Date men from United States / California / Chula Vista, 48 year old

Date a man from Chula Vista, United States. Honest fun loving man seeking honest fun loving woman. My life is very full but I would like to find an equal partner in a romantic relationship. I have a 20 yr old daughter who is attending college and a 15yr old son. My niece(17) nephew (15) also live with us as I have been their guardian since my sister passed away. And no I am not looking for a mother for them.
I'm looking for a woman who is smart, energetic, loving, and confident. I am originally from the east coast. I work in the IT industry for a government contractor. I am retired from the Navy. That's how I landed in San Diego 20 years ago and love it here. I love playing sports and going to the games. Basketball, football, hockey, etc. I like to volunteer (I umpire little league). I like to travel and see new things. Also a quick weekend getaway is good just to relax. I like quite times at home watching movies or just hanging out or just a nice walk with some conversation. I am looking for an honest, romantic, trustworthy woman; a best friend. I value trust and loyalty in friendships and relationships. I'm old fashion and still believe in chivalry. I open/hold the doors for people, it's just the right thing to do.
If you have read ALL of this and still are interested, drop me a line and lets see what happens!
J

Meet single man from Chula Vista, United States. Hello potential match. I am happy to say that I am ready for the real thing. Yes... let's get to know one another and see where things lead.
My name is Kelvin and I am a Christian, independent, black, soulful, somewhat introverted man. I'm patient, passionate, emotional, dedicated, hard-working, and intelligent.
I am a black man, tired of all of the stereotypes and looking for a beautiful, independent, strong, passionate, Christian woman with a passion for life!
My hobbies include; working out to stay fit, golf, roller skating, writing, bowling, and playing the piano. I also like Jazz, comedy, and plays! I know this sounds "old" but I learned how to lawn bowl a few weekends ago. For those of you who know what this is - big ups to you!
I also want to mention that I write as a hobby and my penname is ShakespearNoir - the Black Shakespear.
For My match, you are a passionate lover of the Lord, very emotionally deep woman, and multifunctional. You have cultivated a life of experiences that have made you that uniquely desirable individual that's perfect for me and are willing to share those experiences with me.
You are a true beauty (inside and out), easy on the eyes and gentle on the heart. You desire to know who I am beyond what you can see on paper or get from a photograph. You want to know IF I know how to love before wanting to know if I'm a good lover.
I want to add to this story, will you co-write with me? The journey together may be long, full of trials (as none of us are perfect), and our Faith tested but the Lord will direct us, guide us, and provide for us. I realize that you, like many precious things, are rare and difficult to find.
I'm secure with who I am and with what I want out of life. I like feeling the part of the man in a relationship and want a woman who takes care of herself psychically and emotionally, appreciates a strong, attentive, intellectual, quiet man.
I'd love to meet a woman who enjoys similar interests to challenge me! I've lived with love in my life before but am now seeking a love that I simply can't live my life without!

Date someone special from Chula Vista, United States. I believe that our relationships, at their core, are our masterpiece. Now, I am looking for someone that I can create a masterpiece with; a woman who fills ,y heart with music and pours new colors into my imagination. I am looking for a best friend, a confidant, a partner and more.

Meet a soulmate from Chula Vista, United States. I am somewhat Laid back but like to experience new things. I can go from a quite night watching a Movie to going on a road trip out of the blue. My idea match would have to be a little adventurous but not to much, and she would also have to have a sense of humor. I Think I'm Funny

Date a man from California, United States. My closest friend would describe me as reliable. My kids make me smile. Educating my kids. I'm Grateful for Jesus the Christ and my life that the lord has given me. The person that I’m hoping to attract is one who will love me unconditionally. Semi social. Someone telling a joke. I'm looking for comfort and compatibility. My lord, my kids, my hobby and someone I could love.

Meet single man from California, United States. i only need an a special person whit nice smile and inteligent ;because I need a closest friend to get a long and strong relationship like best friends every single day , to obtain togheter our bot goals in this life

Date someone special from California, United States. Hi! Where to start? Hmmmm.....well, I see myself as, well, me. I'm confident but not cocky or conceited. I work hard and love what I do but always watching for opportunity. I know what I want in life and as well as what I don't want. I would prefer to be single and happy instead of being with someone but unhappy. I don't ask for anything but give of my heart completely.
I see life as half full and experiences and adventures can only add to it but never fill it. It is meant to be enjoyed and savored...each day that passes will never come back.
I have a off-beat sense of humor and if laughter is the result that's even better. I'm a practical joker at times but always in good fun and never at the expense of someone else but will laugh at myself. I tend to listen more than speak initially but warm up pretty quickly.
I enjoy working & teaching and worked. . . or is it taught my way up beginning as an elementary teacher then junior high and finally ended up at the high school level. Each was very fulfilling but I don't feel I could ever go back to those previous levels.
I enjoy the ocean, being at the beach as the sun goes down, the night sky in the mountains, evening strolls, and good conversation - I also collect stamps, coins and molds (j/k). A few things I enjoy doing are: jogging, gym, bicycling, Lambs Players Theater, Old Globe, Little Italy, Julian, La Mesa Oktoberfest to name a few. I'm always open to new experiences and adventures.
What am I looking for in a relationship with a woman..to have a real connection
I want her to be able to share whatever is on her mind with me as I would with her. To treat her as a woman should be treated - with respect, honesty, caring, tenderness and yes, I am a romantic at heart. I open doors, pull chairs out, and give a pretty good foot massage.
If you would like to talk let me know.
May you find the love of your life & God Bless,
Gabriel

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. WOW it’s already been 10 years since I moved back to San Diego, I spent the prior 18 years in Japan and Hawaii.
I grew up in northern California, went to high school in Colorado.
Joined the Navy in 1982 to see the world and did just that from Hokkaido to Saudi Arabia I have been all over the western Pacific and Indian Ocean.
I chose to settle down in San Diego because of the climate: Padres baseball, hiking, cycling, fishing, and the beach. A drive up the coast or to the mountains for a getaway is easy but San Diego has so much to offer there really is no better place on earth.
I’ve been single for quite some time my son lives in Hawaii and my daughter lives with me.

Date a man from United States. I'm a guy that enjoys live music and performances..My education and professional background are in the arts and athletics.I spent some years as a performer in live action stunt shows and live theatre. I have been a high school head football coach and played football until I was 37 years old. I work as a counselor at a local university, and am the offensive coordinator for a minor league football team as a hobby right now.
I love to have fun and make jokes. Sports of all kinds, intrigue me. I have been lucky enough to have traveled all over the globe. Musically, my preferences lie in straight ahead jazz, rock and roll, blues and classical. I really love Jimmy Smith, Bob Marley and Stevie Ray Vaughn. With that said, its safe to say I will at least listen to everything at least once.I'm a theatre rat and a jock. I like to learn new things. I'm looking for the same. I love to cook, go to old book stores, drive ( but hate traffic), sit at windansea beach, the cove or above blacks beach.
I am a native San Diegan, but have lived in many cities. Mostly I am looking for someone to share with and learn from. I know who I am and what I want. To me life is a constant classroom filled with new sights, smells and tastes. I want to find someone who accepts me for me and allows me to do the same for them.

Meet single man from United States. pick me pleeeeze i b looking 4 u i like to eat, sleep, relax. be happy, i am nice, kind, hard working, i make good money, i like to cook, i enjoy nature, sports, relaxing, the beach, to go chill at bars etc.

Date someone special from United States. not sure i even want to do this so nothing to say right, but if i have to im very shy at first but once i get to know someone im alot of fun. Great sence of humor in fact i crack myself up all the time.

Meet a soulmate from United States. My friends and family both tell me that I am a very caring and giving person. I'm a good listener and self motivated. I have a high degree of loyalty, integrirty, pride and respect not only for myself but to others as well. I am very well versed on my culture and very proud of my heritage. When I have a free time, I love to ride and find new places like dive bars on my bike, watch sports, shoot pool, darts, drink, bbq, cook and meet new people. I like to sit back and listen to different kinds of music, people watch and have conversations with people that I find interesting. I like to cook and enjoy spending time on the grill. But most of all, I love spending time with my son as family is very important to me. Although he is almost 19 years old, he is still my little man. My son and I have a relationship like no other. People sometimes mistake us for brothers instead of father and son which I think is really cool. I enjoy laughing and making others laugh. I can be silly when having a good time but I can also be serious and still have an awsome time. I love to eat and on occasion, I'll go out for sushi, steak and of course seafood. (Mariscos)
I am the type that is spontaneous. If and when I feel like doing something or going somewhere, for the most part I'll just get up and go. I like to go camping especially in the desert (during winter) riding quads with my son and friends at Glamis, Ocotillo, Plaster City or Butter Cup. I am currently employed and have been for the past 22 years in the same field. Although I do not work in the field I studied, I have learned to apply my knowledge and education to my job and have become successful. I believe it is important to love what you do. When the day comes where you do not enjoy going to work anymore, it's time to retire or find another career. My job has taken me to places that I would have never gone on my own and for that I am very thankful and blessed.
What I'm looking for is someone who shares the same interest(s) as I do. Someone who likes to share and enjoys hanging out and going to different places on the open road. A person that enjoys spending time with family or just staying home relaxing and being catered to. Someone who is comfortable going out in jeans and have a good time shooting pool and enjoying all the good things life has to offer versus someone getting all dressed up tying to impress others. A person who loves to laugh and have a good time being silly yet serious and not worried about impressing others or keeping up with the "Jones'". Someone that can be themselves anywhere and anytime.