Date single man from California, United States. Briefly, I am a professional man with 2 small children 13 and 10 years of age. Recently widowed (1 year ago) To be blunt I don't need a woman to take care of me, what I would like is to meet a self reliant woman who can take care of herself. I would like to meet a woman who is comfortable dressing up for a night on the town or who can dress in Blue Jeans to go fishing with the children and me. I like to wear custom suits and Tuxedos with shined shoes (very important to me). My ideal partner would be adventurous and self confident enough to try anything that she wants to do. I plan to add some more pictures the one that I am using is certainly not the most flattering but I wanted to move on and I grabbed the first picture that was most recent ( The children and I took a guided Steel-head trip on the rogue River, Oregon on October).