Date a soulmate from California, United States. People tend to like me because I listen and I was raised to be non-confrontational and amicable. I am grateful for the friendship and support of my son. If he is any reflection of my parenting abilities I think I did OK. I am really not trying to find my soul mate right now - I am looking for the companionship of a woman because I tire of male trash talking and hubris. That said... sometimes... if you're lucky, a relationship morphs into something you have no control over