Date men and women from United States / California / La Mesa, 46 year old

Date men and women from California, United States. No time for "playas." Do I really have to say that at this age!?... Former playas....ok. : ) I'm not hard to please - just looking for someone who appreciates my complexity, encourages my dreams, challenges my intellect, makes me laugh, cooks for me, fixes my car, etc...! LOL. Life is good, good career, friends and colleagues, kids are college-bound, and just started my third year of law school. I'm a little bit of an introvert (not shy just prefer more intimate settings), but can be convinced to go out in the right company. :) I enjoy reading and writing, politics, movies, wine, sports, traveling, home improvement and time with my kids (when they let me). I am serious and sophisticated when the situation dictates, but more often - casual and easy going. My diverse background allows me to feel comfortable in any situation. I like to look nice and have a few things, but am not materialistic or wasteful.
I'm interested in a man who has a wide range of interests like I do; appreciates life, is confident and passionate - yet humble, and not afraid to communicate on a deeper level, once he gets to know me. Enjoys sports (if you want to watch football all day on occasion - I'm good with that - as long as I can watch with you!), kids and dogs. A great sense of humor - but not without a serious and contemplative side. Good manners, spiritually-grounded and respectful of others. Someone who understands money is not the most important thing- but is financially stable and responsible. Honesty is huge, of course - and maturity. I do want to marry again- and if that scares you- I am not the one. :) That kind of chemistry, of course, cannot be forced - we can only put ourselves in the best position, enjoy the journey, and hope for the best.
Please know that I am not a good pen pal. if we connect and there is interest- let's meet - in real life! Life is too short to be playing on the computer all the time.
Also, if I add you to my favorites-don't worry...I'm not stalking you. Lol It means I should be studying, and want to say hello later. :)

Meet a woman from California, United States. I like to think of myself as someone well rounded. Someone who has natural beauty that shows in my smile and in my actions; someone who is intelligent and successful in my career; someone who is genuine and real; someone fun and spontaneous; and someone who adores being a mother.
I have a strong spiritual foundation and believe that good things do happen to all people. I enjoy doing anything outside, but especially like warm weather fun! Most recently, I am spending time mountain biking and hiking, but have enjoyed water sports, the beach, and traveling. I treasure spending time with family and friends, but look forward to quality time spent alone with a partner.
I have learned that life is a journey. We never know for sure where a path will lead. I have learned many things about myself on this journey, and have realized that whatever the path may be..... staying true to oneself is imperative. I believe the keys to a lasting relationship are a genuine love for one another, respect for each other, honest and open communication, similar values and goals in life, and adventure!

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Shy, friendly, active, petite and love to laugh. Grateful for my good health, good job, friends and family. Independent and low maintenance. Happy at home watching my favorite TV shows or dancing all night long with my friends to 93.3 music.