Date single man from Ojai, United States. Are you smart and eccentric to nearly everyone? Do you think you're "different"?
Excellent!!
Are you kind, compassionate, and intelligent?
Might you for at least a while more be slender, about average, or fit?
Are you reasonably mentally self-secure and independent, seeking a partnership of two, with the milk of human kindness being the currency between us?
Do you want to rely on someone trustworthy, committed, studious, self-aware, and open to self-started and negotiated change?
Are you non-violent? Can you step back from an emotional outburst? Can you self soothe without subsequent harboring of mistrust or hostilities?
Yes?? You're who I'm looking for.
If you believe you're 80% of the above, then please contact me, no matter where you live or what your age.
Who I am:
-- A smattering of additional characteristics: all the above, and... Independent. Smart. Knowledgeable. Educated. Inclusive. Generous- sometimes. Love of learning and sharing ideas.
-- As one who's intelligent and educated, it's tough to be unobservant.
-- Joyful, and delight in most things
-- Puts on a good show that can be sharp-tongued with a rapier wit, but not towards my team partner, you.
-- Leading edge knowledgeable and thinker on current events.
-- Dependable most of the time.
-- Funny as not in slapstick, but like Jon Stewart.
-- Unique.
-- Supportive of one's goals, mine and yours.
-- Leader ready to lead and, with permission obtained from me, ready to follow.
-- Respectful of real needs of the other.
-- Playfully sexnsual -- to give to receive to watch to show to teach, and sometimes, even, to learn.
-- Seeker of quietude and enjoyer of a wide palette of music.
-- Sun-worshiper, as need to be warm.
-- Talker to rocks, animals, people and self.
-- Hunter of the truth.
-- Wry smiler and big laugher at the foolishness of mankind.
-- Celebrator of personal achievements, mine and yours.
-- Lover of children of all ages, and one who loves to help out.
-- A person who feels more complete when in the presence of their beloved.
-- Respecter of fair boundaries
-- Traveler who adds random side trips spontaneously just to see what there is to see. "Oh, look!" Last time was in front of the Milwaukee City Hall as I know that hoary bldg.
-- Seeker of a partner who can and will join in developing interesting plans for the future, a partner to share and support each other's goals as we work towards them.
-- Profound appreciator of being in my partner's heart space, with a hope the feeling is mutual.
-- One who is open to new adventures and one who's very involved in his business.
I'm a diverse thinker in areas of interest to me, and I'm not closed to continually expanding those interests. In one area, I'm at the leading edges of human applied technology while in another, I'm engaged in projects which advance the common good through for-profit business.
There are missing chapters in my book of life. I miss a playmate, a girl, woman, adult, partner, advocate, and so much more. I miss the opportunity to love, cherish, support, engage, and cheer for the woman in my life. If you're doing what you love, I'll laud you and if not, I'll be right there as you explore new direction.
It's essential that there's chemistry which is a must. I seek mutually experienced oxytocin highs aka ecstasy.
The pics of me are current. Apologies for none showing me in my finer duds. I got multiples of the Ferragamos and the rest of the outfit, but they're for street theater, not for kickin' it and being casual. I currently reside in Casualville, CA.
If you like to read and love to learn, if you're inherently intelligent (as in IQ), if you're want a safe man who'll be right alongside as you do the zaniest things and then shortly after, be right there, intellectually, able to discuss with you a large swatch of the breadth of human experience and awareness