Date people from California, United States. Who am I ? Great Question, a nut that should be in the crossbar hotel, with all the other loons. JK But the right woman could really start a fire under me. A successful woman always strikes my fire. I like a woman that loves herself without needing another mans attention I would say that i am a mess, without the sexy female at my side. I am happiest with a lovey, sensual, sexy, pretty, but not fake or plastic. Someone who is smiling and joyful, with a good sense of humor and knowledge. Must be able to chase one another on the beach, without having to pull up her depends. My social life sucks right now, but could change with the right Lady, She
must be in better shape than me, so she can kick my butt into better shape. I try to make people laugh, without be racist, or judge mental. Just real crap that we all laugh at.
Just wanted to add, the picture i have, is with my 15 year old daughter.
Meet men and women from California, United States. I am a sincere romantic man very kind and understanding and don't like been taken advantage of, love to listen to my spouse. I believe true beauty is inward as well as all around us. I do not like conflicts. I enjoy good conversation and I value a good sense of humor. A relationship where both parties are willing to share each others feelings, a woman that have a family orientation, full of passion, honest, understanding, caring, loving, God fearing.
Date a man from California, United States. I am a out going guy in the bay area, have been trying to find my perfect match.... I love sports and reading. A very caring person with a good sense of humor. Love to have a family, I prefer a woman with a good sense of humor.
Meet someone special from California, United States. I am curious, adventurous, and absolutely unorthodox.* I started writing stories when I was 5 and it began a life-long learning adventure. I now make my living as a writer.
Here's what I've discovered so far:
We're all pretty much the same: same loves, joys, sorrows and triumphs
Women aren't perfect
Imperfection is ok
Men have half a brain, women have a whole brain (really)
Humor is an effective communication tool (satire is difficult)
Humans are wired for story; it's how we learn
When in doubt, keep quiet
Read first, ask questions later
Friendship is more valuable than gold
We all fall down; it's important to get up again
Love rejuvenates
Religion is relative, but faith is critical
Human beings are social animals; we do best in relationship
A loving relationship is a partnership between two people who respect and admire each other
I am looking for someone who is both my friend and my lover. Someone who is willing to have an affair of the heart, an affair of the mind, and an affair of the soul.
*Orthodox or "right thinking" is following a defined world view that conforms to established belief. I don't do that.
I’m really good at
Listening
Writing
Telling stories
Walking/hiking
Thinking of fun things to do
Finding out how stuff works - I'm curious
Exploring mystery - I studied Journalism and Literature in college
Cooking - I was a sous-chef
Kissing - it really is an art
I'm a freelance writer and am preparing to attend SDSU for an MSW, with a focus in Mental Health, and plan on attaining an LCSW
In my spare time I'm writing a mystery (life is a mystery after all).
I read like a fiend and my tastes vary. When I want to stretch body and soul, I go on a ride on my recumbent trike (HP Velotechnik Scorpion).
I avoid boredom by thinking about
The mystery and wonder of life.
How to tighten my writing
The characters I'm developing for my story
Are Dark Energy and the unconscious mind different aspects of the same manifestation?
A few things that are important to me:
Stimulating conversation
A sense of belonging
Books
Loving relationships
Meditation
You
I'd really love to hear from you if
. . . you have humor, curiosity, and wonder
. . . you can identify and discuss your feelings
. . . you enjoy conversation
. . . you enjoy physical activity (hiking, riding, walking)
Date a soulmate from California, United States. LIFE IS GREAT,LIFE IS NOT BY ACCIDENT LIFE IS GOD GIVEN SO IT'S UP TO US TO LIVE THE BEST LIFE WE CAN, WE ARE NOT HERE TO FAIL BUT TO BE GREAT AT WHO WE ARE FATHER,MOTHER.SON,DAUGHTER,FRIEND,BUSINESS OWNER,ECT.I PERSONALY SEEK TO ENJOY LIFE AND THE BEST OF GOD'S CREATION TO THE FULLNESS,PEOPLE, HOMES CARS,ECT MY THING IS JUST BE YOU.IF TWO PEOPLE CAN COME TOGETHER AND BE WHO THEY ARE AND DON'T HAVE TO TRY AND BE WHO THEY ARE NOT, THAT IS A GREAT RELATIONSHIP WHAT I'M SEEKING FOR IS GREAT. I AM A LOVER OF THE GOOD LIFE
Meet single man from California, United States. Where should I start:
Well if you are looking for Rich Man, someone very sexy and hot with great abs, and hot body, someone that has life all together with no problems, then you dont need to read any further - Just go on to next guy because that is not me.
The last 3 years of my life have been very difficult very challenging and very hard. I have been thru divorce, I have had my last parent die, my dad, and just overall has been rough 3 years.
Life is not easy, but no one ever said it was easy or fair. So I think it is time to start moving forward and looking to date again.
I told you a little about who I am not, so I will tell you a little about me.
I am a nice guy, maybe sometimes too nice. I am a hard worker. I treat people good, and hope they treat me the same.
I dont mind working for a living. I am ok when it comes to looks (i think in my opinion), I am a stocky build, my ex - says like barney on the flintstones.
I would love to spend time doing outdoor things, especially with water sports, scuba diving, water skiing and things,
Want to enjoy companionship, mabye some traveling and other fun things.
I am someone who likes things simple, and am not looking to control someone's life, just want to fit in a little and enjoy some time together.
Hopefully find the right person to enjoy the later years of life together. I think at this point in life a friend is the most important part of the relationship, someone to enjoy walking, talking, watching tv, riding bikes, just doing nothing.
I want to find an honest woman, someone who also has worked hard in her life, someone who feels pain, feels happiness, feels sadness, and feels love
Someone who doesnt wan to spend the rest of her life alone, but share it with someone who she can call her best friend.
If what you have read doesnt scare you away feel free to email, with any other questions you may have.
Date people from United States. I enjoy driving on a warm sunny day with my dog as my copilot. If you've pulled up next to us before he's probably barked a few phrases at you. My dog and I go walking and running at Dog Beach in Huntington without our leashes on often. I've been away from online dating for a while now, and decided to give this another try.
I'm a quiet kind of guy with a dry sense of humor. I can be mischievous like my dog, or calm, affectionate, and caring. I'm slender, like to stay in shape, and love the outdoors. I'm most comfortable wearing jeans and a nice shirt, but will dress up nicely also. I've traveled extensively in my career, now I would like to travel more for pleasure. It would be great to share that with someone. I'm looking for my female counterpart; a woman who is honest, affectionate, likes to stay in shape, and loves walking on the beach barefoot. Most important to me is honesty. I really am the age I put down, and I am slender and choose to stay that way.
I love to cook. My father was a chef, so it must run in the blood, right? I love listening to all types of music; it just depends on my mood at the time as to what I want to listen to. Nothing beats live music to me however, concert or local place. Kicking back with a nice glass of wine and watching a movie is great too. I do enjoy the solitude, but I would rather have somebody next to me and sharing feelings with me; watching a great sunset, hearing the waves, sharing a great wine, cooking, etc. I've found that it would be better to share life's moments with someone. I guess that would be my soul mate? I am looking for a long term relationship. I don't get jealous or possessive. I am a one woman kind of guy when I find someone I like. My friends and daughters say I'm too picky, but I'm not looking for perfect. I only want one...
Meet men and women from United States. Hello, it's me, from a to z...altruistic, balanced, chivalrous, diverse, energetic, fun, grounded, hopeful, inquisitive, joyful, kind, loving, masculine, nice, optimistic, passionate, quirky, romantic, smart, thoughtful, unique, valiant, witty, xenophilic, youthful, and zesty.
I am looking for someone to share life's moments with. And take it from there. A friendship and relationship may be in the future, if our journey leads us that way. It's all about enjoying being with each other and sharing moments, while appreciating our differences and understanding each other. An achievable and positive balance that is both complementary and nurturing.
Thank you for visiting my profile, and if we are both interested, let's see what happens. Like my wonderful mother said to me many times growing up, "nothing ventured, nothing gained."
Date a man from United States. Hi, I'm a real European man looking for interesting experiences to share with a real woman and partner,- one who knows how to share a good converstaion and enjoys good company. Let's start from there and see where life leads us!
I was born in Africa and raised in Europe so I am a well travelled and worldly wise. This has also given me a great interest in many different cultures and places. Where have you been or do you want to visit?
I believe a good view, an invigorating hike or exciting new venue are all much better when shared with a soulmate..Likewise music, art shows, cooking, fine dining and wines are meant to be shared, along with the deep conversations and opinions such things evoke.
Please feel free to say "hello" anyway and we can start to get to know each other. It would be interesting to know what you are thinking of anyway - (hmm, come to think of it , wouldn't that be a useful talent to have!). I enjoy good romance too and know a man can be strong and show his feelings too.
I was looking after a friend's Alpaca ranch near Santa Barbara. An amazing experience with 151 alpacas, 2 llamas, 2 horses, and huge dog called Bear. We even had a successful live birth and saw lots of coyotes too. I can post pics if you're interested.
By the way I'm living in San Mateo now, despite what it says on this profile... Oh yes and now I know you really need a good sense of humor here, so that's something we'll both need to bring to our relationship. Until then, keep smiling and laughing.
I enjoy great music from classical, new world music, British rock, soul, even disco and KLove too. I enjoy introducting people to artists like Vanessa Mae and El Divo in concert and my kids enjoy making me hear the latest hip-hop or whatever's on 99.7!
I have lived all over the world and enjoy getting involved in community activities with both my local school and church to make a difference and build a better world. I have recently been travelling and working in Asia and the EU, both places of great change right now. I love the people of both continents, the old world and the new world for me. Have you been there?
Yes, I keep young and active by playing and mentoring youth in outdoors sports such as soccer, swimming, golf and hiking and indoors with yoga, books, cooking, fine foods and wine with party games given the chance.What do you like to do?
Meet someone special from United States. I work hard and reward myself for it.
My friends and co workers describe me as funny, kind, friendly, and I'm a romantic. I am raising two beautiful girls and left my attention to that cause. I do home schooling so it keeps me busy. My oldest graduated this last June fro UCSB. My youngest will be 13.
I have minded my own business and left dating alone, but (even with two wonderful daughters in my home) I tend to get lonely and wish to have someone I can share with.
I can't say enough how I love to be in the company of a sweet, cute, and exciting girl. But, I need a friend above all! I don't mix well with someone that feels I can be second place and a friendship is fair weather. I want to feel that when you smile it has something to do with me. I believe in a daily dose of romance for distractions of a good kind.
(Yeah, there are few of us still out here!)
Date a soulmate from United States. I am warm-hearted, genuine, and funny wrapped in a semi-serious skin (which I’m slowly shedding). My purpose is to live in the present, love more, and learn. I am passionate about relationships, the planet, nature and expressing my artistic creativity to inspire people around environmental and social issues.
I try to live an open and honest life and want co-create an authentic loving relationship with someone. I'd like a relationship where we both strive to see, accept and love ourselves and each other for who we are. I’d like a partnership of mutual support filled with friendship, humor, intimacy, passion, and a deep connection. Although we don’t need to share the same path, we most likely need to share a similar depth of commitment for self growth and spiritual expansion.
I like to hike, be in nature, read, practice Qi gong, meditate and just be with the people I love. I’ve also just discovered Reiki, a very interesting way of connecting to and healing others. I’d like to be with a woman who enjoys these types of things, too.
Some random but important thoughts about relationship and you:
I believe that being best friends is the foundation for a great relationship. So I envision exploring a relationship by first seeing what kind of friends we can be.
I’m looking for someone of similar age, and with a similar apporoach to being in relationship. I’m not at my best with either too much tumultuousness or avoidance. Of course physical attraction is important, as is a similar sense of humor, and you should know I’m a bit of an introvert.
My life has been an adventure - having never gone as I had planned, and I try to enjoy each moment. I’ve got a way to go and I’ve come a long way too. My intention is to be in a loving partnership, expand and deepen my community, spend more time in nature and create inspirational art.
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage.—Lao Tzu
Meet single man from United States. I guess I live my life always curious about what's around the next corner or what the next day will bring. It's always and adventure and the adventure is all the richer when you have the right person to share it with.
I have to say I hate writing these kinds of things. It's difficult to talk about yourself without coming off as pompous, which I'm pretty sure I'm not. At least, no one's called me pompous that I know of. On the other hand, you never know what those peons are saying behind your back, right?
Anyway, here goes: I'm a very active person. It's a rare time that you'll find me sitting on the couch. I try to keep in shape with cycling, swimming, hiking, etc. and I'm looking for someone who has, if not a similar activity level, at least a commitment to a healthy lifestyle. I'm looking for an optimist. Every day is a good day, when you consider the alternative, and it's better to focus on the positive than to sit and cry in your beer, or coffee or whatever your beverage of choice might be. I like to think that, while I'm nowhere near perfect, I'm usually very tuned in to my partner. My profession requires good listening skills and I don't leave that trait at the office. Oh, and I'm also a die-hard romantic. I know a lot of guys say that, but I truly believe that things like flowers, little gifts and random acts of affection are an essential part of a successful relationship.
Other than the aforementioned, I am looking for a partner who is confident and independent, financially responsible (I spent too many years with someone who wasn't) and capable of giving as well as receiving affection. And what I'm really hoping for is someone is is not afraid for me to look deep into her eyes while she is looking deeply into mine.