Date a soulmate from Pacifica, United States. Me:
I will open the door for you and treat you like a lady
I am personable and compassionate.
I am honest and generous (sometimes to a fault)
I am serious about my profession, yet will try not to bring it home with me.
I love to learn new things and experience different cultures.
I have never smoked and do no drugs
I would rather drink one good glass of wine verses two glasses of cheap wine
I firmly believe the expresso machine is the greatest invention of it's time
I LOVE stimulating conversation and I will respect your opinion (I may not agree.....but that's ok)
I can find humor is most things, but will not tolerate being sarcastic or hurting people
You:
Expect the door to be opened for you
Be honest.
No smoking, drugs or heavy drinking
Be willing to go off the beaten path, looking for that special experience that makes memories
You don't have to like the New York Yankees, but be willing to tolerate a game or two a year and me watching them on tv now and then. I'll return the favor and watch American Idol or something like that with you.
Be able to tolerate my cooking (actually, it's not to bad....but I like experimenting a little)
I am looking forward to the adventure :-)
Meet single man from Pacifica, United States. Windsurfing and surfing are my main activities. So naturally I am spending a lot of time at the beaches coastal and bayside, also I have a wide variety of interests and technical hobbies. I have no interest in hanging out in bars, I drink very little. I keep a low profile and have a calm demeanor. Searching for someone compassionate and humble, independent enough- yet still understands how to meter out just the right amount of neediness or purposeful vulnerability to keep it sweet and gentle fun and interesting and loving. Too independent is just cold and I like it warmer. Looking for one appreciates old fashioned American values and simple but thoughtful things like opening doors for you or making surprise gifts for you that you may find in times we are apart. I enjoy taking care of someone by paying attention to details and listening well, can hold someone quietly and safely without trying to fix them. I only expect kindness and presence. I am curious to know your past experiences, but I would never hold them against you. An average day off with me would include a skillet breakfast and a big glass of orange juice, or sometimes a smoothie, and lots of kidding around in the kitchen. After completing a couple simple chores, then taking off for hiking or biking together. Later in the afternoon when the wind picks up, I like to get in at least one windsurfing session per weekend during the summer (the windy season...) months. Perhaps you may have something to keep you busy at that time, then we can rejoin up a couple hours later. Then I make a trip to the market to get dinner, I love to cook. I am looking for someone who has the ability to be present - lack of presence is very insincere and hurtful, ie; your cell phone is always on and you always answer it or you constantly fondle it. I make an excellent pesto. I also love to eat out at great ma n pa restaurants. In the evening maybe play some ping pong in the garage, or just sit and read something side by side - I have a nice comfortable reading area set up in my house. I have travelled a lot in the past, I really don't see a lot of international travel in my future, so if your after exotic vacations, Im not your guy. I am just perfectly satisfied with being around home, or traveling around locally in California, or within the states. If you're a Liberal or support B.O. my suggested reading for you starts with the Magna Carta but don't contact me. I am kind, generous, a little quiet at first, but I am a very good caretaker of people. I like folks who find pleasure in simple things like surfing for example. Looking for one who rarely wears nail polish and doesn't mind riding around in a truck. I thank you. :-)
Date someone special from Pacifica, United States. What am I looking for in a long-term relationship?
I am looking for someone who is my life partner. Someone who is my best friend. Someone who when asked the question: “Why do you love me?” and would say: “I really don’t know because it’s just something I feel.”
So I guess what I am saying here is that I would like to be with someone who could experience and have love with and for me on a deep emotional and spiritual level.
What factors do I think will be important to ensure a lasting relationship?
1. Trust-both partners need to be able to trust each other unconditionally.
2. Emotional and Intellectual compatibility-
3. Chemistry-Intimacy is the glue that keeps a relationship together. Without intimacy most relationships are doomed.
In relationships, I have become sad when the person I love becomes selfish, demanding and egotistical. I have become sad when I realize the person I love cares more about her needs than mine. I think each partner should care about the other partner’s needs and it should never be one-sided.