books, movies and I really like sports. I like lively discussion on any topic from the plot of The Hangover to politics.... I am open minded and kind and very fun loving and can have a sarcastic sense of humour at times. I like to laugh and i got to say I consider myself pretty hilarious. I am super driven in my career and have worked for the same company for 13 years.... I love what I do and the people I work with. I also leave work at work and I am fortunate enough to have a ton of flexibility with my job..
I am looking for the same thing that most people are searching for....I guess ...or I am not sure why we would all be on here. That spark of a connection with someone.... I am not perfect and I dont expect anyone else to be.... What I find attractive in men....someone who is fun, confident, Funny, adventourous, passionate about life, driven in his career and interested... I dont mean interested in me but in life... I like someone who is straightforward and can enjoy staying home and watching Sunday football ... Or can go out and grab cocktails... If you are silly that is all good too... Like a huge bonus.
Here are my dislikes... People with an attitude, dishonesty, dirty feet, workaholics, indifference, men in tight or bedazzled jeans... Doesn't a pair of jeans.. Flip flops and a normal shirt exist anymore...? People who are enamored by money... Close minds... Women with fake boobs so big that they hit their chin... Although I find that funny too...Being uptight ... Laziness.. People who are self absorbed.. That sums it up.
Cheers and Good luck.

Date a soulmate from United States. I feel like most of these profiles are a bit similar, the only reason to read them is to check spelling. What's different with me...I like being active, volunteering and wine tasting. Im super witty, super smart, and blah blah too?
Ok, so seriously I absolutely love running. Not so much as for fitness, more as to the way it makes me feel like a 6 year old.
Just ran Long Beach Half Marathon, and HB Half, next one is very very soon. I'm not the fastest, but I don't walk/jog. Would like to be with someone who is active as well, at any level. Definitely not a health freak, I just love that feeling of exertion. Other sports tennis, competetive beginner, snowboarding local and Tahoe, never been to Mammoth, i have golf clubs, i used to surf when i lived in San Diego, not sure of a Cardiff equivelent out here just yet. I love to begin new books, takes alot to hold my attention to read through, ive read most of the old must reads, love nonfiction.
Ive been in OC almost 2 years. Might move back to San Diego in August. Not so sure about the OC...
I obviously like someone active, a bit of nerdy intellectual, who appreciates dry humor and some mild verbal abuse every once in a while( optional of course). Last but most important, there HAS to be chemistry.
Though Ive never been married, I've always enjoyed decent healthy relationships where I can maintain some space. I don't like being smothered. Some people's weird.
My life is pretty balanced. My career can be pretty stressful so i do enjoy a glass of wine at night and a 7 mile run or spin class in the morning . Works for me : )

Meet someone special from United States. Open-minded, not clingy, on the go type of guy, who enjoys adventure, has some stability in his life, yet likes to party and have fun. No baggage please or serious relationships. Honest and sincere, Not flaky. Stand up kind of guy.

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