Date men and women from United States / California / San Diego, 41 year old

Date men and women from San Diego, United States. Here's the potential deal breaker: I have several pet tarantulas I let freely roam around my house...just kidding!! But seriously:
I don't believe we have to have everything in common to get along, because there should be a willingness to explore someone else’s interests. Is your hobby Origami? Okay, I'll spend time on it with you. I like to learn new things!
I like to engage in various activities. I do enjoy going out once in while to places where they have music, dancing, etc., but I'm also happy staying in and cooking, watching a movie, playing a board game, just talking, etc. I like to follow current events, such as what's going on in Syria. I'm kind of addicted to watching documentaries on PBS, but at the same time I like sitcoms like the Big Bang Theory.
I am pretty easy going and mellow. I don’t get upset and irritated easily. I am not a confrontational person but there will be times in which we disagree on something, but we can work it out.
I tend to keep my house relatively neat as I'm not a big fan of a messy, cluttered living space. So, I'm hoping to find someone who enjoys scrubbing showers; kidding again.
I work as Hearing Officer for the government and do travel occasionally, but only in Southern California on weekdays, during the day.
I see many profiles talking about not wanting to play games; well, I don't have time for that.
RE: the question on having children, I am open to the idea, but I won't let it define my life if I never end up having children.
I am a three-time winner of Nice Guy of the Year Award, and going for number four.

Meet a soulmate from San Diego, United States. Hi Successful, tall, professional with an incredible personality and sense of humor. . I'm easy going, fun, work hard, play hard and live a healthy lifestyle. I respect and treat others as I wish to be treated. I enjoy flying planes, traveling, reading, theater, tennis, scuba, chess, salsa, golf, yoga, fitness, working out, salsa and dancing. I wish to share my love, my life, my heart and soul, my dreams, my smiles, my tears with an intelligent, passionate, warm, sensitive, loyal best friend who would also be my sensual, romantic and uninhibited lover.......could that be YOU??? (age/race unimportant)
Seeking an intelligent, witty, truly romantic lady who knows what she wants and how to get it. Someone who is confident with who she is, takes pride in how she looks and who love and respect herself and others. She is confident, secure and knows how to have fun. Takes pride in how she looks (in a positive way) regardless of her size. Loves God or has some spiritual awareness in her life.

Date a man from San Diego, United States. I would describe myself as very easy going, one who likes to stay active "workout at the gym, run, travel, ride my Harley." I'm looking for an active female who like to stay active, who likes to travel, take rode trips "Vegas", go to local restaurants and pubs.

Meet someone special from San Diego, United States. I'm searching for an intelligent, independent, adventurous, athletic, outdoorsy sort of girl who is equally at ease pursuing athletic endeavors, traveling to far flung destinations, or at a fancy dinner. (EASY to find, right? ;) I tend towards the low maintenance type of girl who worries not about how she looks, but about the current (or next) adventure. Sorry, but fake fingernail types need not apply. The right woman may not do all of the things I like to, but she must have a passion for what she does (work and play).
Me? A responsible, stable (mentally and otherwise) adult with a good career who is in close touch with his inner kid. A child's endless sense of excitement, adventure and curiosity is so energizing, so I try to emulate those qualities (minus the temper tantrums). With a love of a challenge and learning, you'll often find me practicing guitar, reading, or taking a German class. I don't relax well, so I'm usually on the move and busy. My future plans DO include settling down...but surely not settling!
My happy place is the great outdoors! I enjoy climbing (rocks and mountains) and anything else that gets me outside and keeps me active (running, hiking, volleyball, mountain biking, surfing, backpacking, snowboarding).
I've got a serious travel bug. (If you have a passport and know how to use it, even better!) Prior destinations: Europe, Africa, Australia, UK. I love the people, food, art, history, crazy stories, and mind expanding out-of-my-element feel that comes with travel. I try to pack a lot into my trips since there's so much to see and experience.
Other random bits about me... I value honesty integrity, procrastinator, recycler, can fix things, don't own a TV, will open the door for you, eat out far too often but my cooking won't kill you, bad English bugs me (they're, their, there) but will get over it, would love to live overseas someday, don't watch pro sports, facial hair comes and goes with the mood, keep a long To-Do-List, your Mom will love me!!! ;)
So, where am I in life, you ask? I'm at the point where I'd like to find what my parents had for 45 years...
So, are you the one?

Date people from San Diego, United States. My ideal match is someone who is also on a spiritual path or has an open loving/accepting heart. If your favorite word is I or me then I'm likely not your man. I retired from the US Army in February, so I'm starting 2012 fresh and I'm proud and honorably walking away from the military. I'm very open to personal growth through spiritual application. My spiritual growth has been learned through tough spiritual lessons which continually grant me humility and a more loving heart.
So my passion is God and spiritual growth. I do know many people classify themselves with a religion but have no experience in their hearts. For many it's nothing more than a place marker or a brand to affiliate with. It's really no different then saying I will only drive a Mercedes or BMW.. Our direct experiences make us who we really are and show us what we have to overcome. I personally choose esoteric practices as it brings me deeper into the spiritual experience and allows to understand who I am and what my real path is all about.
As for the rest of me: I love to travel, explore and adventure. I own motorcycles and enjoy riding when the weather is clear. I would like to ride dirt bikes, but I don't have one at present. I enjoy history, culture, foreign foods (sushi/Indian/Thai), love sail boats, please own one!, lighthouses and aviation. I enjoying target-shooting, so if your interested lets go to the range! I enjoy a nice bottle of wine with someone as well. I love the tropics, scuba diving, lobster diving and traveling to exotic locations as I plan my next vacation to either Peru, Australia or Thailand. I love the ocean, running water, warm places, the summer and the sun on my skin. I
I don't follow sports, sorry! However, I will watch a game with you or even go to a live sporting event. It just means I don't know scores, stats, players names, good offensive and defensive lines, etc.. I metal detect on occasion at the beach and yes I would love to find a treasure ship, laden with Gold, but I'm not hanging my hopes of that occurring. I enjoy watching movies, but I don't watch TV. I love culture, so if you speak foreign languages that's a plus and I'm open to any culture, especially if your culture is warm, loving and has great food! Physically, I'm attracted to women who have slender/athletic builds, more of a sporty woman as I'm not a big person myself. I very much want to be with someone who is witty, intelligent, sexy and who will dress up and down. Also, someone who can rock a bikini at the beach or lounge in capri's and be just as sexy.
I love women with long hair but I understand that change is necessary and is good. It's just a personal preferance, nothing mandatory. I like people to be happy with themselves, that's key. Financial security is important to me, so if your 100k in credit card debt and cannot make your car payment because going to the bar is more important then please don't look my direction. I'd prefer a mate who can take care of themselves, but still see's the value of a man.
Also, if you have no capacity to cook or at least try then it's no bueno for me.
Some other thoughts of what I like: Loving people, if you have no love for yourself or anyone else, please don't hang your hopes on me as you need to work on yourself before considering a relationship. So other characteristics I enjoy: compassion and affectionate people. If you don't like being touched or are perpetually angry, I'm not your man. I want my woman to walk in the door and want a hug, kiss and share her day with me. Last note, if you agree to go out with me and I do not care who initiates the conversation, all expenses are Dutch Treat. I will not pay for someone's dating experience in a non-committed relationship. We can gladly share the bill or pay individually. There are many people on this website who want a free pass. If you work and have a job and want to play in this game, then pay your own way

Meet single man from San Diego, United States. I am starting a new chapter in my life.. I recently lost a lot of weight, new job, new lease on life.
I am EVERY character from Seinfeld.. Everything "Evens out" for me, like Jerry.... I have Crazy Ideas like Kramer, I am as assertive as Elaine, and, Like George, I enjoy a great Bathroom.
I love to read.. everything from History, Sales books, and autobiographies.
With exception of a glass of wine, here and there, my drinking days are way, way behind me. I never smoke, and NEVER drugs. None- what so ever!
Actually, I have had a wonderful life to date.. I've lived out 4 of my dreams. Served in the Marine Corps, Travelled the World, worked in Hollywood, and live in Paradise!
I have a wide variety of music in my library.. from Rock, Spanish, classical, 50's, and everything in between.
I'm looking for a partner I can take home to Mom. I like the outdoors, and so should you. The Beach and mountains are my forte. I enjoy the zoo, sea world, and any other local sites. Balboa Park is a favorite.
I have a very stressful job thats forces my schedule to be very unique... Sometimes I work from early afternoon to 9-10 pm, or off daily at 4... I usually work on Saturdays for a limited time...
I have endless energy, and am always positive...

Date men and women from United States. I really don't understand the "Who's viewed me" option on Match. I guess you get to see all the people that didn't think that you were all that interesting after reading your profile. :) No pressure! Actually, it's kind of funny. I believe you can control a lot of aspects in your life, but this is not one of them. So, just laugh and smile as it will happen when you least expect it. :)
I hope your search to find someone great is not taken too seriously and hope you find that special someone that takes your breath away.
A little about me: I know that I am a very kind, easygoing and fun person to be around. I have lived in San Diego for 36 years and love it. I feel that I'm a well rounded person and try to make the best out of any situation. I'm the kind of guy that can fix just about anything, I'm not bragging, it's just me.
I have a great career and love what I do for a living. I enjoy great weekend getaways and have been known to just jump on a plane and go!
Even though I have no children or my own, I do love everything about them. :)
I enjoy listening to all types of music, live or on my Ipod. I also enjoy going to comedy clubs on a regular basis. I love sushi and could eat it almost any day of the week, but also enjoy trying new places to dine.
Snowboarding has been really fun for the past five seasons, as I also look forward to our annual fishing trip with my brothers.
I love all types of brain teasers, puzzles and chess. I can solve the Rubix cube in under five minutes (this is really not bragging as solving it in under one minute is a wow), I know it's a little dorky and from the 80's.
I have a lot to offer. So, if you think we would be a great match, I would love to hear from you. Don't be shy! as we can always go do something fun and at the very least, we end up as friends. Best! And don't pay too much attention to my photos, as I look much better after two drinks. ;)

Meet a soulmate from United States. I am a native San Diegan who has never left. I do have some regrets about that and would have definitely studied abroad had I to do it over again. I am pretty active and have this mantra of doing something physically stimulating each day (basketball, gym, hiking) and something mentally stimulating each day (read, watch movies, listen to music). I have found this brings a good balance to my life. I am a cinephile and particularly enjoy independent, foreign and documentary films. I also love live music and am often out seeing shows.
I would like to meet someone who is health conscious, active, affectionate and looking for a serious relationship. I admire kindness and intelligence and am really turned off by the type of person that constantly needs to be the center of attention.

Date a man from United States. I describe myself as generous, kind, warm hearted, thoughtful and caring. Challenged with a task, problem solver, helpful to the needy, patient in time. An explorer to nature, a lover of the arts.
What am I looking for ? ... who am I looking for ? ... a woman whose personal traits complements her beauty ... a woman who
has been hoping to find her man. I'm here to find a woman who wants me to be her man and I want to be the man for the woman who wants to be my woman.
I'm looking for someone to spend my time with ... like a walk in the park or on the beach. Isn't this city one of the most beautiful places to be ? I'm not the typical bar hopper on the weekends. Occasional is the time spent with friends at a favorite restaurant with a live band playing. bowling, playing pool, playing basketball are my favorite past time.
It is very seldom that I would find someone who would be compatible with me and who I would be compatible with. Somehow personality plays an important part here. The truth is that the more you know someone the more likeable that person will be to you. If you want to find love, you might not find it when you look for it but love will find you at an unexpected time.
I'm a typical workaholic sometimes. I even go the the extremes that even when I feel sick I still feel obligated to come to work that staying at home. Work and personal fulfillment are important to me. At this time of my life, I would like to be in a relationship and look to every day as a moment to nurture it. I'd like to spend my life with someone who has the same passion and desires in life.
I hope you will be that person.

Meet someone special from United States. I have to give the headline credit to SNL's Deep Thoughts by Jack Handy.
So, here we go. I was born here in San Diego so I get to claim native. However I pretty much grew up in Mass and RI so I am also an east coaster. Along the way I have also lived in Milwaukee WI, Boulder CO, and San Francisco. Milwaukee provided a contrast to the other places.
My lifestyle is really very simple. I run/jog, surf, golf, kayak the cliffs, and have started to swim at La Jolla cove and would like to do it more often. If you wanted to join me in any or all of these activities that would be great. I should probably add that I do have a job so I don't just enjoy San Diego all day every day.
I would usually rather share a nice bottle of wine with dinner than hang out at a bar, but am up for a game of pool or an afternoon of drinks in the sun at The Pennant, Lahina's, or some other outdoor venue that you may enjoy, on occasion.
I am generally content and happy with where I am in life but it would be great to share it with the right person. I am looking to have fun meeting good, quality people and hope that something grows out of one of those meetings.
You would ideally be ... yourself. Everything else really comes down to timing and chemistry. However since I should probably narrow this down a bit, I am most attracted to fit, athletic women, with an intellect and an education, who treat others as they wish to be treated. Also, I am a fan of a more natural look, because waking up next to a person who looks like the same person you went to bed with is better than the alternative, so hopefully huge amounts of makeup at all times is not your style.
If you think that we might match up let me know.
Thanks for giving me a look and good luck.

Date people from United States. So, a little about me,
Im a San Diego native third generation. My family came here from Italy and settled in Old Town. Most of my relatives still live in Old Town. My Grandma knew Ms Whaley.
I grew up in Mission Hills and went to Point Loma High School.
I studied Philosophy in college before turning my attention to computers.
After many years of hard work and studies I am now a Network Engineer.
I love my trade and my job.
I think life is a gift and I make a point to smile every day. :)

Meet single man from United States. I'm two parts geek, one part athlete, with a dash of romanticism and thoughtfulness. :) I also do a mean running man and roger rabbit. I tried to do the jerk, but I just look like I'm skipping backwards! I suppose I'll just have to keep practicing on the Dance Central.
I?m not here to serial date; of course, that doesn?t mean I?m just looking to jump into a relationship, but I?m looking for the possibility. I have a whole lot of love to give; I'm a romantic that still believes in respect, understanding, good character, integrity, and chivalry (no matter how many of my guy friends tell me that it?s dead) Trust me?My mom took a liking to drilling it into me when I was a kid!
I tend to get mistaken for looking younger than my age. I?m definitely still a kid at heart and exercise regularly, so maybe that?s it :) I have no problem being playful or taking a teasing (as long as you can take it back!). My house becomes haunted every Halloween! I love to dance, dine, and try new things.
I have a hundred or so acquaintances, but only a handful of true friends. I like to try new restaurants, new adventures, new places, and meet new people. I?d like to travel much more than I have. I love BBQ?s, game nights, and even dance parties at my home.
Oh. I like to smile a lot, always put the seat down, and am ready for the next chapter of my life!
I'm looking for a woman that is fun-loving, has her head on straight, knows what she wants out of life, and isn't afraid to say how she feels. Someone that realizes that life has so much to get out there and experience, but at times just wants to sit on the sofa and get her feet rubbed while watching a movie. I guess it's hard to explain exactly what you want until you actually meets someone because everyone has a different set of wonderful qualities. I just need a little loving, honesty, loyalty, respect and a lot of smiles and laughter. Am I asking too much? I hope not. :)

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