Date a soulmate from California, United States. One thing I would like in a man is a kind hearted, and very strong willed. Kids make me smile, so if you have kids the better. Lets all hang out (your kids and my kids). I'm grateful of my health and family. My friends would describe me has a hard worker and loyal to those close to me. I have 3 gorgeous girls that im very protective of and yes men theyre from the same man. i had to throw that one there cuz i always get asked since Ive never married. I was with their father for a very long time. I'm looking for companionship and eventually to commit but its tough..it doesnt hurt to date though. You dont really know if you like someone unless its an intense attraction INTENSE thats what im been looking for..im tired of getting stuck wit young guys (i look young ive been told) that aren't focused. I want to look to an intense stare that will make me week in the knees because then you realize theres a connection. well if you think your that somebody email me if theres any possibility that i might think youre the one ill be VERY affectionate and devoted! If im not the one your looking for or vice versa we can still hang out and have fun-smile!