Date a man from California, United States. Hi--new to Match and still learning my way around. I really don't want to post a grocery list of attributes I'm looking for in someone I hope to build a connection with; too limiting of all the great possibilities. Instead, I'll write a bit about who I am, at the risk of sounding self-involved, and see if anything resonates for you. Sound good?
Growing up in Maine and Massachusetts, I still pinch myself after 12 years in California when looking out my window at a beautiful Belmont Shore morning, or when joining friends for a weekend in Palm Springs. Or at a jazz club listening to Luciana Souza singing, or at the Hollywood Bowl hearing Tom Petty or Tony Bennett. Or roaming the halls of SFMOMA or the streets of Montparnasse. Or on a hike in the hills with friends and dogs, or a bike ride along the coast. I'm always amazed at my good fortune and the amazing adventure my life has become, and can't wait to see who I meet to share it with.
Yeah, you can tell from that last comment that I'm a romantic at heart. Flashes of cynicism, perhaps, but then I listen to Johnny Hartman and John Coltrane perform "Lush Life," or read an Edna St. Vincent Millay sonnet, or see a Rodin sculpture, and any semblance of cynicism disappears. Candlelight, good red wine, the scent of a perfume or sweep of a sundress in summer tends to have a similar effect, especially if we're building a clear connection together.
I love my work as a professor of English--and no, that doesn't mean I'll correct your grammar or show up to a date with red pen in hand. No need to be anxious on that score. I read regularly and have a stack of novels (from Charlotte Bronte to Michael Connelly) on the bedside table, and I try to write whenever I can (but lately that has been more grant writing and less creative writing). More importantly, I enjoy talking about shared films, novels, theater, jazz performances, tv—yeah, I’m just as passionate about discussing an episode of “Curb Your Enthusiasm” or “Mad Men” as I am a South Coast Rep. performance.
One of the best aspects of my work is seeing my first-generation college students head off to Cal or SC or Cal State, finally becoming confident in their own potential for success. Education is important to me not as a cultural expectation, but for the things it helps us achieve with our lives. People who define new dreams and challenges, and then set out to achieve them in positive, life-affirming ways, are really the kind of people I tend to surround myself with.
So, now that I've rambled on and on, if any of this resonates for you, let's talk.
Oh, that headline: A reference to Dean Martin. Prefer to listen with an Old Fashioned in hand; happy to mix up two.
Meet single man from California, United States. First, I got scammed so be on the lookout!!! Seriously....
Well I would say I'm pretty committed to work, almost to a fault but in the past few years have learned to balance work with life so I'm in a pretty good place right now. I'm definitely a relator who cares about others and always willing to help or offer a hand when needed. I like to cook but know that I'm not a Food Network Star by any means.
I grew up in Wa state and left for So Cal after college. I've worked in the automotive finance industry since 1986. I'm pretty much a phanatic when it comes to working out. I use our gym at work twice a day. I'm a snacker so gotta workout to compensate ya know.
I like to keep things simple and don't necessarily have to be doing something exciting to be entertained. Looking for someone who has similar interests in both work and life and someone who likes to laugh, stay in or eat out and get away occasionally.
I travel for work so have been able to see the country and experience new cstates and cities. So far NYC is a favorite.
My love for sports has me coaching basketball in the So Bay. Love to see kids grow up and knowing you had an impact on their life is an awesome feeling.
Date someone special from California, United States. Let's see...most of my friends would describe me as fun-loving with a good sense of humor, loyal, honest, passionate and considerate of others. In terms of my physical appearance, a lot of people say I look like a mixture of Donny Osmond, Pete Sampras and George Clooney (unlike those three, I can't sing, can't swing a tennis racket to save my life, and I haven't dated many supermodels). I try to keep in shape by going to the gym three times a week, and I usually do some cardio almost every day. You can also find me riding my bike along the beach, exploring new restaurants, or checking out what's playing at the local cineple (love going to movies). If a long-term relationship were to develop, I'm open to the idea of starting a family.
My ideal match would be someone who is a good conversationalist, fun-loving, somewhat sane, emotionally available, considerate, and has a good sense of humor. Someone who is physically attractive, active and who would like to join me exploring all that southern California has to offer. Someone who believes in the "Golden Rule" (no, not the one about who has the gold rules, nor the belief that money should be the standard by which people should be judged). I would prefer that you live within the Los Angeles/Orange County area. ALSO, PLEASE HAVE A PHOTO POSTED IF YOU DESIRE A RESPONSE...HEY, YOU'VE ALREADY SEEN ME, AND I WANT TO SEE YOU!
Meet a soulmate from California, United States. Just looking around here to see what I can see. I'll add more if I'm interested. I wish it were simpler to just look at the website without giving all this information first. But I guess they want to get you locked in.
Date a man from United States. I am a humble,calm and respectful man with 50 years of age and life experience.I’m easy going,independent, responsible, hard-working, self supporting and organized. I love camping, boating, bike riding, Wii tennis, Wii bowling (regular bowling too), badminton, and playing with my 2 labs. I enjoy to go fishing,enjoy movies inside home or theater, I also enjoy plays and concerts. I enjoy going to Football games baseball and boxing matches as well. I love the pool, beach and lake.....but my family and friends mean a lot to me. I have 1 cat and 2 dogs who make me happy each waking moment.I don’t like exercise unless it is through an activity like the ones listed above or through working around the house or in the yard, etc.
Meet single man from United States. Well am Bill by name and am single with one son and am on here looking for someone to take him as her own son...Am on here looking for the right one and someone who will love me for who i am and not what i have....
Date someone special from United States. Just like you, I'm here on Match.com hoping to meet that special someone, soulmate, lover and best friend. I'm in a great place in my life and would like to meet someone that feels they are as well. I workout 3 times a week to keep myself in good shape. I eat healthy during the week, then on weekends all bet's are off. Definitely enjoy going to nice restaurants. I have a secure job that I love, own my own home and have never had children but am not opposed to meeting someone who does. If you would like to learn more about me send me a message. If not, I wish you the absolute best.
Meet a soulmate from United States. Single, professional male with an off beat sense of humour, looking for a trim, active, attractive, affectionate, patient (might as well ask for the world!) girl to build a long term relationship with.
I enjoy a variety of activities which includes: travel, movies, reading, swimming, dancing, scuba diving,bitching about the MAN, bike riding, museums and animals (I do like animals on the grill with butter and garlic, I hope no PETA members are reading this). I love to dance and would hope to meet someone that enjoys that also. I've won some dance contests including a "dirty dance contest" (I just rolled around in the dirt before I went into the club) I listen to a lot of music, mostly jazz, but do enjoy a wide variety of sounds.
I do one vegetarian day a week (usually Tuesday, someone asked "why Tuesday", I replied "why not?, it's as good a day as any")
I'm a hard working professional with a good sense of values instilled by my parents.
I’m 50 but most people say I don’t look a day over 49 5/8. I can still fit into clothes I wore 20 years ago.
My favourite magazine is Smithsonian (it’s great to roll up and swat flies with!) as it covers a wide range of issues (history, art, science, etc… it’s eclectic) so I really like it. If you are a Smithsonian reader, that is a plus!
My ideal mate would bring me strong coffee and breakfast in bed, and give killer back rubs and foot massages! (I did say "ideal")
In reality, I would like to meet someone who has good values, is affectionate, kind hearted, open to adventure and likes many of the activities I mentioned above. Similar background is VERY important to me (I DON'T mean that you have to be a WASP, but I would like someone that has integrity and is honest in their dealings with others, as well as an open mind, and enjoys being active. Those are very important values instilled by my family) I'd also like someone I could grow with (speaking figuratively).
I exercise every day and would like someone that is in decent shape (you don't have to bend steel bars with your bare hands but but you should be able to twist off the lug nuts on a car tire without using a wrench)
I am not religious but I try to be a good human being. I don't smoke (unless I'm on fire!) and would expect that my mate would also be a non-smoker.
I love to travel and have been to many countries including: Japan, Hong Kong, Singapore, Thailand, Australia, Costa Rica, France, plus many more. I found many things that I loved about each place. I also am crazy about Hawaii.
I do love children but wasn't fortunate enough to have any. It would be nice to have kids to take out the garbage, do yard work, clean the pool, etc.... (I hope you are laughing)
Politically, I'm a "yellow liner", pretty middle of the road, lean conservative on a few things and liberal on a few things, but don't go nuts.
If it sounds like we could work, send a note. I can send a snap if you are interested, but did not include one here, as prior to this, I dated someone who was "very determined" to be the centre of my attention. But, if you'd like one, just ask, however, I will want to know who the request is coming from.
To summarize, I'd like to meet someone who is trim, active, adventurous, open minded, loves to travel, enjoys nature, likes animals and has a good sense of values. I would encourage and support your interests and think it would be fun to be with a partner who adds a new dimension to life, I think that would add a lot to a relationship. Good values are foundations on which you can build. I am looking for a permanent life partner, I really don't want to serial date.
All the best to you in your search.
Date a man from Long Beach, United States. I love to listen and I love to share. All I ask is honesty from the lady I decide to spend time with. Having fun is a must. Enjoying each and every moment is what I want to stride for. My kids are my joy. I have two in college, one in H.S. and my little guy is in elementary. I am not looking for someone to help me take care of them. I spent 24 years in the military and very committed to taking care of my own responsibilities. I need a companion and not a care-taker. As a new user to this site, I hope to find someone who may want a brighter future with someone who is seeking the same...live each day as it comes. Thanks for viewing my profile.
Meet single man from Long Beach, United States. Ok, this is going to be hard. Cuz there is not to many left. A women who is ready to find that last one for life. And have the person they really want. without GAMES, LIES, or being CHEATED on. Well I am here all you have to do is ask, and I will tell. So if this fits you then hit me up and see if we have something. We can chat and see. I would like to get your storie.
Date someone special from Long Beach, United States. I am happy and honest (sometimes brutally?) and checking this out on the recommendation of a friend. . . there is no way for me to describe me and my ideal match as we have not yet met. I have always had three requirements in a date am good looking
Meet a soulmate from Long Beach, United States. i am a hardworking person. i have a quiet personality but am sociable with the girl that i am interested in or i love. i love watching sports and love to play golf. i am mostly a homeperson but will go out to movies and queit dinner with that special person. i also like taking stroll down the beach. i also like to take road trips especially when im with that special person. i would like to be with someone who has similar likes.