Date men from United States / California / Woodland Hills, 50 year old

Date a man from California, United States. I am a kick back type of person just like to take things slow I like to stay out of the fast lain and have a good time watch the sun set and the moon rise a long the coat in the summer time I like to find some one who like to do that to I love to play guitar I hope you like long moon lit nights and walking on the beach

Meet someone special from California, United States. MATCH FATIGUED
Someone once told me about this, I didn't understand, until .... As a non-serial dater /LTR melding kind of guy, who doesn't date much this is an eye opener. Not even counting the odd behavior here, the volume of emails, winks and options alone can turn an exuberant optimist into a dour pragmatist. But not me.
I maintain a never-say-die attitude and remain hopeful one of us will find the other. (fav quote: "no cause is lost as long as there's one fool left to fight for it" - I'm happy to be that fool) I've been fortunate to have had some great loves in my life. I know that feeling, and it's what I want one more (and last) time.
As for the ENDLESS options match presents, studies reveal we are more connected than ever before, yet more disconnected as well. All the options sites like this present overwhelm us with so many choices it hampers our decision making skills. So, it's important to remember more isn't necessarily better. I don't need quantity, just quality, just one. And you need someone to kill the spiders for you, so ... (btw, I'll pick them up and put them outside)
On the way to finding my soulmate I've discovered some interesting things about this virtual meeting stop. Perhaps you have as well? My summary:
1) You can't tell much from a profile, and pics can be just as deceiving. Talk, ask questions, if it looks like a possibility, meet. (kill the endless emails/texts)
2) With all the options, people are constantly checking to see if something better is out there. Focus on what's right in front of you
3) If someone rules you out coz your second toe is longer than the first, move on without any hesitation
4) People get hung up on differences. Rather than fear them, view them as opportunities to learn and experience new things outside oneself
5) Pay attention, act quick- attention spans here are miniscule. Momentum is lost in a heartbeat.
6) Compassionate kindness - Everyone feels better for practicing it
7) Finally, this can make one cynical, or be addicting. Have the sense to get off this thing and return to real life every now and then. It will always be here.
By now you're concluding I'm either incredibly wise, completely adorable, hopelessly romantic, or all three. Thanks, I'll take it (over the rambling lunatic hypothesis)
If you can’t let go of the �excitement’ of so much virtual attention, and focus on getting to know me, as I will for you, we are not meant to be, and I invite you to move to your next meaningless option. I'm here for just one.
Finally, because of all the untruths here, I'll state for the record, I really am 6', I own a home, I have a great job, I have hair on my head, my pictures are recent, I weigh 192 lbs (mostly muscle and bone) and I shaved two years off my age coz most searches stop there.....Hopefully you gleaned from all this that I have an active working mind, am thoughtful (as in "full of thoughts"), can read and write as well as differentiate between reality and myth.
I'm remiss to provide you with a hit list of wonderful adjectives about me, because that's YOUR discovery process. Have fun with it.
If you want to know more (and who wouldn't ?), I'm right here, available, excited to meet you.
Addendum: I've been lucky to have met some amazing women (ok, a coupla 'offs' too), but one interesting and unexpected thing coming out of this, I learned more about myself for going through these experiences than had I not. Conclusion - I think its harder today than its ever been as expectations are SO high, and so much is riding on that undefinable element - chemistry. It's sad that so many good things could happen, but these fantasies about the next best thing keep them from developing. Too much wishful thinking and living for tomorrow (for a dream). Stay in the now.
I wish you the very best in your search. It can happen, just let it. Meanwhile, I'm following that last point...